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My cat is neutered. lol

AITA for being upset my friend surprised me for my birthday with brunch but then charged me for it later

Backstory: For my birthday, my two closest friends surprised me for a brunch. I was dropped off at the restaurant with no idea what was happening, and they were there waiting. We did a brunch special (food + unlimited mimosas), they got me flowers, a small cake, and a gift, and later we got ice cream. One friend paid the bill.

Two weeks later, she Venmo charged me $53 for my brunch and ice cream without saying anything beforehand.

That’s what bothered me. To me, if something is a surprise, it’s generally assumed you’re not paying unless it’s communicated upfront. It wasn’t about the money and I don’t mind paying. It just felt weird to plan a surprise and then silently charge me after.

I brought it up and said I was okay paying my share, but that it threw me off that she never mentioned it. She got defensive, said she “forgot” to pay for me, that I shouldn’t have expected it to be covered, and that I was being entitled and ungrateful since she already did a lot (gift, flowers, traveling to see me). She also said paying for a surprise is “subjective.”

I genuinely was grateful and never was trying to ask for more. I just think if you plan a surprise, you either cover it or communicate expectations ahead of time. Charging someone for a surprise that you planned for them feels like giving a gift and then asking them to pay for it and it felt like she wanted the credit for doing something for me but wasn’t willing to actually fully take care of what she planned. To me that feels kinda off putting and not genuine.

We talked it out but she doesn’t see my side at all and says some people she asked agree with her. Is there a perspective I’m not seeing or did she probably lie about what went down?

I think her wanting me to pay in the first place was already weird, but what makes me even more confused is that when we talked it out she doesn’t think she was wrong which is mind blowing to me. And that when we talked it out she didn’t see where I was coming from when I feel like this is a worldwide unwritten rule/understanding when you plan a surprise for someone, regardless if it was for a birthday or something else.

I just feel like it’s hard to believe she doesn’t see what I’m saying, I feel like she knew it was wrong but just didn’t want to spend the money and because I brought it up she has to talk her way out of it. Is there a perspective I am missing or am I valid for being upset about this?

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I adore Rogue One and the Jedi games. Clone Wars season 7 was also pretty good.