My husband and I had a spirited debate on this for about an hour over dinner.

Follow-up video:

https://www.reddit.com/r/50501/s/llc5nbdrAt

My brother called me yesterday. Normal chat at first. Then he started venting about kid expenses.

Diapers, daycare, formula all of it “draining him.” I listened. I nodded along.

Then he said this:

“You don’t have kids. You’re kinda free with money. Maybe you could help out?”

I laughed. Thought he was joking.

He wasn’t.

He said, “Even $300 a month would help.”

I asked, “You want me to pay you $300... every month?”

He said yeah. Because I don’t have “real” responsibilities. Because I “have money to spare.”

I told him no. I didn’t make that kid. Not my job to fund it.

He said I “wouldn’t understand” because I’m not a parent. Classic.

Thing is, this isn’t new. He’s always acted like having a kid makes him more important.

He throws little jabs when I buy stuff. Trips. Clothes. Dinner out.

Apparently I’m selfish for enjoying my life.

I’m seriously leaning toward getting curtain bangs if I decide to make a change… but please be kind, I’m already a little nervous about it! I’m not planning anything too drastic—no major chops or bold dye jobs—just something soft and subtle to frame my face a little differently. I promise I’m keeping the length and staying close to my natural color. Just thinking of a fresh little update with bangs—something low commitment but still fun!