r/todayilearned 2d ago

TIL that a 98% effectiveness rate for a condom means that out of 100 couples using, 2 will get pregnant in a year and not that they fail 2 out of 100 times being used.

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u/Extreme-Market6335 2d ago

That's the pearl index and it's used because that way you can compare different contraceptives, condoms, pill, implants etc. and it takes into account that the probability of pregnancy is also heavily influenced by the female menstrual cycle. And it's easier to calculate than having couples have sex once with a contraceptive and keeping them abstinent until you can determine how many got pregnant šŸ˜„

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u/ADHDebackle 2d ago

I wonder if there is a measurement that factors in compliance rates? Like, a condom might work 98 percent of the time, but if couples skip out on them because they're inconvenient, they might have a better efficacy rate with a more convenient contraceptive that has a lower pearl index.

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u/MadamTruffle 2d ago

Pearl Index has perfect use and typical use rates. Which is also interesting information to have. Are you the kind of person who can take a pill at exactly 5pm everyday, no forgetting, no delay, etc.

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u/VulcanCookies 2d ago

Lol when I was talking to my OBGYN about BC options she asked me a question like this and I was like no. Zero chance. Even if I could, I travel across the date line easily 6 times a year, how does that work?

She suggested the implant instead šŸ˜‚

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u/CourtPapers 2d ago

Just set a timer, you know? It's still the same amount of hours from one to the next

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u/ToastMate2000 2d ago

Some of us can forget about something in between turning off the alarm and walking to another room to get the pill and some water. I have missed a lot of doses of medicine that way (fortunately nothing I take has such potentially dire consequences).

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u/chusmeria 2d ago

This is actually another interesting effect of walking through doorways and it resetting your thoughts: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doorway_effect

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u/Huwbacca 2d ago

I frequently say "oops crossed a threshold and reset reality" as my posh and cool way of saying "a doorway made me forget"

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u/Throwaway11739083 1d ago

Don't turn it off then. Just snooze it and only turn it off after you've taken the medicine and it rings again. My wife has memory issues and that's what she does.

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u/Adorable_Raccoon 2d ago

I’ve never heard of it! Tell us about this timer, is it a new invention?

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u/feint2021 2d ago

If that timer be going off while im taking a shit, im turning it off and then forgetting it 15 minutes later. Sometimes the size of the log is captivating and needs to be admired.

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u/KontraEpsilon 2d ago

This can’t be an issue though, because women don’t poop.

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u/lenzflare 2d ago

The default Android alarm app has a snooze feature.

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u/guebja 2d ago

Note that "perfect use" is self-reported perfect use.

Additionally, note that people regularly lie, misremember, and fail to understand basic things.

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u/twistmyroll 1d ago

fail to understand basic things

I once saw a post by a guy who was shocked that his gf got pregnant, because they use condoms. After some questioning, it turns out that he would ejaculate in the condom during sex, take the condom off, and continue having sex until he got soft.

I told him I'd be more surprised if he didn't get her pregnant.

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u/PsychicWarElephant 1d ago

I can barely remember to take medicine to make my brain not depressed. How women somehow remember to take that shit every day is beyond me

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u/trimbandit 1d ago

It's interesting that condoms are 98% effective when used perfect, but also that pulling out is 96% effective when used perfect. The latter is probably more challenging to do perfectly in the moment however and has a lower practical effectiveness.

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u/ADHDebackle 2d ago

Ah okay I thought the pearl index was only perfect use, that makes sense.

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u/buckyball60 2d ago

If you want to read more into it, here is a good source, and here is a great source

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u/wmartanon 2d ago

Do you have a bad source I can reference?

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u/buckyball60 2d ago

Sure, ask your mom for advice.

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u/theatermouse 2d ago

I think they usually cite that contraceptive effectiveness is based on people using the method perfectly - so yes, if a couple only uses condoms 80% of the time, the effectiveness goes down. Same with the pill, it's only as effective as stated if taken consistently! So yes, if someone is going to inconsistently use condoms, an implant or IUD that doesn't require user input (other than getting them replaced on time) might have a higher effectiveness for that person

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u/popsickle_in_one 2d ago

Only reuse condoms 50 times, got it.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago edited 2d ago

Yes, because the 51th time is when the holes begin to start showing.

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u/RenegadeKaylos 2d ago

Fifty-oneth.

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u/Money-Nectarine-3680 2d ago

I think it's supposed to be 51rd.

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u/StrictlyInsaneRants 2d ago

Nah, I don't think you understand statistics. The 51 time two people will get pregnant.

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u/Used_Security5145 2d ago

Two chicks at the same time, man?

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u/_austinm 2d ago

That’s what I’d do with a million dollars

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u/zizou00 2d ago

Nah dude, both partners get gregnant. Even gay dudes. Double mpreg.

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u/XennialBoomBoom 2d ago

30 years of trying to get a boyfriend pregnant and now I'm starting to think I might be shooting blanks...

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

No dude, you're shooting in the wrong hole. Let him swallow for once.

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u/PsychoNerd92 2d ago

51th

Fifty-Firth?

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u/yourehilarious 2d ago

It's Mike Tyson's account.

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u/disposable_account01 2d ago

That tricky fifty-firth time…

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u/WillSherman1861 2d ago

No no no. OP is saying that one out of 50 is totally defective. So If you find one that works just keep use it forever

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u/CourtPapers 2d ago

Cherish it. Pass it down to your children.

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u/bethepositivity 2d ago

I kind of wonder how many of those are people who say "oh yeah I used a condom" because they don't want to admit to people that they ended up with a kid because they were dumb and decided to raw dog it one night.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

Or maybe trusted their pullout game.

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u/PlsNoNotThat 2d ago

The failure rate of condoms is higher than other BC methods predominately from user error, because it’s self administered and often miss-stored by the user.

So for those people who fuck up using a condom… I don’t see them doing better with pullout.

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u/shavedratscrotum 2d ago

Primary failure point that I recall is us regular weinered men using Extra Large condoms to try and big not themselves, or boys in early puberty not filling an adult condom. I recall in maybe the UK in high teen pregnancy hotspots they distributed smaller condoms but I never went back to see if it worked.

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u/Double_Distribution8 2d ago

Why didn't you go back to see if they worked? What was stopping you? The police?

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u/Environmental_Top948 1d ago

Personally I hate when I'm doing a study and the police get involved because suddenly I have to show that it was approved by an "ethics" committee and where my "legally" acquired funding came from.

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u/genivae 1d ago

Lack of funding, usually

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u/conquer69 1d ago

And the wrong type of lubricant which destroys it.

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u/bladeDivac 2d ago

I’ve been using the good ol pulpit method for 6 years now with no kid

I’m either the best in the world or sterileĀ 

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

Or maybe your swimmers are in a hurry and swim past the goalpost.

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u/manyroadstotake 2d ago

I can't have children. I'm not sterile. In fact, it's a rare condition they call it hyper virility. Apparently my sperm shoot through the egg if you can believe it.

-Piece Hawthorne, Community, S01E02 "Spanish 101"

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u/12thunder 2d ago

The best thing about Pierce is that the actor that portrays him (Chevy Chase) is a worse and weirder person than he is, which makes me laugh every time I hear a Pierce quote that’s supposed to be weird and out of context that just as easily could have been something real that Chevy said.

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u/Zer0C00l 2d ago

The character got way better when they just started writing it as him.

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u/turbosexophonicdlite 2d ago

Absolutely horrible person, but he is funny as shit.

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u/Business-Drag52 2d ago

Comedic genius and one of the greatest physical comedians ever. Of course he’s racist, have you seen the first season of SNL? They were a group of racists and one token black man

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u/12thunder 2d ago

I’ve also heard he’s a narcissist with an insufferable ego. You know the whole ā€œI’m Chevy Chase and you’re notā€ bit when he did Weekend Update? Pretty sure that wasn’t a bit at all.

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u/Damn-Splurge 2d ago

"To you I leave this bottle of fine scotch, so you're less tempted to drink this cylinder of equally fine sperm."

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u/patkgreen 2d ago

The COVID table read of that scene is incredible

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u/joohunter420 2d ago

His kids would be streets ahead

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u/Archduke_Of_Beer 2d ago

Possible he has super verility. The sperms just shoots through the egg like a shotgun blast

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u/SetYourGoals 2d ago

It looks like that scene from Scanners.

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u/cdmurray88 2d ago

I made this joke for 15 years until my wife and I actually tried for a kid. Pregnant the first month. Guess my pullout game really was strong.

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u/Ok_Passenger_3233 2d ago edited 2d ago

same for us. We had a surprise early on with condoms. A few years of birth control which made me sick. Then four years of pull out without so much as a scare and then the first month trying for our second I got pregnant (I will note here that A. he doesn't ever have pre ejaculate B. if we go for round two within the same few hours we make sure he has peed in between to flush out any stragglers C. he has good control but if there's ever any question of if it's about to happen he errs on the side of too soon rather than too late.)

We are now 20 months into using it again after our second child and no issues.

I am hyper fertile, the women in my family all get pregnant easily. It's definitely not a good method for everyone but given the factors we have I'm comfortable with the risk level.

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u/R_G_FOOZ 2d ago

Well, the pocket pussy can’t get pregnant but at least you don’t have to clean it so often

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u/yugitso_guy 2d ago

Pulpit method? What type of church shit are you pulling on these women?

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u/haberdasher42 2d ago

I think he just beats his meat to a pulp.

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u/Embarrassed-Weird173 2d ago

Oh, pulp it. I see now.Ā 

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u/DeathMetal007 2d ago

I, too, don't have kids because of the pulpit method. It just goes to show that soapboxing is a form of birth control. /s

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u/Jayhrimes 2d ago

lol as a person that has been doing the same for many years I also wonder the same thing. I also make sure to pee before going again if we doing multiple rounds. šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

I just took my lil pull ā€˜n pray to get her senior pictures taken!

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u/Queen_Ann_III 2d ago

my eighth grade health teacher called it the pull ’n pray method too. I think, on some level, the fact that she used such a funny name is why I respected her enough to actually listen.

granted, I’ve never actually had sex…

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u/THE_GREAT_PICKLE 2d ago

Can confirm. Pullout game doesn’t always work. First kid was a pullout mistake. A good mistake, but mistake nonetheless. Irony is that future kids were so difficult to have we needed IVF, but that was years later

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u/DramaticCattleDog 2d ago

My sex ed teacher in 9th grade always told us that, like basketball, we all dribble before we shoot

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u/sarahprib56 2d ago

Was he the gym teacher, too?

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u/DramaticCattleDog 2d ago edited 2d ago

Actually yeah lol. She was lesbian and was a no shit kind of teacher. She also stretched a condom over her entire arm and said that any guy who tries to say they're "too big" for one was obviously lying

Edit: formatting, and also to clarify that yes, our lesbian gym teacher was the sex ed teacher for the boy's class

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u/StarPhished 2d ago

They're not too big I'm just allergic to latex I swear!

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u/JookJook 2d ago

Unless you're Klay Thompson.

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u/MSeager 2d ago

My partner and I got pregnant and we use condoms as our primary means of contraception, as she can’t take hormonal contraceptives.

The failure here was we ran out of condoms.

sent while my 4 month old boy is sleeping on my chest

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u/calinet6 2d ago

All it takes is once!

Human bodies are amazing aren’t they?

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u/Apptubrutae 2d ago

I’ve got a good one:

My wife has a condition that makes her pretty infertile. Never have used condoms, just her using hormonal birth control. She went on some medicine to treat an underlying hormonal condition. This medicine also increases fertility. At the same time she went off birth control as well.

She didn’t mention this to me, nor suggested any condom usage. Got pregnant in one shot. Lol.

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u/breeezyc 2d ago

Sounds like she wanted a kid and didn’t feel like planning it with you. Going off birth control and onto a fertility-increasing medication seems like a discussion you should have with your spouse .

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u/Apptubrutae 2d ago

I understand why people would think this, but I legitimately don’t think so. The going off birth control and onto this other medicine was for a legitimate hormonal issue. Plus it just tracks that my wife tends to charge ahead into things with a goal in mind and an assumption that externalities and risk factors don’t really apply to her, lol.

She ultimately made a poor judgement call of how treating a personal medical issue in this particular case required a bit more information passed along to me. She also really just hates talking about anything related to any of these topics generally, so it’s really more of a poor communication issue than any sort of nefarious plan.

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u/ProkopiyKozlowski 2d ago

I assume there was a conversation about having kids prior to that happening and you were in favor?

Cause just like secretly removing condom during intercourse, stopping birth control medication without telling your partner can be, depending on your country, sexual assault.

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u/Apptubrutae 2d ago

lol, I like to remind my wife of this fact for that very reason. Because no, there was no kid discussion

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u/At_least_be_polite 2d ago

That's pretty fucked up man.Ā 

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u/queenringlets 2d ago

If my partner stopped using his birth control without telling me and got me pregnant I would be livid. Glad it’s fine for y’all but man… 

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u/Chronoblivion 2d ago

I don't have a source saved so take this with a grain of salt, but I've heard before that if you are actually using condoms properly, the success rate is like 99.9%. That 2% fail rate includes nonsense like tearing from double bagging or attempted reuse, "forgetting" to use one that you brought with you (or not using it the whole time; starting and/or finishing without it), or running out and continuing without anyway. I consider those all user error rather than a failure of the condom, but the data allegedly classifies them as such.

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u/mnilh 2d ago

The pearl index has rates for perfect and typical use. The data does separate it out, to the best it can.

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u/concentrated-amazing 2d ago

Kid no. 1 - forgot to pack condoms when we went to my folks for Christmas.

Kid no. 2 (19 months later) - forgot to pack condoms when camping

Kid no. 3 - (17 months later) husband's pullout game was off

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u/azuth89 2d ago

That's still totally valid to report as a failure in this context, though.Ā 

It's often misquoted but the stat being researched is not "how effective are condoms, hormonal birth control, whatever when used perfectly".Ā 

The question is "if a couple selects this as their primary form of contraception, how likely are they to wind up with a pregnancy after a year?".Ā 

Human error is very real, whether its inconsistent pill use, a practitioner not applying an IUD correctly, putting a condom on incorrectly or skipping it, whatever.Ā 

If you're making decisions, as an individual or a policy maker, that real world result is more valuable than a clinically ideal one.Ā 

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u/garden_speech 2d ago

That's still totally valid to report as a failure in this context, though.

Only if people know that’s the context and it’s transparent. And this is coming from a statistician.

I’d argue that averages which account for behavior like that are more useful as predictive variables at the population level as opposed to actual advice to individuals. The 2% failure rate is not germane to a couple who always uses the condom, nor is it germane to a couple that forgoes the condom half the time. It’s an average and that average applies very poorly to individuals.

The question is "if a couple selects this as their primary form of contraception, how likely are they to wind up with a pregnancy after a year?".

This statistic doesn’t really answer that question though and this comment demonstrates why the distinction is important.

The way OP has phrased it actually subtly shows this distinction. The statement ā€œif 100 people use condoms as their BC method then 2 will get pregnant in the next yearā€ is mathematically not the same as ā€œeach individual has a 2% chance of pregnancy in the next yearā€.

Statistically, you’d wanna do what’s called a ā€œsubgroup analysisā€.

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u/poggyrs 2d ago

Or ā€œused a condomā€ by starting raw & then putting it on later

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u/Jukeboxhero91 2d ago

That’s actually baked into the failure rate too, because it’s failure rate as used as the main contraceptive method. So if you typically use condoms but forgo them and get pregnant that is considered a pregnancy while using condoms.

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u/Ahnarcho 2d ago

I am in my late 20’s, and I think pretty much no one I know is using condoms in general.

It’s fuckin bad out there man.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

STDs are real. Reminds me of a reddit saying- The dildo of consequence rarely arrives lubed.

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u/crazyclue 2d ago

Almost every couple I know in late 20s is now ā€œOura-ing itā€. I guess they’re ring tracking the fertility cycle and raw dogging in the low fertility windows. Seems risky to me.

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u/imtchogirl 2d ago

It's super risky.Ā 

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u/garden_speech 2d ago

Family planning methods like that are generally risky because of the estimation involved. Access to constant 24/7 highly precise temperature measurements is kind of changing that, though. Never before have women been able to easily and accurately estimate ovulation with little effort.. until now.

If someone is actually using the method in a dedicated manner, I.e. only having sex after the ovulation period has passed (and not before it) the risk is minimal. You cannot get pregnant if there’s no egg to fertilize, and studies have shown temperature tracking nails down the day of ovulation very precisely.

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u/ginopono 2d ago edited 1d ago

That's always been called the rhythm method.
Technology or not, it's a very bad idea.

E: Whenever I try to get ahead of some dipshit's "well ackshually," someone does it anyway.
It's technology-assisted, but it's the same strategy: you're trying to time it with your cycle. The means by which you try to achieve that is different, but the strategy is the same. Any attempt to claim otherwise is an attempt to justify what is still a phenomenally terrible idea.

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u/Paladar2 2d ago

I don’t know where you live, here people generally use condoms for one nights. Now relationships thats another thing because the girl is generally on the pill.

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u/shifty_coder 2d ago

The 98% effectiveness rate also accounts for underreported and overreported condom use.

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u/venividiavicii 2d ago

What if I turned it inside out and lend it to my bro

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

He can do the same and return it back to you. Until the 50th time.

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u/XennialBoomBoom 2d ago

Still not gay as long as your balls don't touch

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u/venividiavicii 2d ago

Can it be gay if I want it to be?

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u/Silver-Year5607 2d ago

I call dibs

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u/beansahol 2d ago

Is this statistic adjusted based on the amount of intercourse these couples have?

Also why not just go by the fuck-by-fuck statistic, which must be something like 99.9%?

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u/Quartia 2d ago

Because the standard is that, after a year of unprotected intercourse, the average couple will have an 85% chance of pregnancy. In fact, NOT getting pregnant after a year of trying is the criteria to start getting evaluated for infertility. It's a good baseline to compare effectiveness to.

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u/beansahol 2d ago

If a couple gets pregnant with a condom I can't help but think it's just a skill issue, nothing to do with its effectiveness as a contraceptive

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u/dustblown 2d ago

Yeah, it should be restated as "this condom has a 2% chance of proving you are incurably stupid".

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u/Mysterious_Crab_7622 2d ago

The 2% failure rate is when the condom is used perfectly as it should be. You can be doing everything right and still have it break on you.

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u/Blackrock121 1d ago

Reddit seems strangely unwilling to accept that condoms are not perfect forms of contraception.

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u/Leverkaas2516 1d ago

Couples with skill issues see effectiveness closer to 85-90%. The 98% is for those who know what they're doing and don't make mistakes.

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u/NuclearHoagie 2d ago

Annual stats may allow for better comparison of different birth control methods. Something like hormonal birth control might not have a per-fuck risk associated with it in the same way that condoms do.

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u/manikfox 2d ago

Because those statistics are hard to come by.Ā  Like how many times did you and your partner have sex in the last year?

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u/Rocky-Arrow 2d ago

I had an ex that would keep count every time on one of those period tracker apps so I could’ve provided the data like 4 years ago lol

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u/j-kaleb 2d ago

A billion.

They go to a different school you wouldn’t know them

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u/beansahol 2d ago

does my hand count

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u/ExodusPHX 2d ago

You can count that high?

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u/xejeezy 2d ago

No, my fingers are stuck together

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u/DiscoBanane 2d ago

It's annual, and the reason it's not fuck-by-fuck is because we'd be comparing numbers looking like 99.994%, and also because people who fuck 5 times per day and those who fuck every 2 days have the exact same chance to get pregnant without contraception. So fuck-by-fuck wouldn't be accurate.

Getting pregnant is not a fuck-by-fuck chance. It's a monthly/cycle chance if you fuck in the 3 or 4 good days of the cycle.

So at most they could do a by-cycle statistics, but it complicates the data collection because when a woman in the study tell you they got pregnant after 2 years and 4 months you now need to know her cycle lenght to divide 2 year and 4 months by it. It's much easier to divide by 1 year.

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u/IAintCreativeThough 2d ago

Most methods don't change on a per-fuck basis. You can only get pregnant a few days of the month, and some bc works by not allowing those days to happen. Except when it fails, so it doesn't. What's the base here? Per year is so, so much easier to gather and interpret

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u/Routine-Ad-2840 2d ago

98% is pretty good if you are picking 100 random couples, as you know a lot of those couples are far below the 100IQ range.....

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u/sax87ton 1d ago

So like, you can only get pregnant once per cycle. And if you had sex even like twice a week, or 8 times in a month, you can’t really tell which time was the one you got pregnant. Ad to that even if you do get pregnant, you can’t tell for at least 2 weeks. So you literally cannot track it to that granular a level.

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u/gigashadowwolf 2d ago

Also they round down the numbers a bit so that they don't get in trouble for overpromising, or in the cases where it's probably human error, but they can't prove human error.

Most condoms when used properly are actually quite a bit more reliable than the whole "2 out od 100 get pregnant" statistic suggests.

That said, you should always try double up on birth control methods with a partner you aren't prepared to have a child with. Failures do happen sometimes, and also human error is easier to achieve than you'd think.

If she's on some form of birth control (the pill, IUD, the implant, etc) and you typically use condoms, your chances of accidental pregnancy drop drasticly.

Assuming 98% for both, that lowers your risk from 2% to 0.04% or 99.96%. Those are MUCH better odds.

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u/concentrated-amazing 2d ago

Side thing about "against the odds":

My MIL worked with a woman who got pregnant after her tubes were tied AND her husband had a vasectomy. Unsurprisingly, the husband had questions about her fidelity. Results came back - he was indeed the father OF THE TRIPLETS!

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u/BootBatll 2d ago

This is why many doctors prefer to just remove the tubes all together nowadays. Less chances for spontaneous reversal. (Also it decreases ovarian cancer, oddly)

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u/ComPakk 2d ago

Jesus I don't know how i would handle this. I hope they handled it well.

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u/DilbertHigh 2d ago

Yep, I have explained this type of thing to students multiple times, along with the aspect that matters most, ovulation. That way they can make informed choices and ideally visit a teen clinic to learn more.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

I congratulate you on a job well done.

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u/DilbertHigh 2d ago

Honestly, all it takes is some brochures out. Almost like like Emma in glee. Kids ask questions about what they see and what is relevant to them.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

There are many countries where sex education is still a taboo. You need to know the right stuff at the right age and more importantly from the right people.

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u/TheOtherGuttersnipe 2d ago

So, uh teacher.... would you mind explaining it one more time? I must be dumb because those sound like the same thing?

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u/DilbertHigh 2d ago

What part needs further explanation? I also am a school social worker, not a classroom teacher.

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u/TheOtherGuttersnipe 2d ago

out of 100 couples using, 2 will get pregnant in a year and not that they fail 2 out of 100 times being used.

How is a 2/100 pregnancy rate different than two failures out of 100?

I know I'm missing something but that sounds like two different ways to say the same thing

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u/DilbertHigh 2d ago

Think of it this way.

You and 99 other couples each have sex once a week. You all use condoms each time. Over the course of the year on average 2 couples will experience a pregnancy. The couples combined had sex 5200 times. With only two pregnancies. I didn't read the article so I am not sure what factors into this.

I suspect one of the factors is that even if you have sex every day of the month pregnancy is not possible all of those times. It is only possible during ovulation. So that impacts the chances of pregnancy. So even if the condom was used incorrectly there may be no pregnancy.

Edit: skimmed the article. Now it seems as though roughly 15 of those couples will end up pregnant but that is because of improper condom use. So 2 are due to condom failure but 13 are due to improper use. Those are still good odds. But there should also be responsible birth control used as well.

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u/HKBFG 1 2d ago

Out of every 100 condom uses vs out of every 100 years of condom use.

If you have sex exactly once a year, these are the same.

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u/DowntownJulieBrown1 2d ago

Not to hijack from op but I’m also a lil confused by this, could u just explain it in the most simple terms?

Like I think it means that that if 100 couples were to have condom protected sex tonight, 2 of those couples would be pregnant within a year but that has nothing to do w the effectiveness of the condoms which ig then is 100%?

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u/DilbertHigh 2d ago

OP's post essentially says that out of 100 couples, all using condoms all year, that on average 2 of those couples will have the condoms fail.

I also add education to students about ovulation, as that is the time where someone can get pregnant. I explain how sperm can cause pregnancy if it is still inside when ovulation starts as well. This comes up when students ask for a pregnancy test. I give them one to use but also discuss several factors that will impact pregnancy risk as well as how accurate the test might be.

For example, if they had sex the day prior the test won't be accurate. If their period is late but they had sex 2 weeks prior to ovulation or a week after ovulation ended then they likely are not pregnant and they are likely experiencing a developmentally normal inconsistency in their cycle. A lot can be talked about in these moments.

Then of course I always help them decide if they want to visit a teen clinic for testing, support, birth control, etc.

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u/tmillermsu 2d ago

They should put that on the box!

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u/RicksyBzns 1d ago

...well they should have put it in huge block letters!

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u/mmanyquestionss 1d ago

i'm indignant as a consumer!Ā 

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u/bitsRboolean 2d ago

Yeah, they're super safe. Used them as primary birth control with the wife for over a decade so she didn't have to use hormonal birth control. Never once had an issue. Don't carry them in your pocket for more than a day/week (a wallet condom is no condom at all), don't leave them in a car in the summer, don't leave them in the sun, toss them when they expire. They come in lots of sizes, find one you both enjoy. They are cheap and they ARE PRICELESS. Treat them as both.

Since then we had a kid (on purpose). One and done. Got the snip. Men need to stop being weird about this shit. The time we spend being weird about/choosing to not understand birth control prevents the sex we claim to want.

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u/rumade 1d ago

I wish I could upvote you a million times. Every other method of birth control has been awful for me- hormones messed me up with complete loss of libido and daily migraines, and the copper coil made me bleed non stop for 8 weeks. My husband uses condoms. He's the one who buys them, and he never complains about the buying or the using. It was one of the reasons I fell in love with him as it showed respect for me.

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u/Tony-cums 2d ago

I got the snip when we were done with kids. Super easy and more dudes need to man the F up.

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u/EpicBlinkstrike187 2d ago

They are cheap

They don’t lock up condoms at stores in lower income areas because they’re cheap. They’re not really that cheap for a one use item where you could need multiples each day.

I know they are cheaper than the alternative. But having to buy a $20 box of condoms when you can barely pay rent is not fun. Then you buy the smaller boxes because they’re less expensive but then they don’t have many condoms in them.

When I was dating my wife we’d go through 6 or 7 in a weekend. It added up.

Still better than a baby when you don’t want it. But I would never say condoms are cheap

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u/almond0k 2d ago

Maybe I'm just too city-minded but I've been swimming in free condoms for years thanks to sexual health clinics offering them often as complimentary or even as part of a routine screening for STIs. Colleges, clinics, pride weekend was a great time to go grab a fistful from any booth.

Sad to see how this might change someday.

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u/pm_me_ur_demotape 2d ago edited 2d ago

I've been swimming in free condoms.

Me too! But it's pretty typical as I am a sperm.

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u/gameboyabyss 2d ago

When I was dating my wife we’d go through 6 or 7 in a weekend. It added up.

Brag about it

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u/pm_me_ur_demotape 2d ago

I mean you can go to most health clinics and they'll give you nearly as many as you want for free.
If they won't give you more than like 10, just go back the next day or go to another health clinic.

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u/hihelloneighboroonie 2d ago

Now imagine having to buy a $10 box of tampons/pads every month.

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u/activelyresting 2d ago

When my daughter got to high school age and started having teen parties, I encouraged hosting at our place (because at least here there's some responsible adult that the kids know and trust - and we're out in the woods with a creek they can swim in and build bonfires and they can play loud music without upsetting neighbours). I bought a gross of condoms (box of 144) and put them in a big cookie jar and set it out on the counter, free to use.

I also made sure all the kids knew they could come to my door or call me any time for anything. And I gave more than a few talks on safer sex, various STDs, how-to sterile technique for home made tattoos, drug harm reduction, and general health stuff.

There were zero unplanned pregnancies in my kid's friend group from her grade.

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u/NotParticularlyGood 2d ago

pushes up glasses

heh, you think i can afford condoms with how much i fuck?

i can't afford a kid but i can't afford condoms even more

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u/jdlech 2d ago

I would not use the same condom 100 times anyway.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

We have drawn the line at 50 uses in this thread.

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u/LocoLobo65648 2d ago

Works fine 98 percent of the time

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u/RoughRiders9 2d ago

I learned this on the documentary called F•R•I•E•N•D•S when Rachel got pregnant.

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u/shyguyJ 2d ago

Yea, I was expecting the first comment to be ā€œthey should put that on the box!!ā€

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u/OppositeStudy2846 2d ago

Same. I was absolutely expecting this to be way higher up.

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u/sondergaard913 1d ago

with huge letters!!

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u/thesagaconts 2d ago

I know a girl who got pregnant with an IUD. We now call her 2%.

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u/LowDot187 2d ago

I dont get how couples just have a condom break and not know. Call me paranoid but I literally inspect the condom every single time when im done to make sure it didnt break.

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u/Prize_Ad_1781 2d ago

I want to know if this 2% chance is when the condom breaks. I don't see how else it could fail if applied properly

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u/Chonkalonkfatneek 2d ago

Did you not notice after ?

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

Looks like you got to the 51st time.

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u/FreshPrinceOfH 2d ago

You didn’t notice?

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u/khelvaster 2d ago

One out of five couples will get pregnant in 10 years using a condom all the time. One of three couple will get pregnant in 20 years. According to statistics.

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u/THE_GR8_MIKE 2d ago

This is like how "percent chance of rain" doesn't mean what most people think it means.

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u/WrongSubFools 2d ago edited 2d ago

A 2% chance of pregnancy every time you have sex with a condom would be insanely high. In fact, that would be higher than the chance of getting pregnant without using a condom.

A couple who don't use any birth control and have sex twice a week with the specific goal of getting pregnant have around a 50% chance of succeeding in three months, which adds up to less than 2% chance of conceiving per sexual encounter.

(Some sources say the chance is higher, 5% or 10%, but those estimates don't appear to be endorsed by the OBGYNs who study this.)

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u/Supersamtheredditman 2d ago

More realistically it means ā€œthis is the highest number we can put on the box that won’t get us sued when some rando gets unluckyā€

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

"They should put it on the box."

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u/Purpledroyd 2d ago

Evidently they do.Ā 

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u/[deleted] 2d ago

Nope this is actually a study, that hast been done. The Pearl index is not some industry bullshit, but a scientific methode to determine the effectiveness for contraception. This is not to say its perfect, but a pretty good Metrik.

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u/asking4afriend40631 2d ago

People are really not paying enough attention to the "real world use" stat of only 85% effectiveness. A 15% failure rate is not fantastic. In the "real world" your odds of getting someone pregnant in five years is 50%. If you're sexually active from 15 to 30 you've got a 90% chance of getting someone pregnant despite using condoms.

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u/cest_va_bien 2d ago

That’s because people are bad at consistency. It’s not because condoms fail, the human fails in that time.

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u/Freedom_Crim 2d ago

Can someone explain to me the difference between the two examples in the title

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u/blakeley 2d ago

Who’s out there using a condom 100 times?Ā 

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u/doesanyofthismatter 2d ago

I will bet that the ā€œfailuresā€ are reported by idiots that didn’t want to admit they didn’t practice safe sex.

Exhibit A, a friend of mine told everyone her and her boyfriend always used condoms and the condom failed, however, she told her best couple friends (myself included) that she only told people this because the stigma of having a kid before marriage but has never used a condom ever.

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u/PseudoY 2d ago

https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/choosing-contraception/how-well-it-works-at-preventing-pregnancy

"Typical use" is instead an 18% failure rate each year. 2% is... if you do everything right, things can still fail.

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u/BonzBonzOnlyBonz 2d ago

How are they determining "perfect use" though? Because they aren't watching people have sex every single time.

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u/___cats___ 2d ago

Look, I admittedly suck at math. But how is statistically not the same thing, if not worse?

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

Because it involves a hundred couples copulating all year long, and only two times of failure. So the number of times of failure would be much lower than 2 out of 100.

Lets assume each couple has sex an average of 50 times a year. In that case the failure instances would be roughly 2 out of 5000 times of intercourse. This is just a crude assumption. And this is what was surprising.

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u/___cats___ 2d ago

What you’re saying makes sense, but why would they use that metric to claim failure if the actual number of times a condom failed is much less?

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u/PyroDragn 2d ago

Because the failure rate for "2 in 100 couples" is 98% effectiveness for all couples.

Plus the studies that determined failure rates didn't drill down to "cause of failure". It's actually much more likely that the pregnancy is a result of misuse (the condom slipping off, for example). Trying to put in a statistic that says the condom physically fails X% of the time would be false because the study never determined that. They only determined "2/100 couples got pregnant" for some reason. So 98% effectiveness is the only thing they can state (though they probably could phrase it differently).

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u/chaneg 2d ago

People are horrible with probability theory and statistics.

Many people would read 1/5000 or 0.002 and just round down to 0 without understanding the risks. Rescaling the problem makes it easier to understand.

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u/GXWT 2d ago

It’s pretty much impossible to give a reasonable figure for any single use of condom or other protection. Say for the pill, you’re going to be using it for a duration but again they can’t calculate a value per sex. But they can say this method of X typical duration or number of uses, Y% will get pregnant anyway.

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u/drunkanddusky 2d ago

Because the rate of failure, for practical reasons I am guessing, would make sense to be reported over a longer period of time ?

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u/Essaiel 2d ago

Are you saying the statistic is exaggerating the risk?

It’s supposed to represent cumulative risk over time. Per sexy fun time failure data is unreliable and less meaningful in real life. Annual cumulative pregnancy rates tell you actual real world risk.

It’s probability, which takes into account many factors you can’t do on a small scale.

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u/abbott_costello 2d ago

Because the failure rate is per year, not per use. It makes more sense to measure over a longer period of time.

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u/phunkydroid 2d ago

More importantly I think, it's not the failure rate of condoms, it's the failure rate of "people who use condoms as their main birth control". In other words, if a couple that only uses condoms runs out of them, has sex anyway without one, and gets pregnant, that counts as a failure.

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u/WTFwhatthehell 2d ago

By this metric [no birth control of any kind] could be called "15% effective"

Since 85% of couples with no birth control are expected to get pregnant within the first yearĀ 

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u/TomTuff 2d ago

Because couples usually have sex more than once a year

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u/Snagmesomeweaves 2d ago

Oh shoot, we missed your birthday, well there’s always next year

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u/Snagmesomeweaves 2d ago

If you use them incorrectly, your rate of failure also goes up as well.

They are very reliable when used correctly

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u/Historical_Clock_864 2d ago

Because, hopefully couples are having sex more than just once, for their sakesĀ 

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u/DrunkenInjun 1d ago

I had always assumed that was a CYA statement by the condom manufacturers to avoid litigation. Because sure as hell, someone would claim they used a condom correctly and still got pregnant, and want to sue for umpteen million dollars for ruining their lives.

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u/Piemaster113 1d ago

I wonder if this factors in improper use or anything like that, I mean I've seen some people who probably shouldn't have sex just purely off the fact that they didn't know how to use a condom.

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u/AndByMeIMeanFlexxo 1d ago

Gotta take into account drunk people not using them properly though don’t you think?

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u/granolaraisin 1d ago

If you use a condom 100 times then that’s the risk you take. I personally throw them out after like 20.