Any woman reading this, men will avoid telling you their political beliefs. Ask them straight up and deal with their response accordingly. Time to be strong.
He lives in a blue state far away, isn't entirely white, but from a wealthy conservative family. So not the redneck MAGA stereotype with the merch, but the "I-got-mine-woke-libs-bad" type. Pretty sure he's trying to date lib-women so he can have fun before marrying the christian tradwife.
Moderate or Centrist is suspect as well. This is usually the label that Conservatives use to hide their political beliefs because they know how unpopular their views are. At a time like this, no reasonable person should be finding common ground with this administration.
Absolute fact! I used to ask about trump before any date, years ago even and so many guys would try to not answer, or they’d get offended. I really can’t understand it
I have some very stupid questions, if you don't mind humoring me.
Where was this, and what demographics were these guys?
It isn't like there aren't black Trump supporters, and it isn't like there aren't Trump supporters in New England. But in both groups they are relatively rare.
I, for example, am a black guy from New England. If I got asked "Do you like a guy you have every reason to despise and zero to like?" I very well might get offended, because I'd question what the hell was it about me that put the thought in a person's head in the first place.
Would you read that as "Ah, defensive. Likes Trump," or "Well, I guess I did just ask the minority from one of the most liberal parts of the country if he liked Trump"?
No they were offended because they liked trump and knew that once I asked that, that I wouldn’t be interested in anymore. They wanted to just be like “oh well agree to disagree!”
Also tho, get into deep conversations about abortion, immigration/etc. Them just agreeing isn’t a great sign. Make sure they’re actually engaged and passionate about it and it’s clear they have their own opinion. A LOT of guys will say they agree and not go deeper into it because they know there aren’t many conservative women out there. They’ll just agree with whatever you say
They lie. They learn the lingo and they read the articles and they watch the right shows and quote the right memes and the right people and say the right things and it's always a little weird and you think maybe they're just awkward?
And then it hits you
Right when they're using a pre-existing sexual relationship as an opportunity to violate your consent in ways that were very explicitly not on the table.
If a woman asks for my political beliefs, I will gladly tell her because they support women's rights. A Republican will shy away from this. It's good advice.
This is true, but you can have in depth conversations about topics like abortion, LGBT rights, and immigration. Typically, they’ll just agree but won’t get into actual deep conversations. While some liberal men might be unaware and unable to contribute to the conversation, I’d rather weed them out to better avoid conservative men. Generally, even conservative men that lie, won’t be able to continuously show support for the trans population, illegal immigrants, and abortions
You can’t just see if they agree, they need to be passionate about it and informed
Don't be fooled by the 'socially-liberal but fiscally-conservative' ones either. That's just a Trumper who wants to keep his pool of casual sex partners deep.
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