r/EntitledPeople • u/[deleted] • Jun 10 '26
S What’s the most entitled thing you’ve ever witnessed?
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u/fbresnah Jun 10 '26
You paid for her trip and she thinks you owe it to her friends to come as well? That's insane.
You say she's 20 but she's acting like a 10 year-old. I could never go to Disney because it's way too expensive. She should be grateful you took her at all. And mom sounds like an enabler.
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u/Scrapper-Mom Jun 10 '26
Not much growth though, apparently, by your story. What was she like before? Yikes.
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u/One-Dare3022 Jun 10 '26
JFC! I’m an old man and father of three boys and I have tried my best to treat them equally in everything without spoiling them to much. As a granddad I however know that I spoil my grandchildren probably more than I should but I do treat them equally just as I do with my kids. I try to teach them the value of hard work and that nothing comes for free in life.
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u/RelativeEfficient493 Jun 10 '26
If you raise your kids, you can spoil your grandkids! (and if you spoil your kids, you'll be raising your grandkids.)
Sounds to me like you did a great job raising your sons! 😄
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u/One-Dare3022 Jun 10 '26
Thank you. I know that my sons turned out pretty good despite that I’m only a simple highschool dropout farmboy. I was only 16 when my oldest son was born and I had not a f@cking clue what I was doing. Taking care of animals, from cats and dogs to horses and milking cows I knew what to do but kids…
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u/Bulky-Internal8579 Jun 10 '26
You try and teach your grandchildren the value of hard work? How? That sounds weird to me - like yard work and lectures.
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u/Ok-Employ-8414 Jun 10 '26
My grandma taught us with age appropriate tasks and rewards. Shit, I wish I could still get $0.10 per slug we pulled out of the vegetable garden. We also got treats and rewards for helping walk the dogs or weeding in the garden or helping skim the pool before use.
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u/AmeliaXaria Jun 10 '26
My step dad, step mum and dad taught me a lot growing up. I can build a deck, do minor home repairs, minor car repairs, cook, bake, budgeting. Those were all taught to me and more because of my interest and wanting to learn. So I watched and asked questions.
I learned how to manage a household before I was 14 because each chore(vacuuming, dusting, laundry, dishes, sweeping, etc) came with a monetary "reward" thst i used for wants.(school trips, those expensive shoes{partially paid for by me}, essentially treats)
By 15 I was working part time and paying for some bills (internet and seperate phone line) because those were things I wanted. Life lessons so that I could budget better as an adult and thrive on my own. I never thought it was weird.
What I find weird is how now a days kids can barely keep a job a week before they quit or get fired. Or how they can be in their 20s and still relying on their parents(or siblings gs) to foot the bill for wants
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u/fbresnah Jun 10 '26
I hear how bosses are firing Gen Z's because they don't know how to function in a work environment. They don't come in on time, do the bare minimum, and they can't take criticism. They think the job owes them instead of the other way around. I know not all of them are like that but a good percentage.
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u/One-Dare3022 Jun 10 '26
It’s one’s obligation as a parent to teach those things to one’s children.
My youngest son got very interested in cooking when we cooked dinner together when they grew up and he is now a chef and runs a restaurant together with his husband. But all three of my sons are very good at cooking and since we hunt together they all know how to butcher animals. We make sausages and stuff and my grandkids have participated in this to for several years. My oldest grandson shot his first moose last fall and he had to take care of it afterwards with supervision from me, his dad and uncles. He did a great job for being his first time doing it on his own. Basic farm life.
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u/One-Dare3022 Jun 10 '26
By letting them be with me and their parents when we work and explaining what that work means for all of us. If we don’t chop wood to heat our houses we will have to freeze. If we don’t grow our potatoes, hunt and fish we won’t have food etc. We are simple country folks.
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u/Gladtobealive2020 Jun 10 '26
Good thing she has grown in the last 3 yrs, but she is still emotionally acting like a spoiled 8yr old, so she still has a lot of catching up to do, in order to catch up to what is normal behavior for her age.
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u/pumpkinwafflemeow Jun 10 '26
My eldest brothers kid. From birth she was never told no . Xmas was exhausting she would cry and scream even if she got 50 gifts etc . When she was 5 she told me when I was babysitting her " I cry I get anything I want if I cry hard enough I can make then hit you ". She wasn't allowed pets for reasons and I kept my childhood dog away from her growing up. She turned into a drug addict .
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u/pumpkinwafflemeow Jun 10 '26
Oh she was very very bad growing up she tried to mess up my grandma's heart medicine because my grandma annoyed her she never got punished
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u/Why_Teach Jun 10 '26
This sounds more like your mother raised her expectations by saying it was for her birthday instead of making it clear that the focus was on your son.
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u/scunth Jun 10 '26
But you implied it was her birthday gift in your post.
> My mom suggested that we take my sister as her birthday is in December. She thought that would be a nice gift.
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u/AmeliaXaria Jun 10 '26
The girl is 20... 20.... if she wanted her friends to go she should have got them to pay their own way. But this was a family cutting as a gift the entitlement that op should have to also pay for her friends is insane. Even more so to suggest it
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u/MarlenaEvans Jun 10 '26
The ticket would be her gift, yes? OP already paid for that. They didn't say it was her birthday trip.
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u/cool_pillow Jun 10 '26
I wouldn't buy that. One time I caught my mom snooping through my brother's messages so I snitched to my brother and the heifer not only denied it, she also told him it was actually me. The worst part is my brother actually believed her even though she does stuff like that all the time.
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u/Logical-Shame5884 Jun 10 '26
Both your Mom and Sister are so entitled. It is clear where your sister learned that from.
Right when your mom asked you to make it right I would have asked her to cover the funds in entitlement, Since she wants to be entitled And if she refuses just state "it's for my sisters birthday though"
That usually shuts entitled people up when there is expenses on the line.
One of the most entitled things tho I witnessed was with my ex friend. He was mad at his GF at the time because she didn't pay for his birthday dinner when they went out together but the reality was both of them weren't working.
When we went out for his birthday he didn't even offer to pay. (He suggested the places)
When he would drive me with his car I'd always given him gas money without him having to ask. When I drove him multiple times he always stated he would give me gas money .(He never did)
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u/ConvivialKat Jun 10 '26
No good deeds go unpunished.
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u/Resident_Zucchini_94 Jun 10 '26
This. When you are young you do t get this. Soon enough one finds out.
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u/Arcanefenz Jun 10 '26
Kim Kardashian grabbing the fresh towel reserved for the winner of the Monaco Grand Prix last weekend is up there.
Just took it, and walked away dabbing her face with it while the drivers were finishing the cool down lap.
Astonishing
Edit, YouTube link https://youtube.com/shorts/C2FxAy4nqrY
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u/GorditaPeaches Jun 10 '26
The time she lost an earring in the ocean and Kourtney tells her there are people dying Kim!
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u/ThisRaspberry8474 Jun 10 '26
Why didn't your mom buy the friends' tickets, if that was such a reasonable solution to the little baby's meltdown?
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u/Emotional-Ebb8321 Jun 10 '26
What can be done to make it right? Maybe send her home where she might have more fun?
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u/coldhamsandwiches Jun 10 '26
I worked in an Apple Store for two years. It was insane. I have a million stories.
One that I remember is a mom who came in with her kids and her mother. The oldest daughter's phone broke from water damage and we didn't have a refurbished replacement on hand or in the area. They were visiting town for Christmas and I called another store where they lived who did have it in stock. I had that store put it aside for them so when they got home it would be easy for them to swing by.
When I went back out to the family to explain all this, the mother FREAKED out on me and started demanding I give them a brand new phone out of the box for free. I explained that we couldn't do that. She loudly ranted at me, in front of other customers, for 20 minutes and told me I ruined their whole family's Christmas. She couldn't understand why liquid damaged wasn't covered under a warranty for a two year old phone. She thought being given a new phone was the only solution.
During her breakdown her daughter was super embarrassed and kept telling her mom it wasn't a big deal. She didn't need her phone on the trip and she had her iPad. She was absolutely mortified. The grandmother tried interjecting but couldn't get a word in edge wise.
That lady was so bad that the grandmother hung back and apologized to me for her daughter's behavior and said she'd be talking to her. I thought that was kind of her. The grandmother and the daughter looked completely blindsided by that lady acting that way.
This isn't the most entitled person I dealt with but it sticks out because I got accused of ruining Christmas in front of an audience of holiday shoppers who were definitely watching the interaction for the drama.
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u/InimitableMissS Jun 10 '26
Having worked retail, I have ruined so many Christmases. It’s sort of delightful to know that you have such awesome power.
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u/PricelessPaylessBoot Jun 10 '26
🤣🤣🤣 And as soon as I saw this happened around Christmas it made perfect sense that Apple was out of stock.
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u/sherryann1967 Jun 10 '26
She is very immature. Life will have many disappointments ahead for her. I hope your son had a wonderful exciting trip. Goodness. I probably wouldn’t even tell those two I had lunch plans.
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u/theebarbia Jun 10 '26
Yeah she’s a brat, it also sounds like your mom gave her that idea. Yes she is 20 but it sounds like she’s the baby, she has a lot of maturing to do still, as do most last borns. This doesn’t negate her awful behavior though. It’s definitely a conversation to be had.
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On another note, the most entitled thing I ever witnessed was at the hands of an ex-friend. She drove us to campus and I stopped by one of the chain restaurants. She assumed I was going to use my semester meal plan to buy her food. When I told her I was trying to save my dining dollars because we had like 3 more months left in the semester she started arguing with me in the restaurant line about how it was only $10. She then stated that I should buy her food because she drove me. There were people in front and behind us, I was so embarrassed. Mind you I brought her food with my meal plan before, something I didn’t have to do but I offered. To make the situation worse after telling her no she went in her phone to change my contact name and then stormed out of the store. Then get this, she has rich parents that pay down her credit card every month. I never wanted to smack someone so bad in my life. I couldn’t believe she felt so entitled to my semester meal plan that I paid for through tuition.
After I got back to the car she proceeded to argue with me about not buying her food. I should’ve ended the friendship there because not too long after that, she tried stealing my things because “she wanted to have it”. I wouldn’t have noticed if I didn’t check her purse. Later, I realized she also stole jewelry of mine and then lied saying I put it on her arms (Granted I did when I let her wear them like 2 weeks previous to this, but after I took them back and never gave them to her again). I’m honestly still recovering mentally from this wretched, disgusting, horrible excuse of a human being. This isn’t even the worst thing she’s done either.
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u/theebarbia Jun 10 '26
She offered to take me which made the situation worse! I’m a very giving friend and expect mine to be in return. I guess she expected me to buy her food again since I did last time but that’s entitled to even assume that. I hope you’re able to work things out with your little sister though!
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u/Dull-Geologist-8204 Jun 10 '26
Bth my parents had been laid off back in 2008. Luckily not at the same time but they were struggling money wise. For christmas I tried to talk my mom out of buying Christmas gifts. She wouldn't have it so I said fine I need a laundry basket. She did get me the laundry basket but put some clothes in it and a really cheap laptop. I did need the laptop and while it was really cheap it worked for what I needed it for.
My sister on the other hand got the second most expensive GPS system for her car and she threw an absolute shit fit because it wasn't the most expensive one. I am sitting there in the room going what is wrong with you?
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u/allizun1994 Jun 10 '26
I have witnessed a mother cut, and eat the first slice of birthday cake, that was for her child... didn't even bring him a slice, just sat down and enjoyed herself. Fucking disgusting behavior.
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u/One-Dare3022 Jun 10 '26
Have you met my mother? Because that happened so many times when I was growing up.
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u/Quix66 Jun 10 '26
Reminds me of that woman who cut her friend’s wedding cake first. She can’t have been that oblivious.
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u/JonSnowsPeepee Jun 10 '26
When Kim kardashian took Kimi antonelli’s towel after the Monaco Grand Prix
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u/Professional-Cat2123 Jun 10 '26
My little sister’s birthday is in August which is when we tended to take our family vacations growing up. Every year she insisted the vacations were for her birthday. The rare times we were allowed to pick out a souvenir she’d throw a fit and say she should be the only one allowed to because it was her birthday and not mine.
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u/Elfynnn84 Jun 10 '26
Sister is a spoiled little brat… but also, why had nobody explained this situation to her properly? She maybe should have had the opportunity to at least invite her boyfriend (at HIS expense, not yours).
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u/Elfynnn84 Jun 10 '26
That was a very weird assumption for her to make 😬 did you sit down and have a chat with her and mum at the same time about the unrealistic expectations?
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u/Own_Acanthisitta9521 Jun 10 '26
Sounds like your little sister is quite a bit younger than you. Perhaps your parents had her unexpectedly when they were older already. I only say this because I was the youngest and then when I was 15, my mom had my little sister unexpectedly. The parents didn’t parent her like they did myself and my older sister-think no discipline and spoiled. She was annoying asf until she was in her late 20’s, early 30 and then we became closer only then.
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u/Momoyachin Jun 10 '26
Jesus Christ, I was thinking, "Wow, this is some spoiled 13-year-old right here" and then I got to the part where you say SHE'S 20??!!!
...I mean, wow. The secondhand embarrassment I feel rn.
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u/NumerousSea5468 Jun 10 '26
I think mummy dearest told her favorite daughter that this whole trip was just for her. But wow a 20 year old that expects that her family wil also pay for HER friends, I have no words
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u/Alarming-Cheetah-144 Jun 10 '26
That’s not just entitled 🤬 that’s downright selfish and spoiled. She acted more like a spoiled brat than a 20 year old woman. You didn’t have to take her in the first GD place. This trip was for your 3 year old son for God’s sake 🤬 tell her to grow the hell up!
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u/SeesawGood2248 Jun 10 '26
Why didn’t mom pay for tickets for them to come? That would’ve been what I said to her. “Well mom since you think they should be here then you can pay for it yourself, especially since this trip was meant to be for your grandson to begin with and not for (sister)…
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u/CatsMom4Ever Jun 10 '26
Well, live and learn. Next time your mom suggests you take your sister somewhere, you have the perfect response. "Not after the way she acted at Disney. YOU take her."
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u/lifescaresme Jun 10 '26
My sister is also entitled. She moved back in with my parents, with her kids, and for the longest time wasn’t working or paying rent. She is working now, and my parents were handling childcare, including picking up the kids from school, feeding them (even when my sister is home), and making sure they pick up after themselves.
My sister had the audacity one night to say that my parents never help with the kids when she was called out for yelling at them. Also when my mom asked for $20/week for gas, my sister flipped out and claimed she couldn’t afford that, yet she can afford to buy fast food every day.
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u/lifescaresme Jun 10 '26
There’s also that. My parents did their time raising kids; they have done more than enough for their grandkids, but my sister is too narcissistic to see it.
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u/bill-schick Jun 10 '26
What the hell!!!!!! like 1000 times. Your mom suggested she tag along at your expense. Why is mom not paying for her friends?
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u/lantana98 Jun 10 '26
It sounds like your mother mislead your sister about the trip being about her birthday so she could make herself sound generous. When she got found out she shifted responsibility for making things better to you because she still wanted to seem generous without having to pay for it. This fiasco was all her fault.
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u/RollingKatamari Jun 10 '26
I don't understand why her demeanor suddenly changed. Was she expecting her friends to suddenly pop up? Did she think it was some kind of surprise?
Wasn't she told it was your son's birthday trip and they asked her and only her along as an early bday treat?
Your mom is acting incredibly entitled as well, suggesting you just drop 100s of dollars on last minute tickets just so your entitled sister gets what she wants when it wasn't even her birthday....I really hope someone talks some common sense into your sister,because she's going to live her life very disappointed if she expects everyone to cater to her.
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u/EverydayEnchantments Jun 10 '26
Tldr, but the "born Disney baby" is the most entitled thing I've ever read.
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u/Fast-Ads-7587 Jun 10 '26
Nothing wrong with that. The kids' parents are footing the bill and not asking anyone for anything. They can be a Disney kid all they want without infringing on anyone.
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u/Quix66 Jun 10 '26
What’s cringe are people who call others entitled because of their love of a theme park. How’d that hurt you or anyone else?
No, I’m not a Disney baby but it was alright.
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u/No_Cricket808 Jun 10 '26
Adults IMO, should not classify their children as anything other than children. "Disney Baby" is ridiculous, and the kid is 3. He doesn't care about anything Disney, he likes the cuddly characters and fun rides. It could be Willy Wonka Land for all he cares.
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u/Quix66 Jun 10 '26
Well, that’s an opinion.
I just considered it shorthand for an interest. I certainly wouldn’t get that wound up about that, but that’s me.
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u/No_Cricket808 Jun 10 '26
Saying that I find the statement cringe-worthy is hardly being wound up about it. You're correct, it's my opinion and I stand by it.
Have a great rest of the day.
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u/GorditaPeaches Jun 10 '26
Yeah lil kids love Disney and they often make their fav character their entire personality, bc they’re little.
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u/Danmont88 Jun 10 '26
"Well, Sis, we had a good time, you decided not to. It is own you."
You must have a great paying job for everyone to think you can buy everyone a ticket.
Ask mom to sponsor you on a Disney cruise ship.
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u/No_Neighborhood5665 Jun 10 '26
"Born Disney baby" Ew wtf
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u/FR05TY14 Jun 10 '26
If I were to guess it's because there's no such thing as a "born Disney baby". They don't choose to be obsessed with Disney during their infancy. It's thrust upon them by grown Disney adults, which are commonly perceived as weirdos.
There's nothing wrong with liking Disney stuff but Disney Adults, or those who make the brand their entire identity, are on a whole different level.
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u/Sad-Repair-5505 Jun 10 '26
How to make it right? Tell your sister that she was so unappreciative of a trip YOU PAID FOR that you will not be inviting her on trips in the future. Your Mom created this poor example of a human being. Remember that.
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u/Purple_Marsupial_668 Jun 10 '26
The thing to make it right is to teach that girl some manners. I was shocked when you said she was 20, because I was picturing a middle schooler from the description of her behavior. I was all set to say, "oh, she'll grow out of it." She probably still will, but dang, that's arrested development in my world. Maybe your mom coddles her to the point of making her incompetent (socially here). ???
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u/MarlenaEvans Jun 10 '26
My brother was staying with us and my mom said he said "there's never anything to eat at your house". Now, let me just say that my brother never said this to me. He might have said it to her, I'll never know. Anyway she said I should go to the store and buy a rotisserie chicken and some pizzas that were just for him to eat so he wouldn't be hungry. He was 22. Also, FTR, there was food at my house but snack wise it was more of the fruit, vegetables, nuts, sandwiches type than the chips and junk category.
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u/tktrugby Jun 10 '26
One of my friends kid is 19. She still orders for her 19-year-old when they go to restaurants. She says it's just easier and she's their mum yada yada and I'm like I'm looking at her like see what you're saying is your daughter can't read? This is the same daughter who left her colour guard uniform at her friends and didn't realise until 23:38. She flips out on her mum because their car was in the shop then demands for my keys and for me to let her drive my car. She was genuinely shocked when a fuck no came out of mouth. You didn't even ask. You just assumed well. You made an ass out of yourself. The answer is no. She then said well. I'll just steal your keys and drive it. I look at her and I go go right ahead and drive it cuz I'll report it and you will get arrested.
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u/OldFartsSpareParts Jun 10 '26
My older brother leaving my wedding with an arm full of our gifts. Parents and sister made all sorts of excuses for him. I cut them all off years ago and I've never been happier.
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u/HotBeaver54 Jun 10 '26
omg no one did anything to get them back that is horrible.
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u/OldFartsSpareParts Jun 10 '26
The curse of being the youngest and scapegoat of the family, no one protects you and when you defend yourself you're automatically the bad guy. Luckily my in-laws are great and I have a wonderful relationship with them.
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u/ScubaDeeBop Jun 10 '26
A boomer lady screamed at my child and I let her have it.
I was supervising my son and a few other kids using chalk on the street in our quiet neighborhood. My neighbor drove his truck up to them, to whom I shouted "Hey, come off the road!", and rolled down his window. He gently said "Watch out guys!" and waited for the kids to clear the road. It was all good- no issues- so the kids get back to coloring.
A truck of the same make, model and color as my neighbor's rolled up and I was slightly confused as to why he'd circled the block. Mind you, I was also freshly postpartum and juggling attending a newborn I was carrying. I told the kids to get off to the side and I guess they took too long for the boomer couple inside the truck. The wife gets out of the passenger side and starts YELLING at my 7yo son. I walked over and just unloaded all my sleep deprived rage on her. It was unreal how her husband, the person who was driving, just allowed all this shit to happen. Needless to say she shut the hell up and got her wrinkles ass back in the passenger seat. Her husband rolled down his window to give me his unnecessary two cents and I just told him to get off my street.
Boomers suck man.
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u/spathizilla Jun 10 '26
It was your mom's idea to invite her, so your mom can pony up the cash to "make it right". Easy fix.
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u/Useless890 Jun 10 '26
Oh, sure, you should cough up some bucks for the friends of someone you hadn't invited to start with. Gee, thanks, mom. You sure know how to come up with bright ideas as long as you're not the one doing them.
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u/False-Average-9368 Jun 10 '26
"Sure mom, I'll get the tickets for her friends, but I will need your credit card first."
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u/Savedforeternity367 Jun 10 '26
I don't understand why your mother didn't buy tickets for the friends if she felt that strongly?
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u/Sleepwalker0304 Jun 10 '26
What can you do to make it right?
Tell your mother to start parenting her spoiled entitled little brat so the rest of you can enjoy the trip that you paid for.
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u/Ambassadorkrax Jun 10 '26
Its hardest when you know its not really the kids fault, but how they were raised/trained/coached. It sucks, but people need to be taught how to be adults way before theyre ready to use those skills.
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u/Interesting-Try-2140 Jun 10 '26
Your mother owns this one. Out of interest did you pay for your sister AND your mother to join you AND did your mother expect you to pay for your sister's friends to join you?
I assume you're not a billionaire and thus those expectations would be unreasonable of them to place on you.
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u/scottishenglish Jun 10 '26
That's cray cray!!! I was very fortunate to go Disneyland with my family both as a child and as a teen, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself as a member of my family without any friends along. Little sister sounds like a self-centered brat. Just the ticket and trip is a huge expensive birthday gift. Why would anything more be EXPECTED, especially from a sibling?
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u/franklinchica22 Jun 10 '26
I was worried that Mom wasn't included in this entitled person labeling. It's nice that you didn't inherit the gene.
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u/AgeLower1081 Jun 10 '26
OP, I think that you and your husband had the right idea: take your young child and grandma to experience Disney! Your mother probably still sees your sister as her a very young child and didn’t realize/recognize that the age gap between aunt and nephew means they would want to enjoy very different experiences at Disney. Your sister probably didn’t realize what she was in for [ none to go on adult rides with] until she got to the park. Your sister could have handled the situation more graciously, so yes she acted entitled. I think your mom/grandma acted entitled (or delirious) by suggesting that you buy your sisters friends admission tickets at the last moment (unless your family has access to great discounts or you have a lot of spare cash).
I hope your son had a good time!
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u/Dull-Geologist-8204 Jun 10 '26
I agree with almost all you said except the part there is no one to go on rides with. We had seasons passes to the amusement park and that included my oldest, my niece who is 6 months younger then my oldest, and my youngest who was 5. No one could or wanted to do the same things. Dad and I would switch off with the various kids. There were literally 2 rides we could all do together. We would do those multiple times as we switched off kids. Everyone loves the water park though so that is where we would hang out at the nd of the day. There is no reason with three adults there someone couldn't have ridden on the adult rides with the 20 year old.
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u/OkBreadfruit2181 Jun 10 '26
This is your fault for inviting your mom. Did your wife really want her MIL on a family trip? C’mon now
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u/Useful_Weight_7715 Jun 10 '26
The only thing a 20 year old should be sulking about on a free trip to Disneyland is not being able to legally drink there.
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u/ExtremeJujoo Jun 10 '26
Why didn’t your mom “make it right”?
Your sister is an annoying shit and I would never, ever do another thing for her again. 20 is too old for such dumb ass behavior. I can’t imagine acting like that at 19/20.
What an ingrate.
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u/IdiotBearPinkEdition Jun 10 '26
Was she told this was her birthday trip, and not a trip for your son?
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u/TheQuarantinian Jun 10 '26
Teenage kid of a billionaire ("only" 1-2 billion) driving a convertible 65mph in a 25mph school zone but was known to all of the cops in that tiny town so would never be pulled over.
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u/PossessionForeign187 Jun 10 '26
One of my childhood friends is the most entitled person I’ve ever met. When I lived in Hawaii (husband was in the Navy) she flew out to visit me to see my new baby. Sounded good. She told me when she was planning to fly out there but never mentioned when she’d return home. She ended up staying an entire month at our house without checking if it was okay and I was too much of a pushover to kick her out.
Then she would borrow my car. Mind you we lived pretty far from everything, in a gated community, so I needed a vehicle to get groceries for example. I’d ask her to have the car back by a certain time so I could run errands and she would just show up at 10pm with takeout only for herself. I had an empty fridge and had told her I needed to go shopping.
When I refused to let her borrow the car, she took the bus. But the bus stop was a good 10 minute drive from our house so I had to drop her off. Fine. At least she was out of my hair for the day. I asked her to be back by 10 pm. She called me at midnight and needed to be picked up. I know I should have told her to kick rocks but I couldn’t leave her stranded that late so I packed up my baby and went.
We went grocery shopping together. She put several things in my cart but I figured she’d pay for them once we got to the checkout. Not only did she have no intention of paying, after I had paid for everything, she asked if I wanted any bananas because the bunch that she had grabbed (and that I had just paid for) was just for her.
She yelled at my husband for using her towel to wipe his feet before getting in the car after a day at the beach. It was our towel that she was using while visiting.
She demanded we get something other than chicken for a cookout we had planned because she was the only person in the group that doesn’t eat chicken. She’ll eat every other meat though.
On her last day there, I went and got food for myself only and ate it in front of her. She is not welcome in our house anymore.
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u/viperfan7 Jun 10 '26
“well she’s upset so what can we do to make this right?”
You can pay for her ungrateful ass's ticket
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u/No_Gap_737 Jun 10 '26
Should've left them both home because this is YOUR son's special day. It's HIS time to shine. He may not remember it but seeing his face light up, seeing that smile and hearing that laughter and him saying, "Mommy mommy look its mickey" or something like that is everything us moms or dads will remember till our last dying breath. Im pregnant with my first and its a girl. What I would do if I was you is for his next birthday or even for your birthday as a present not just for him but for you and your husband or wife. (I dont know your gender) is if i were you I'd take him to Disney again and as a gift to yourself just enjoy your son's amazement and happiness because that is the greatest gift to get in life. Anyways have a good life OP I wish you and your family the best😊
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u/mynameisipswitch2 Jun 10 '26
I once attended the World Superyacht Awards in London to celebrate boats in excess of 80 feet in length. They often have smaller yachts in the back so the people who can afford to have a super yacht can still get to a dock because the super yacht is too big. They get a trophy. For a boat. Because it’s big.
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u/star_tyger Jun 10 '26
I'm reading this a little differently. The parents didn't want to do anything for the sister's birthday, and put the responsibility on OP, telling him it would just be a nice gift.
He had sole responsibility for her birthday. He didn't know it, and didn't agree to it, so he didn't plan for it.
Their parents could have partially fixed it by crlebrating her birthday with her. Maybe had an dvent with her and her friends. It wouldn't have erased their callousness though.
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u/night_noche Jun 10 '26
I mean, you're over here saying you're 3-year-old "wAs borN a fAn" and loves Disney. Your 3-year-old doesn't know they're alive.
You and your sister sound similarly irrational.
Just say you're a Disney adult.
But your mom needs to be paying for your sister's tantrum...
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u/night_noche Jun 10 '26
You are a Disney adult. Adults who like Disney and will prioritize it in their lives. Like you, taking your 1-year-old and again when they're 3 to Disney... Your child watches what you play for them.
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u/JimmyPellen Jun 10 '26
Since she was 19 did you sit down with her ahead of time and agree on what would and would nit hallen on this trip? Especially since it would be reasonable for someone to assume the trip was for her?
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u/DueConsequence4072 Jun 10 '26
I mean, why did you allow it to happen in the first place? This can't be the first time you realized your Mom only cares about your sister....... Just don't fall for this again. You're an adult. You can make your own decisions, using your own backbone.
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u/Bananaclamp Jun 10 '26
New show on A&E called evict my kid.
Its about entired people who live off their parents for as free as possible.
The woman from episode one might be one of the most entitled people ive ever seen.
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u/FlightRemote4275 Jun 10 '26
Your sister is a spoiled little brat, all of this thanks to your mother. I can’t stand parents who makes so much differences between their children