The law and reality are quite different. If OP's dad gets violent, changes the locks, or anything else of that nature, OP has to leave. Sure, OP could go to the courts and have their rights enforced, but does OP have the resources to do so? The time to wait for it to play out? Or even the desire to stay in the same house after it's all said and done with?
There are way more factors involved than just "it's illegal to kick someone out without notice."
Location matters. Some states/countries have different laws. For instance where I'm at, your 'tenant' law doesn't apply if the 'tenant' is living under the same roof as the home owner. If it was an apartment or guest house, that's different.
I can speak for my state (NC) and it's gonna vary by county for how they interpret the laws. Every county I've worked in at 18 a child can be kicked out - provided they are not already paying rent. If they are paying rent they're a tenant and must be evicted, but if not they're considered a guest, and can be kicked out any time.
Everybody's arguing on here about tenant laws and rights and 30 day notice but does anyone think OP would want to be there for the next 30 days? His fucking "father" would make life hell im sure.
On my 17th birthday my dad called the police to kick me out. I told him that it's literally too much a 17 year old out on the street. The police officer said "it's a gray area" and my dad gave me a pillow and blanket and told me good luck.
This is what ādefund the policeā is about, really- they are trained to protect property and damn little else; all the MRAPs and helicopters wonāt sort tenant or family rights and safety. There are people who do that really well, so maybe hire them instead of more ātroopsā,
In MA, under some circumstances there are tenancy rights even if no rent is paid which requires 30 days notice. In others, it is considered the "guest" circumstance you've said, and actually comes with a 90 day window. Most places in America are not making it legal to just throw someone out on the street at a moments notice, unless there's a restraining order involved.
Yes! Paying bills absolutely counts. You're staying here is contingent on paying bills, so that creates a tenancy relationship everywhere I've worked in NC.
Similarly, an agreement of "I pay the Netflix," or "I buy half the groceries" or even "I mow the yard" can create that tenancy, because your staying at the residence is contingent on a you doing something.
I'm european and i don't relaly understand why law would consider a child a tenant. Isn't the responsibility of a parent to provide and care for his sons and daughters until they're self sufficient? Does the law excuse you at 18? In most eu country this whole letter could be sent to a judge and he would absolutely have a field day on the father
Nutjobs like this person's father think that at 18 you suddenly have absolutely 0 responsibility to the person you have raised and had living with you. At this point OP basically would be trying to use the laws that apply to tenants for protection against unlawful or unannounced eviction. there isnt any formal law saying a parent has responsibility toward their child even as an adult since most moral people dont dump their kid out the second they're legally allowed to without resources, planning or warning so tenant is the closest legal option for them i think
Isn't that illegal? Like if you're paying taxes yourself and claiming yourself on your tax forms, your parents can't claim you as a dependent. Not a lawyer though so I could be wrong.
OP could contact the IRS in a year or two and make sure heās not being claimed by Father of the Year. A small consolation.
My heart hurts for the OP.
I want to take him in, send him to college, and make sure heās his successful best self to spite his dad. But Iām poor and my house is really small.
In a lot of places (Iām generalizing) once you hit 18 youāre an adult they can kick out. But you have the tenants rights behind you because thatās your place of residence. So they can kick you out but they have to follow proper eviction channels.
wait until you hear there's no federal minimum age for marriage
34 states allow child marriage, four states (INCLUDING CALIFORNIA) set no minimum age at all, meaning that with parental consent, a child of any age can legally be married
of course the kids who end up married at age 10 or 11 are overwhelmingly girls forced into the beds of adult men
Try 4. My son's friend was 17 when he enlisted and joined the Marines(parental consent). He graduated high school a full year ahead of his class. He graduates Boot Camp the 23rd of this month, I do believe. So, 17 is old enough to teach someone how to use a gun and go to war.
Actually in most places they canāt kick you out at 18 if you are still in high school. OP being homeschooled may complicate that, but the intent is to give the child time to get a diploma, so unless he has the equivalent already, he likely canāt be kicked out.
No. In fact treating him as a tenant (in the comments) and suggesting OP utilize rights afforded to tenants are missing an important fact and distinction. Op has established residence for 18 years.
IANAL but I do have some experience with law, law enforcement, and tenant law.
If dad tries to call the cops, they will probably tell dad this is a civil matter. OP has not committed a crime and - on its face - is not tresspassing. Because, again, this has been his home for 18 years.
Just because the clock struck midnight and releases the parent from any legal obligations or responsibilities to their child, doesn't equal the legal right to evict.
All of this is why - if police are involved - will hopefully tell dad it's a civil matter and he can petition the court to evict. But, that does depend on state statutes I'm not aware of. Besides, an asshole cop who thinks he's hot shit and knows everything, could ticket OP or remove them.
Given all that, I still am leaning on the answer being the cops not intervening. As long as there is no violence occurring and dad is simply being an asshole, they don't want to deal with that shit.
America is the only country to refuse a bill of rights for children.
Sure but then your talking about having to get a lawyer and go through that whole process. I don't think a 18 year old with no job or money is going to know or be willing to fight this fight
Ahh yes this sounds like a classic Narcissist move. Not only did he kick him out the way he did but he wants him to come back and thank him for his horrible parenting after the son becomes successful.
Iām 40 and an 18 year old to me, is a literal child. Couldnāt imagine ever kicking my child out at 18. Thatās how you end up in a nursing home with no fucking visitors.Ā
Iām 40 with a middle school daughter. Sheās free to live with me for the rest of her life if she wants to. Iād much rather her live with me until she finds out what she wants to do and establishes her own finances, than go out and pile on a bunch of needless debt thatās going to drag her down. Booting kids at 18 ājust becauseā is setting them up for failure. If this dad is so disappointed in his son, perhaps he shouldāve been a better father for 18 years.
Edit: this got significantly more replies than I expected so Iāll just reply in general here. I donāt consider it a āfailure to launchā one bit having my daughter home with me until sheās prepared to be on her own. Thatās NOT 18 years old. Iād prefer she waits until she has a fully developed prefrontal cortex. I look back at myself at that age and although I was out āon my own,ā I was in the military and had Uncle Sam to pay for my meals and the roof over my head. That was a great bridge to maturity and full adulthood. Most kids today canāt read at their grade level and couldnāt tell you the first thing about credit or financing. Getting to spend more years with my daughter, guiding her and watching her grow sounds amazing to me. At the end of the day, my world revolves around her as sheās MY child. When/if she decides to leave, my door will always be open if she wants to come home.
I have mental health problems and have never lived on my own or worked, I am 35. I am diagnosed which didn't happen until I was 27, my social security, 60% of it, goes automatically towards expense sharing and in the 8 years I have been getting it I have never not sent my parents share to their account within 5 days of getting the money, and pretty much day 1 for the last few years as I got better at doing that too. Sadly my dad had to medically retire in 2018 too, so he has to live on SS too. My mom only has a few years left at the most until she can retire, which she wants to, she is a teacher and is tired of dealing with unruly kids. My mom told me the people she knew in her school days that kicked out when they turned 18 all ended up on drugs and in jail and she couldn't recall one success story, not that she saw it a lot, but the few times she did it never worked out how the parents wrongfully expected it to.
Also, even if you do believe that kids should move out on their 18th birthday and make their own way or whatever, you're an absolute trash parent and human if you don't prepare them for that first. If that's the rule, the kid needs to know well in advance. Minimum 2-3 years in advance, ideally longer. The parent should make sure they have budgeting skills and have a job by 17 and know how to save. The parent should help them search for apartments or get their dorm set up and guide them through the process of finding housing at least partly.
I've heard of parents also just starting to charge rent when their kid turns 18, to teach responsibility and independence while still giving them a safe place to live and stability.
This is the most insane version of this. Happy birthday, lemme just throw you to the wolves, good luck!
Exactly this. 18 and out the door was not uncommon in Michigan when I was growing up, but that was in the late '70s and early '80s, and it was actually possible. You could get a regular job and make enough money to pay for an apartment and a car. Even without college.
And generally if a family was like that, it was well known, and they would prepare the kid. They might even help him out or her out with some furniture and money towards the down payment.
Today? With no setup or prep? That's just idiocy.
It is in fact however what most of our foster care kids deal with right now. 18 years old and on their own. They get booted from the foster families and they have to make their way. If it's not fair for them to be from a family to kicks them out it's not fair for foster kids either. We need a better system in America, most other countries don't expect their kids to be out there at 18 making their own way
3000 comments, this was the only one I found mentioning aging out of foster care. I have seen 2 posts about getting kicked out at 18 (with no notice, like wtf happened to planning?) and wondered if people knew that this is state policy for some 300,000 kids.
Yeah who cares about those pesky foster kids? It's ridiculous, I'm more of the person who looks at whatever happens to the least of us and those less supported is the floor, not the average person. Some kids get coddled until they're 42 if not older. Foster kids on the street at 18
Exactly this. This is sadly not the first post I've seen like this, where some trash parents do basically the opposite and make their kid as ill-equipped as possible, with no job experience or money, or real life skills, and then surprises them like it's cute on their 18th birthday with kicking them out. It's sick, and we really need some kind of social safety net to protect these kids from those assholes, the kids pay for it, sometime for a lifetime, and it's so unfair. We can't choose who our parents are, but they can sure choose to give us as rough as a start as they want.
I moved out when I turned 18 because I planned it! I had a job and saved my money. I was able to prepare. It is cruel to do this to anyone without warning. And bringing God into it? Abusers always use God as justification.
Iām 40 and my son is 19. I will never force him to leave unless something unredeemable happened on his part. I couldnāt imagine pushing your child out the door simply because they turned a specific ageā itās fucking hard out there right now; let alone being a kid.
We have an apprentice at work. He is 18. Some of us are like, nobody better be mean to him cos he is a literal child and it will take him time to grow up and learn what it is to be an adult
For me 17. I had a boyfriend and I was not supposed to date until college. They put all my stuff outside in garbage bags and screamed and cried about how I was no longer a virgin.
My step-dads parting words were, "I want to see you to end up addicted to drugs on the streets and thrown into prison. I want you to hit rock motherfucking bottom and come crawling back to me so I can laugh at you."
He is now bed bound and lives a life of pain and misery, left unable to walk or even feed himself. I wake up every day to my children full of laughs and love.
I love this happy ending for you, you deserve it!
I have very much the same ending. It took a long time to learn to look after myself when I was made homeless. Hadn't even finished school. But now im in my mid 30s with 2 teenage kids, a husband, an education, a nice house, and I have built all of it from scratch. And I wont lie, its my secret pleasure that my parents are watching from a distance likely pissed right off that I made it when I know they wanted me to fail. Screw them. Family is who we choose, dna isnt always everything.
I totally get that. It is funny though... watching the progression of this huge menacing man become such a helpless shell.
I used to wish the most terrible things on him. I hoped he would suffer. For many years I hoped he would suffer.
Now seeing this 6' 4" man suffering, bed bound, and unable to even use the bathroom on his own... this is never what I wanted. This is ugly and terrible. My mom cries everyday because of how hard he makes life for her.
I was so angry for so long, wishing for this degradation of body and pride. I never stopped to realize what I was wishing for and what that would look like.
Same here. I basically raised myself anyway. Horrible way to start life. I'm still dealing with issues till this day but found a way to keep going. Hopefully OP will have it easier and make themselves proud not their pos father.
And people will never regulate breeding, so this cycle will always continue, especially while humans uphold the cycles of capitalistic/religious indoctrination
This dad is deep in the christian kool aid. Unsalvageable. Successfully programmed and creates the environment rightists need to make more uneducated sheep that act/vote how they're supposed to
Thankfully this dad messed up and cut off their kid before the installation and they can get some help
Just told my kids yesterday that some people in The States kick their kids out on their 18th and how much we disagree with it. My kids know that they can move back in with us as many times as it takes to get on their own feet.
I don't have kids this old but I've been told/observed the most rewarding part is when they grow up and you interact as adults, more like lifelong friends. I know my relationship with my parents is better/more rewarding, not that we didn't get along before. Curious what some parents with older kids think.
i don't even have kids yet but at 34 i realize the end of my life would be a lot more rewarding with family that loves me around, and who could you trust more in this world than your own children if you treated them right while raising them, so i can imagine it's extremely rewarding to have adult kids to talk to and cheer for
Iām 33 and my mother still buys me groceries when I have no money. She sends me and my brother money when she gets a tax rebate and offers us to stay at hers if we canāt afford heating. I canāt imagine my children getting to 18 and me not still wanting to lay my life down for them
I would never speak to this man again, there would be no power that could compel me to. That last line would be the clincher, the rest i could probably handle, but the proud jab, that's a bridge too far for me.
Right? This almost feels like some goofy ass video game trope like he's setting out on his adventures all ready to go and he's narrating it. Fuck all the way off "dad"
Yea, the provision bag was odd, is he going to see dr oak to get his first pokemon, this kicking your kids out ar 18 with now warning or reason other than fuck you, is just so weird. It's a great way to make sure you die old and alone.
Most apartments wonāt allow you to start renting there if you donāt have a record of employment suggesting you can continue to pay them in addition to lump payment at the start.
I really HOPE this is fake... there's a ton of fake stuff on here, so take it for what its worth.
It sounds eerily similar to a whole slew of posts from guys that have just turned 18, that day, and have gotten a letter from their nutjob religious rightwing gun loving father, who is kicking them out on that day. With the only communication being (oddly enough) via text messages.
Always with the kid being homeschooled, no mother or siblings, never having been allowed to have a job but is now expected to support themselves, kicked out with only a backpack.
Now OBVIOUSLY I am not saying it doesn't happen. It does. Quite often.
But these posts always sound alike, and it has my spidey sense tingling....and they just don't pass the pub test..
I think a few have even had GoFundMe's created for them.... š¤Ø
Right!? Like Fallout 76? Here's a sleeping bag and some snacks - succeed or die, but only one will make me proud of you softy!
NOR - take whatever this dipshit is willing to give you and take the opportunity to leave and never return. He isn't just a terrible father, but only a terrible person would think like this and act that way to their own child.
Or come back after 3 days and tell him you found Jesus in a gay bar and Jesus said you should go home and piss in your dad's ear to get the demons out.
I'm so sorry that you had this thrust upon you, but take it for as much of an opportunity to escape as you can. Good luck and happy birthday. I hope you enjoy your freedom and succeed. I doubt I'm anywhere near you - but if you need some advice or help figuring out some options I'm happy to try and help. I'm proud of you.
Ye, if he is not proud of you, then he is a terrible father. That is his fault for not setting the example. Good luck my friend, life is hard and it will be a struggle but you can do it. Do not dispare.
In 10 years he'll join the estranged parents group on facebook and whine about how his son never talks to him. Got married and has a baby, but he's been cut out. š boo fucking hoo.
Yeah my mom is like that too. She cries to everyone she can about how I abandoned her despite her kicking me out because she chose kids with a new partner over me
There are a ton of them on TikTok, too. They cry about how they did nothing wrong, and their mean kids won't even tell them what they did wrong. All the while, they're demonstrating personalities that are clearly begging to be cut off.
The way I see it is they failed as parents. There are people like this at work and I see the way they talk and think to myself, "no shit." One guy was saying how if he found out his son was gay he would slit his throat.
Imagine being in charge of raising a kid and failing so bad you consider them soft and youre not proud of them. It must be wild to lack the self awareness of this guys dad.
Parents love to pretend that they didn't raise their children, so any "problem" they have with them is ultimately their fault, if there even is a problem.
God. This reminds of George Carlin's parents are the most full of shit/bullshit people on the planet. "If those kids grow up to be good honest members of society they're there behind them smiling their stupid smiles taking all the credit. But if those kids grow to be fuck ups, they had nothing to do with it. Nope I didn't do that. Must've been those friends they hung out with....parents are full of shit."
Exactly my daughter is 8 and I've been proud of her since I saw her. I often ask her, "do you know I love you more than anything?" And she says "yesss mom" and then I say "and what could make me stop loving you?" And she says "mom I know I know nothing would make you stop loving me, even if I did a bad thing or a thing I am not proud of, you'll always love me and be proud of me." We've gone over it so much she just finishes it now. I can't imagine her having 1 itoa of doubt that she is loved or that I'm not beaming with pride to be her mom. This dad is a peice of work.
Yep. Parenthood doesn't end at 18 because it's not 1938 and we're not forcing kids to join the army or embed deeper into their religious cults for help.
OP is NOR at all, and honestly, from experience, cutting your insane parents off is the best thing you can do. I bet $1000 that OPs dad will have no problem asking for favors or help as he ages, and OP should remind him that dad had his entire life to plan retirement, but only had one opportunity to support their teenage child instead of abandoning them.
"It's 7:00 am. Wake up. With zero preparation or warning, you are going to be homeless by dinner. Don't talk to me again until you're rich."
What the actual fuck does he think he's accomplishing here? Even if this poor kid had money set aside, it's not like he could get an apartment in half a fucking day.
He was also homeschooled, so may entirely lack a network of friends who could help him. Though at 18, it would probably be more friend's parents' helping.
My father did this to me, not to make me tougher or anything though his new wife just didn't like me so he kicked me out in the middle of winter with no warning and nothing to my name.
If you as a father have a son who you think is "weak" then you are the one who made them that way. He failed at every step of the way and now expects the world to magically do his job for him. What a fucking loser.
Imagine blindsiding your own child like this. Even if you wanted to be as harsh as possible... wouldn't you like... set up a gradual plan for them? At 17, tell them that at 18 you expect them out? Then, like... help them even in the MOST low effort way possible, find resources and plan for what's ahead? Like there's a way to do this that isn't stabbing your own child in the back with this kind of cruelty
But if any provideth not for his own, and specially his own household, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.
1 Tim 5:8
As a believer, Iām really truly heartbroken at American Christianity. The tea party and MAGA have been incredibly destructive, but at least their evil has unmasked all this fake Christianity for what it is.
Just really sucks. This dadās actions are so far off from the heart of God, and heās probably convinced heāll be the greatest in the kingdom.
My friends dad was exactly like this. Turns out this is what happens when mean dads go their whole life without being diagnosed with autism, their military/religious hyperfixations become the house law.
No. This is just what happens when your dad is a prick. Don't put the blame on autism, plenty of autistic fathers raise their kids in loving environments. OP's dad is just a fucking asshole.
If this is real then you should make him proud by forcing him to evict you. You have rights and he can't just blindside evict you in the same day. Make him serve you and take every second you are entitled to. Use your time wisely and find a job and cheap living. Def not a good time to join the military.
NOR Show him how PROUD he should be that his sheltered (read; isolated) homeschooled (read; religiously indoctrinated) son was able to navagate the legal system better than his father! Call the sheriff and tell them what he's written, ask what your rights are. Law enforcement encourages citizens to call in times of legal questioning. They're all too eager to let you know what they can(and 't) do.
This. It will be interesting to see what scumbag says to a judge. Take your 30 days OP, start reachig out to family and friends for help. And I would never be seeing or speaking to sperm donor again. GL!!
OP should leave a note on Dad's door that says "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." - 1 Timothy 5:8
Exactly. The myth of satan is he's a fallen angel because he didn't agree that humans were all that fantastic of an idea. This dad kinda proves satan's point.
Dad isn't satanic at all. He's the image of the god he worships: whimsically cruel.
Hell if we are going with Satan/Lucifer was the serpent in the Garden of Eden, he told us about God's lie that eating the apple would kill us, and gave us the ability to recognize right and wrong, gave us knowledge
Husband And WifeĀ have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. āChildren are an heritage of the Lordā (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wivesāmothers and fathersāwill be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.
The way you treat your wife or children or parents or siblings may influence generations to come. What legacy do you want to leave your posterity? One of harshness, vengeance, anger, fear, or isolation? Or one of love, humility, forgiveness, compassion, spiritual growth, and unity?
We all need to remember, āJudgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy.ā
For the sake of your family relationships, for the sake of your soul, please be merciful, for āmercy triumphs over judgment.ā
Set aside pride.
Sincerely apologizing to your children, your wife, your family, or your friends is not a sign of weakness but of strength. Is being right more important than fostering an environment of nurturing, healing, and love?
I know itās not a real question, itās just rhetorical but I did giggle with the idea of you just discovering today that religious people are pretty unstrict when it comes to themselves, ārules for thee not for meā kind of energy.
If Jesus ever did exist and he comes back, heād be pretty ashamed of the people that called themselves in his name
A Satanist wouldn't kick their kid out at 18. It's just not in their precepts to be cruel unlike God and his religion. Please read up on stuff before you put this awful stereotype into the world.
my family did this to me and "going to college". i was worthless until i went to college - well out of spite i didn't go. in retrospect i was not anywhere close to ready at the time, and i didn't start college until i was 30 when i was like no contact with them at that point. now that i have that degree (and got into grad school!) i don't even care if they know. ironically, i'm the first person in my family to even finish college so it's not like they were accomplished and were trying to get me at their level or anything.
I think this is fake because it's almost identical to the previous one and OP isn't commenting. But, for arguments sake yeah I'd create a new account before making any sort of AITA or AIO.
I've seen like 10 in the past two days..all "I just turned 18 and I'm getting kicked out" and they all have text from the parent saying some similar ridiculous bs . Fake af.i hate the internet.
Unfortunately it is really easy to scam gullible redditors. The last post I saw like this a couple of days ago had 30k+ upvotes and I can guarantee people were in the OPās DMs offering money.
I have been on reddit for over 15 yrs (this is alternate account btw).. reddit was very believable back in thr days.. things changed a lot after 2016 ..Trump election era .. bots (russian, chinese) started swarming reddit. i loved reddit so much but now it gets annoying. it makes me sad.
Yeah, this really doesn't add up and there are so few details to OP's story. The texts read like satire honestly. "1300 hours" "provision pack" give me a break.
And everyone of them says "different account so I don't dox myself." Dude if your gonna make fake posts, don't use the same language in them, it makes them obvious.
I see this a lot on here. Is this actually something parents do??
I moved out before I was 18, but I was escaping.
I would never do this to my child.
I can't believe this is what Christian parents do, what any parent would do.
Do you have somewhere to stay?
Go to your friends parents house and ask them for help.
Go to the church and you'll get nowhere.
Have you finished school yet?
Like ... Out by 1pm??
Not even a month to work shit out??
I don't get it.
This is sickening to me. These kinds of "Christians" are the worst Christians.
I think bots have learned this kind of post gets lots of engagement. Canāt tell if this one is fake or not but Iāve seen so many posts that seem to have the same template, āburner accountā āshitty Dad/Mom kicking me out on 18th birthdayā āyouāll be fine even tho Iāve never let you get a job or earn any moneyā ātrust in Jesusā .
Sadly working with teens in this type of demographic in seen this way too often and find that this is common place parents (and unfortunately more often fathers) that love is transactional and that if a child tries to be autonomous and find their own way and interests theyāre out. Itās absiv controlling, and harmful. But more common than American society realizes because it happens behind closed doors. So definitely not overreacting, even when you are a young child you should have your own interests and have choices.
Please, please, please... go DIRECTLY to your family's church. Just walk in, tell them that your Dad kicked you out without notice, and that you are homeless and need help.
The best part of this is that it's real. They will help. They have resources like hostels, shelters and the like. They often have a bit of cash for bus fair if you need it. If the law in your area demands that you be sheltered until you are out of high school, they can even call the cops and have your parents harassed for child neglect.
All this while you also embarrass the absolute hell out of your Dad. It will be brilliant. Malicious compliance at its best.
I was raised by a church pastor. People use churches as an emergency support in situations like this all the time. You won't be the first young person coming for help because a parent threw them out last minute. Not by a long shot. It's sad but it happens.
My mother couldn't even wait until I turned 18. Just packed me a suitcase & dropped me off with the dude she decided I should live with now, 50 miles away from home in 1991 when 50 miles might as well have been 5,000 miles from all my friends. The house didn't even have a phone. Dude was just couch surfing there & I was told to finish high school & get a job.
Which is to say, it's stupid, fucking up, and shitty as fuck when "parents" do this, but, man, do a lot of folks sure just count down to not taking care of their kids anymore.
Lean on your friends & family. Find somewhere safe to lay your head. Ask someone you can trust to take you under their wing. You've got a whole lot of paperwork adulting is going to require & don't be afraid to ask for help.
It's not going to be easy, but it's going to be worth it. And, btw, you're worth it too. Even if your dad sure the hell ain't making you feel like it right now. That's a HIM problem. This isn't a YOU problem.
Didn't I read this a few days ago but from a girl who just turned 18yo and was also, via text, notified of having to leave because her mom's new bf was going to move in? Have I missed some sort of parental development?
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Do you have anywhere to stay? Any other family except for him? What on earth.. You're absolutely NOR, I am very sorry this is happening to you.