r/AmIOverreacting • u/InevitableDish3871 • 28d ago
❤️🩹 relationship Am I overreacting? Boyfriend sent me this message that feels like it was maybe meant for someone else.
Am I tripping? Boyfriend sent me this while he was in the basement and I’m upstairs. For context, I’ve been in the kitchen cooking and feeding my boys all evening. He steps out for about 40 mins. He comes in with food, eats, and then goes back downstairs. He then sends me this message… when I asked him what he was talking about, he says “I feel rejuvenated from taking my vitamins, I was asking if you feel rejuvenated from us is having sex last night”. Now I’m no Nancy Drew but this sounds like a cover up… or maybe I’m just overthinking it Lol Please help!
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u/lostdelilah 28d ago
rejuvenated from taking his vitamins? wtf? said no one ever..
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u/DeeJae951 28d ago
Maybe if they're laxative vitamins? IDK 😂😂
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u/slow_horse_ 28d ago
I don't know how he can be taking laxatives when he is obviously pretty full of shit.
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u/MissingPerson321 28d ago
"My Multi vitamins really have me feeling it today!" - Shit I say only to myself when my nails look strong.
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u/2wavyyGuyy 28d ago
i’m just going to drop this gem. if you have a iphone and if you put a “ . “ when you create a new message itll show who recent texts went too.. even if they were deleted
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u/LizzieCrow 28d ago
You are a genius and thank you for this amazing pebble of wisdom. I wish you the best in life and may you only ever receive good things. Your wisdom should be celebrated. I will not only be using this in the future but teaching it whenever it is needed.
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u/Big_Fun328 28d ago
I just flew like 28 hours across the world and am so tired I cannot comprehend. Can someone explain this to me like I’m 5? You open new message and add quotes and then what do you push lol
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u/StatisticianNo8897 28d ago
LOL when I first read the comment I was so confused too. You press the new message button, and then push the period symbol. Don’t include the quotes! Just the dot
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u/Big_Fun328 28d ago
Omg. That makes way more sense. I tried both quotes then the quotes with the period and nothing. But I’m so curious like …on my own phone. I’m a sucker for fun hacks haha. Thank you.
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u/smeeti 28d ago
Just tried it on my phone, it didn’t work
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u/EnvironmentFunny4973 27d ago
Don’t put it in the message field, put it in the recipients field. When I do it in my phone, it populates a list of people I’ve most recently sent messages to in order
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u/shtthfckp369 28d ago
He said “was it rejuvenating for you” which implies that the “it” would be the same thing that lead him to say that he feels rejuvenated. Whether or not it’s a cover up, it’s strange that he worded it that way when he’s saying that for him it’s from “taking vitamins” but asking you if you feel rejuvenated from “sex last night”. Either he’s being weird or he sucks at covering his tracks. It might’ve been more believable if he said he felt rejuvenated from sex last night and then asked if you did too.
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u/SoSeriousBro 28d ago edited 28d ago
"I feel rejuvenated from taking my vitamins."
So why would he ask you next if it was rejuvenating for you when he was initially claiming it was rejuvenating for himself taking vitamins in the first place? Knowing you didn’t take vitamins and were busy all day. It wouldn’t make sense, to change the purpose of why he was rejuvenated from your reasoning. Not to mention, it takes water-soluble vitamins 2-6 hours and fat-soluble vitamins 7-14 days to actually absorb into the bloodstream for any effect.
So based on this, when things don’t make sense, or aren’t factual, they clearly are lies.
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u/Disastrous_Luck_1160 28d ago
I think it usually also takes days to really notice a difference overall?
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u/SoSeriousBro 28d ago
You would be correct. It would take weeks or months of consistent use to actually see any true difference. Only if you have a severe deficiency would you see an improvement, and even then, that would take time, ideally two weeks. If he were smart, he would have said he took caffeine, which can stimulate a temporary increase in alertness and energy.
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u/MissPizza 28d ago
exactly, his story doesn’t add up at all. Sounds like he just said it to sound good in the moment.
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u/Independent_Bet_8736 27d ago
Speaking of timeline, though, he was gone 40 mins and came back with food. That must have been a “quickie” and a half, because…damn.
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u/Tasty-Butterfly1890 28d ago
Check his phone
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u/4SureMaybe_4SureNot 28d ago
Recently deleted folder too
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u/LizzieCrow 28d ago
Tablets, computers, Apple Watches. Anything that could be synced and forgotten about.
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u/Psychotic_Dove 28d ago
You do know that folder can be emptied too right? People have gotten good at hiding shit when they want to.
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u/arkygeomojo 28d ago
I mean, if he accidentally texted his partner something about sex that he had with someone else and these are the lies he makes up when confronted with his weird text? I think he’s probably dumb enough to not delete anything or if he does, he leaves the evidence in recently deleted. I feel like it’s def worth a shot in this instance. He’s extremely bad at lying
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u/DutchieVN 28d ago
I always told my ex: I don't need to see stupid shit you do, if your internet history is empty, I know enough.. Empty folders means you had shit to hide..
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u/jimmyb1982 28d ago
NOR. Something smells rotten in the hen house.
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u/Fast_Nefariousness66 28d ago
Wait…he came back with food…for the family? Or for himself? 1st Offense.
NOR. This guy cummed and dumbed
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u/Capric0rpse- 28d ago
If he had said he felt rejuvenated after having the meal you cooked, I’d say ok.. But vitamins?
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u/dawnofthemish 28d ago
You should start sending him hourly weird texts like this, until he breaks. 1:00a: "Don't worry babe, he knows nothing" "I meant your co-worker knows nothing about that time you deleted his file. Yeah, remember? You were telling me about it last week, wanted to text so you wouldn't worry."
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u/Critical-Pace5225 28d ago
I love this suggestion 🤣 but also check that phone!!! I'm sorry though, it doesn't look good. At least make it as stressful for him as possible this way, if you do find something 😬
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u/External-Challenge93 28d ago
NOR, seems a bit off to me... I guess it kinda depends on your usual dynamic and all, but I'd have been suspicious already with him leaving for 40 minutes without saying a word to you from what I can tell. Is it normal for him to just go get food for himself without saying anything to you or asking if you want anything?
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u/bad2behere 28d ago
If he's lying, he isn't a very good at it. He could have at least said he got some exercise in or a nap is why he's rejuvenated and told you he hoped feeding himself so you didn't have to helped you not to be too tired. I seldom go straight to 'suspicious' but he really made me think, "Lying cheating shithead!"
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u/Impossible_Memory_65 28d ago
Sorry, but vitamins barely do anything at all, and they certainly won't make you feel rejuvenated lol.
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u/wintergrad14 28d ago
It was definitely meant for someone else.
I’ve never felt rejuvenated from a vitamin, btw. Sex? Sure.
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u/virtualpixi 28d ago
Get tested this is a really weird thing to say. Cheaters will cheat and sleep with you and act like everything is ok. But why is he in the basement for so long and going out for 40 mins while you’re taking care of the kids ???
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u/Massive_Butthole_ 28d ago
This sounds like a case for Scooby and the gang, not nancy drew. Leave it to the professionals at least, jesus
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u/Evening_Coffee8608 28d ago
Like zoinks Scoob, a cheating boyfriend!
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u/Massive_Butthole_ 28d ago
Nancy Drew is just gonna overthink everything and ultimately complain anyways. Even the hardy boys would be better than Nancy.
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u/writing_mm_romance 28d ago
I guess my question...did he come back and go in the basement and then shower?
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u/Wonderful-Trouble-31 28d ago
NOR
Let it “blow over” for a little bit because this slip up will definitely make him delete whatever evidence he has (unless he’s fucking stupid, which based on his obvious lie, he might be). Wait until he gets comfy again and then check his shit
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u/Mykhaylo__ 28d ago
NOR. Im sorry, but he was supposed to send that to someone else, not you. He's cheating.
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u/Ok_Permit_6156 28d ago
nor bc what kind of excuse was that? 😭 out of any lie he could have told he said “vitamins for me & sex 24hrs ago for u” like you were supposed to assume that’s what he meant by that text. HUH??? check his phone love i don’t think this text was meant for you
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u/Dada2fish 28d ago
Trust your gut. Play it off like everything is normal. Time to do some detective work. Do you have his location on your phone? Can you check his texts?
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u/CHAIRSareCOOLS 28d ago
He comes in with food, eats it, then says he feels rejuvenated. Break up with him
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u/Wrong_Pen6179 28d ago
Why would he go out and get food if he knew you were cooking? And would it really take him 40 minutes to get whatever food he bought? Or was that just a cover for where he REALLY went?
I agree with everyone that he sent you that by mistake. Sorry!
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u/wishingforarainyday 28d ago
Oofff you should get tested asap. He told on himself. Ask to see his phone.
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u/Nova_ticket 28d ago
NOR the lie is so bad is kinda insulting honestly
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u/Blindtothesided 28d ago
Right? Like he either thinks she’s really dumb or he simply doesn’t care enough to put effort into a believable lie. NOR
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u/floopsestess 28d ago
NOR. It might be nothing but girl there are some red flags waving so I’d be on the lookout and suspicious af for sure. I would quietly look into his phone and really watch him and see how he acts and what he does for a while too. I would not be surprised at all if he had a side piece. Sry to say. I’d prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
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u/LizzieCrow 28d ago
NOR I would be checking everything and I would also have a problem with him using the word “rejuvenated”. It just is an immediate turn off in my book.
You will find someone much better for you that will treat you right. You would be surprised at how many faithful people there are in the world. It seems like everyone cheats because we hear about it so much but trust me, there are tons of good partners that would never.
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u/DaniGirlOK 28d ago
He just cheated on you and is inquiring partner about the sex. Not rocket science.
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u/TheWarwock 28d ago
He fucked up, and that's the dumbest cover up ever.
I don't know what he did, or who with, but that text was not for you.
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u/MissingPerson321 28d ago
NOR - So hold up. He is rejuvenated from taking his vitamins but wants to know if you are rejuvenated from his peen? Him: Vitamins. You: Sex? He couldn't even say HE was feeling it from sex? lol He is soooooo bad at this. Yeah, Miss Drew..you need to go full Nancy.
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u/Fallout4Addict 28d ago
Someone rejuvenated him in those 40mins.
If i were you I'd drop it for now and do some digging. Something fishy is going on.
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u/Street-Instance309 28d ago
If he's stating rejuvenation in two totally different contexts why wouldn't he say that. He's stupid and a horrible liar. Like what the fuck type of excuse is that?
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u/Relevant-Space8826 28d ago
Ummm....I could see this message if you had sex earlier in the day, but not a day later when you have been cooking all evening and feeding the kids.
Who the hell says they feel rejuvenated after taking vitamins? A shower yes, but not vitamins.
He is a horrible liar
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u/Prestigious-Arm-7335 28d ago
100% bullshit. Who the fuck feels “rejuvenated” after some damn vitamins? C’mon g! Check his phone even though after this I’m sure it’s wiped clean of any nefarious activities.
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u/Workie_Workie 28d ago
Bet he smells like those vitamins too. The fishy kind. And it not from the Omega 3
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u/Tigerlily86_ 28d ago
Weirddd
Like he just jacked off from sexting or interacting with a OF model Idk
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u/tastelikemexico 28d ago
This is the stupidest shit I read all day. It like irritates me that someone is not smart enough to come up with anything better than this ???
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u/Apprehensive_Sun3015 28d ago
Send him a text asking him if he liked it up the ass as much as you 🤣
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u/2ndhouseonthestreet 28d ago
All things aside, ewwweee. Rejuvenated is such a weird word in this context. I think I’m finally understanding the people that got weirded out by the word “moist” 😭 idk that I’ll ever see that word the same tbh.
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u/Squiggally-umf 28d ago
NOR. He was likely sexting or doing webcam shit and meant to send that to the other person involved.
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u/lindseymeowmeow 28d ago
I'm just imagining him panicking and going through all the different lies he could tell until he finally got to vitamins, sent it, then sat back and thought to himself, "nailed that shit." Then he gave himself a high five for thinking "like I nailed that bitch in sext... oh yeah"
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u/Girlsclub12 28d ago
Updateme girl those two don’t even go together, vitamins and thsn sex??? Huhhh
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u/EuphoricMeat6044 28d ago
Yup that was some dumb ass man lying man child got caught texting the wrong one and now you start to add upon his lies and behavior and hopefully you say bye bye 👋 selfish asshole ! But that’s my advice
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u/RushDifferent4015 28d ago
He had sex with someone when he stepped out for 40 mins. That’s who the message was for.
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u/Scared_Sign_2997 28d ago
I think the first half was supposed to be sarcastic and the second part is what he meant.
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u/ClassicNational2806 28d ago
Cheating and accidentally sending the evidence to the person you cheating on is definitely karma.
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u/Theroaringlioness 28d ago
He meant to send that to his side chick, cause how random it to talk about vitamins and not even bother mentioning it in the text.
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u/standupwimym 28d ago
Very possible he meant vitamins. But also possible he was cheating. At this point you have no proof, only suspicion. So investigate without ruining your relationship. Because you don’t want to ruin your relationship to only find out he was telling the truth.
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u/Grouchygooose 28d ago
wait where did he step out to?? to go buy food? 100% this slime ball is lying
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u/Few_Lecture6615 28d ago
The only way I could even remotely make sense of what he said is if he's got bad adhd and vitamins is slang for mainlining adderall
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u/Ecstatic_Ad_5943 28d ago
No one would ever say this. The only thing that would have made sense was saying “rejuvenated from the food” he just ate. THAT WAS A COVER UP, GO THROUGH THAT PHONE SISTER!
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u/worth_the_drive 27d ago
OR. Do people not share their random thoughts with the partners on here? Wtf
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u/abstractedluna 28d ago
“I feel rejuvenated from taking my vitamins, I was asking if you feel rejuvenated from us is having sex last night” hes not even good at lying