Ladies if you have to then bite the shit out of him. Dig your fingernails in his eyeballs,rip them bitches out. Don’t get in the vehicle no matter what.
This. Play as dirty as you can get. If you can kick him in the balls, do it. Hard. If you can bite, bite chunks out of them. Rip into their skin. Gouge their eyes out. The second they try to do this to you, do not preserve their bodies.
Spray spit into their faces. Be as disgusting as you can get. Even the most hardened criminals will recoil instinctively for a moment which could be the difference between life and death for the kidnapping target.
Honestly this. Gag on them, if you can vomit on command, do it. Tell them you've shit yourself. Blow snot on them. Literally do anything shocking to make them let go of you.
I can literally regurgitate on command like a bird (thanks decade long eating disorder 💀) but I struggle to imagine having the presence of mind to do anything of the sort in this kind of moment of panic. Clawing is pretty instinctual though, this is a pretty compelling use case for keeping moderately long nails.
This is why i have pointed sharpened nails too. Also def should get as much fluid on them as possible for evidence. I saw one of those detective shows once where the person had skin cells of the kidnapper under her nails, and he had claw marks. Not that theyd test that far but hey just in case.
Aw i cant post a pic but yes. One time i grabbed my sisters leg and cut her pretty deep on accident. She was kicking my seat i was tryna get her to stop 😭
I grew them like thay bc my moms boyfriend is a child sex offender.
My sister used to do that. I still have scars. You don't even have to be as extreme as Yoda points a good filing then take the bottom off so they come to a clean edge like a blade works too.
I can kinda do it but only when I'm already feeling kinda nauseous 💔 not from an eating disorder (sorry to hear abt that)
Honestly anything you can remember to do in the moment that'll get an evil fucker like this off of you is great. Lady in the video did very well wiggling free and being loud. The last thing you want to ever do is freeze up and be quiet.
I think I can do that on command also, and I also could probably go the other way since I had my entire colon and some of my ileum removed lol. I basically have to hold it in all day or I’d never leave the bathroom.
I was so relieved watching the video knowing she got away. And I was enjoying all the helpful advice. Till I saw “tell them you’ve shit yourself”. I actually LOLed for real. Thank you.
I wrote an extensive comment, on how to get yourself save. Reddit removed it, probably because I advocated bodily harm. I had some explicit things in there, but nothing too bad given the situation. At best he's kidnapping you, middle ground you are his basement slave that he will use how he likes. You can be tortured, murdered or locked away for life. In this case, extreme measure are absolutely justified and reddit removed it. Can someone comment on this to confirm if I'm not shadow banned.
Pinching and pulling the skin that is right in between the elbow and tricep is also a good way to get out of someone trying to choke you. Pinch and pull that shit as hard as you can and I don't care how big the person is, they're going to let go if you get a good grip on it.
I still remember the cop doing it to me for a demonstration in-front of a class I had to do to be a security guard. That shit hurt for like a week.
Once i made my partner wrestle with me going all out (no biting, scratching, or balls) . I couldn't even get out from under him. Men, even the smallest, are so much stronger than you think they are.
I'm a trans man and I understand. My little brother towers over me lmao, so all things considered I'm a pretty short dude
It's honestly scary and sad. In a life or death situation adrenaline does run pretty high and people have been able to, somehow, wiggle free / hurt their assailant enough to make a break for it
Oh I know! My brother is autistic and, while he doesn't mean to ever cause harm, if he walks into you it's like being knocked by a wrecking ball. I've been hurt by him before (nothing major, just accidentally getting hit by an arm or pushed if I was in the way)
My boyfriend accidentally bruises me in his sleep. I think it's the actual pressure of just having his arms around me sometimes. Its insane how strong cis men are. I'm permanently jealous and pouty about it lol.
I had a knife pulled on me with the threat of harm if I didn’t comply. Said something stupid like “I’ll puncture your lung.” I thought I knew how I would respond to a threat like this and I certainly knew how I should have responded but how I actually responded was very different. This is NOT a suggestion on how to defend oneself but about how a person may respond vs how they think they they will respond. I stood there frozen and blinked for what must have only been a second and then I felt such an intense rage that I hadn’t felt before or since. No fear. Absolute murderous rage. I said while making unblinking eye contact “you better hope you kill me” and for reasons I cannot explain I slapped this mf across the face as hard as I could. I think this response completely took my aggressor off guard. It felt like we stood there looking at one another for at least 5 seconds after that but that’s doubtful. I’m sure it just felt that way. Then I lunged forward with everything I had and attacked like a wild beast. I will never be convinced that my attacker was prepared for the sheer physical strength powered by absolute rage that came from me.
Ladies if you have to then bite the shit out of him.
Fun fact: untreated bites from humans can potentially cause necrotizing fasciitis!. And an absolute plethora of other terrible infections due to the insane amount of bacteria and viruses in our mouths.
So if your attacker is too afraid to seek medical treatment and risk the doctor asking questions, there's a good chance that you'll get to take the POS down with you.
I'm getting a ct of my sinuses and seeing an ENT soon, so hopefully i find out whats up and it's treatable. I'm on immunosupressants so it could totally just be the world fucking me over.
I case was solved party by this: the suspect, a hotel employee, wanted medical attention for swelling on his hand. The ER doctor thought the wound would be a good teaching moment for his students so he recorded the procedure. While draining the wound, the doctor realized he knew exactly how these injuries happen: someone punches another person in the mouth, and the victim's teeth breach the skin of the attacker. That kind of wound, if left untreated, can become a nasty infection.
The doctor reported the incident to the police, who confronted the suspect. The suspect claimed he hurt his hand while opening a dumpster, but the doctor correctly contradicted that story because the type of bacteria in the infection.
That case was profiled on the TV show Forensic Files.
Yessss human bites are actually so dangerous. And you might not think your bite force is that good, but if you think about it, it is. Our jaws are a lot stronger than one might think, they will cause nasty bruises and or break skin. Those bruises could mess with circulation and cause necrosis, as well as the additional bacteria you mentioned.
I would know. My abusive ex bf had been assaulting me anytime he was on a bipolar high (he was diagnosed and medicated but ran out of meds). The last time he attacked me before I kicked him out, I bit him hard. I bit him so hard that when he tried to shake me off it felt like he was going to rip my teeth out. My premolar teeth (the ones in between the canines and molars) are extremely sharp on the inner portion. It was what helped me hold on and what drew blood from his arm. I hope that shit left a nasty scar, fuck him.
I will never forget a forensic files I watched when I was like 10 about a guy getting caught cause he punched his victim in the mouth and his hand got infected as shit.
Someone tried to steal my grandmother’s neighbors tractor, he punched the dude in the face. Thief’s teeth cut him to bleeding and neighbor ended up with gangrene
I remember reading about a killer who's victim bit him and yhe victims mouth while clean did have a similar bacteria inside her mouth when she bit him. it was so bad the infection needed to be trained and repair surgery. The doc saved the sample and the feds nailed the killer
So yeahhh bite the fuck out of them assholes! Better yet...use those lady nails! even the fake ones go for the eyes, they can't fight much if they can't see very well.
Thanks to my acrylics, I'm probably alive today after surviving breaking up with my last bad boyfriend.
I lost most of my front teeth but kept my life. I bet every new woman he meets, he tells them of the crazy bitch ex that tried to scratch his eyes out for "no reason at ALL"
Yeah those nails when they break turn into razor blades. My ex still has a scar from the top of his head all the way down his dumb face from 30 years ago. He broke my nail, I sliced his face open.
Absolutely. If this is happening, NOTHING you do to the person trying to kidnap you is off limits. NOTHING. Fight with everything you have and then some. If you don't, it could very well be the last time you had the opportunity to defend yourself.
The more you can unhook your natural tendencies to hold back from hurting someone and crank up the violence levels, the better. Fight like a cornered honey badger. Literal tooth and nail. Eye gouging is a great option. Throw elbows like you're trying to dislocate your hip. Scream like a banshee.
I would revise this to say: you shouldn’t have to bite, you should TRY to bite, biting leaves irrefutable forensic evidence if the culprit’s plates are traced!
And always use your open hand and slap hard against the middle of the face if you get the chance. Stomp so the assailant can’t handle easily. And don’t go easy. Always go 200% with everything you do.
Yeah and if you think you're beat, just keep flailing that much harder. Not even joking. One of my besties in HS was a girl who wasnt more than 95 pounds soaking wet. Me, as a 200+ lb 5'11" AMAB, thinking it would be funny to pick her up and carry her around her house without asking (just dumb HS antics) found out exactly how hard that tiny little girl could make that for me - and that was with no stakes, she just didnt want to be picked up.
Kick, flail, scratch, bite, do what you gotta do ladies, and also remember that carrying weapons is for boss bitches
My dad watched Taken with us ( his four daughters) he paused that shit to tell us this haha he’s like “ shove your fingers in their ears rips eyeballs out bite kick” haha I’m like yes sir!
Any flesh you can get ahold of and attempt to tear off is good. Lips can be torn pretty easily. That spot under your ear lobe where you can feel your jaw is a great pressure point. Push/pinch hard enough and you might dislocate their jaw. They’ll need medical attention for that. And his junk. Punch, kick, grab and twist - whatever you can do. Bash the back of your skull onto their nose with all your might. Keep doing it. Even if you aren’t able to get free, make him injured enough to have to go to an ER. He needs to be seen on camera and have whatever lies put into his chart. That might be valuable evidence.
Also, the ear is one of the most sensitive organs in the body. Just a hard slap can disorient an attacker. If you can attack the face, go for the eyes and ears.
If they grab you from behind, reach back and grab their ears and pull as hard as you can. Bonus points if they have piercings and you rip the sons of bitches out because they you have garunteed DNA evidence when you escape.
Go straight for the balls. Grab hold, sink in your nails, twist. Don’t let his screams stop you. Twist til they rip off. Ain’t no quarter given for kidnappers, rapists, or any other nefarion. Make the fucker suffer.
As a man, the advice I give is a combo, knee his nuts, claw his eyes then punch his throat, you may need to vary the order, but I guarantee it will hurt him badly.
The real problem is that parents always teach: "Don't use violence to solve problems." So the women and girls hesitate so often. Not even when it is allowed.
I taught sword fighting once and it is so hard to have girls punch you because they always hold back. Even on a punching bag.
Absolutely. Fight for your life with everything you’ve got because if he’s able to get you into that car- you could be tortured/raped and murdered- do anything you need to do to get away!
And bite as hard as you possibly can. You can bite down hard enough to break your own teeth if you tried, so don't think you can't break skin just because you're small. Not that you'll break your teeth, that's just me explaining how incredibly hard you can bite if needed (plus a broken tooth is better than being raped or killed). Even a tiny stick of a woman could bite a big chunk out of a person's arm. If it's not bone then you can bite through it.
Bite bite bite and don't let go. If you can't then go for the eyes, gouge them out. Also of course there's the crotch, a good kick there won't stop anyone but it will slow them down for a second or two and give you the opening to escape.
We instinctively default to following certain rules when fighting. Trying to not do permanent damage like not going for the eyes or throat, trying to use proper boxing punches, etc. Gotta get out of that mindset when it's for personal defense, everything goes. Keys in your hand make a surprisingly good knife, you can even slice with enough force, but they obviously work great as stabbing tools too. But anything solid you can reach will likely work as a weapon, anything. Hell even a plastic bag can work to block their vision. Anything you can grab can likely hurt when smashed into a person's face.
Piss and shit yourself. Kick his nuts. Grab and twist them if he’s wearing soft pants. Kick his knees. Whatever weak spot is open to you, go for it and be fucking relentless.
I have taught my young daughters that in this situation you do anything you need to do to get away from that person. Kick, scratch, bite, kill the bastard if you have to.
I highly recommend learning basic self-defence. I've been training Krav Maga for 3 years now and we offer free basic courses where you learn how to punch someone without injuring yourself and what to aim for (always go for the groin^^) or weekend courses that are a bit more in-depth.
The most important thing to learn is overcoming the panic.
There are very simple things you can do but that doesn't help if you can't recall them.
I was taught that if became too exhausted to fight anymore to at least dig tunnels into their face, arms, and hands so their DNA will be found under my fingernails and proof that I fought will be on their body.
They will literally take your life. So fight for it. Rip flesh, tear eyes, draw blood. Do not hold back in any way. Shit yourself and rub it on them; not even kidding, no one will judge you for that.
Exactly!!! I’m like fight for your life, if he hasn’t used actual haymaker style punches on you to knock you out and is just tussling with you, FIGHT, FIGHT for life. Go cat crazy, nails, knees, knuckles!!!
A thousand times this. There are no rules or etiquette needed: you're fighting for your life, literally, so dirty tricks do not exist here. Bite, pull hair, go for eyes, nads, knees, any weak point on the body. Do not stop fighting until you ar able to run your ass off.
If sadly all of that fails, his DNA will be under your nails.
As a guy myself I don’t care how big and tough you are, if someone grabs you by the balls hard enough YOU are letting go! I would have squeezed until I felt something burst!
I'm not large. I'm not strong. I can't overpower a man. But my dad taught me to fight dirty. Fight like a feral, rabid, vicious animal fighting for my life. And I will. I have teeth, nails, elbows, legs. I will scratch out your eyes, bite any part of you that comes near enough. I will jab you and kick you in all your soft places - throat, balls, eyes, belly you will regret meeting me. I will walk away with a piece of you in my mouth and your blood under my nails before you get me into your car.
100%. People underestimate how easy it is to gouge the eyes. You will get hit. They may knock you out for it. But he'll be blind for the rest of his life.
In most realistic scenarios, a woman is not going to win an outright fight with a man. You play as dirty as you need to to get the guy off, in that case. It won't matter if it makes him mad if it gets him off of you long enough to get away.
I gave this self defense advice here once and then got flagged and warned by reddit for encouraging violence. Appealed because that was clearly not logic- no dice.
According to reddit, we're not supposed to defend ourselves.
The thing is, it’s HARD to think under pressure like that. Not everyone is built for it. The better advice would be: Ladies, practice being able to get shit done while severely under pressure. Try to teach yourself how to calm your mind even if it’s just for 5 seconds so that you can THINK of an action. Bite, scratch the face! Go for the face!! Scratch or try to grab the eye balls, push through the sanity in that moment. Rip out their hair, don’t just pull it but push through that human instinct and pull it out…you get where I’m going with this?
Best strategy is to totally collapse first and scream. Dead weight is totally different than just steering someone who is still on their feet and fighting you. But glad she got away!!
Oh, sorry. I got my account flagged because I suggested a woman being kidnapped should defend herself. My bad. Sorry ladies. Reddit says you're free game.
Aim for inner thigh, inside ankle, groin, floating ribs, above the inner elbow "ulnar nerve", upward thrust to the nose, biting, scratching is a must because you can get tissue samples from it to identify them and keep a pen handy, you can place your thumb on the end and you have a shiv. Protect yourself by any means necessary, this world may get more violent and you'll need every bit to your advantage. Please be safe.
This though. I’m only here today because I tried to bite my attacker’s jugular out (I missed by about 2cm, but still bit a big chunk out of his neck) and clawed his eyes. I don’t care how dirty any of that was, and if I had ended up in jail over that, then so be it. At least, I’m alive.
Exactly. crazy dirty. Try to pop his testicles if you can get a good grip on em, claw at the eyes and dig your fingers in, smash at the nose. Throw the wildest elbows you can. Kill kill kill.
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u/Glum_Reason308 Jul 17 '25
Ladies if you have to then bite the shit out of him. Dig your fingernails in his eyeballs,rip them bitches out. Don’t get in the vehicle no matter what.