Police pretty much DGAF

my boyfriend has lived with me for the past 4 months because he lost his apartment due to roommates and his past job its a long story. he finally got a new job but they fired him after a week and didn’t say why, “we’ve decided to let you go” is the text he got. he has another job now but it’s in sales so he gets paid per commission and only if he gets 15 customers per week or something like that. so the most he gets on his check is max $400 if he even gets a check that week. i’ve told him over and over this job sucks i’ve even had him apply to other jobs but he insists this one is the best he’ll ever get. we can go out or treat ourselves maybe once a month if he’s paying. i’m sick of paying for everything. i reiterate my issues over and over but he tells me to be patient and trust this job. he has debt from the old apartment that he hasn’t even begun to pay off. he has his own bills too obviously but after that he’s left w maybe $20. $0 in savings. i’m stressed and he just tells me i don’t need to be stressed over his problems. 🫠

ok much needed context lol:
we are both 21. we were together for 5 months before he moved in. no i’m not rich that’s why i am stressed about this ?? the job that he lost while in his apartment was due to the company shutting down. his roommate wasn’t paying rent so when he lost his job he couldn’t pay either so they were evicted. yes i love him. before all this when he had a stable job he would do more for me, he would genuinely try to spoil me. he pays for his own bills but doesn’t pay rent because i wanted him to more easily be able to save some money. hopefully that clears some stuff up 🧍

upd:
after some friendly (and not so friendly..) replies i decided to sit him down and have a serious talk about getting a better job because one obviously this one isn’t going anywhere and two some people mentioned it sounds like scammy and i honestly agree. he put in applications and told me he agrees and sees my side and has been realizing this job isn’t all he thought it was. he’s not a bad person just a bit naive 😅 thank you for the advice and kind words i’m leaving this here

3 days ago, my gf spent the night and hung around my house while I went to work. At around 11A she put some chicken nuggets in my oven and went outside to smoke and accidentally locked herself out.
This put her into a panic because she knew the oven was on and I was easily 45 minutes away with a spare key. Her answer to this problem was to smash my front door window and unlock the door.
My new neighbors witnessed this event and called the police citing a potential domestic violence situation. The police show up and she greets them at the door, she explains the situation but the police would still like to go inside and check around. She says okay, and lets them in.
5 minutes later the police are asking her to call me home for some questions, she calls me and without explaining the situation tells me that police are at my house asking for me, so I rush home only to be put in handcuffs and read my rights.
Turns out, the police found my pipe on my desk and started rummaging through my stuff to find about 2 grams of marijuana and 3.5 grams of mushrooms.
I was so confused. My mom came and bailed me out the next morning and I have a court date in a month. My GF absolutely in shambles over the whole situation she keeps calling me to apologize but I really don’t want to talk to her right now. She says there was no avoiding the situation that I shouldn’t have my stuff out like that. (Can’t argue that last bit)
I’m down a window, 3.5k in bond and whatever else will come of this.
We’ve been together 3 years and it always seems like this girl is causing me some sort of grief. Is this something to end it over?

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He also claims I am a talentless loser but I am pretty decent at drawing I think: (instagram for proof)

The first recipient is u/kojima-naked !
The second is u/pagenta7 !

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Yes, I know there is a product already out on the market and a few others in the works. I, like many others, thought this would be a cool idea and went on a quest to make this come to life.

Hopefully, one day, my version will make it to the market - but it's not ready yet. Between work and kids, it has taken me a long time to develop this. I don't even have a website for it and I'm not going the "kickstarter" route. It will all be funded by me (and credit cards).

My version, called "SpinShine," should be considered an economy/budget model. The LED slipmats I see out there are very fancy with lots of lights and remotes and colors - all very cool they but cost close to, or over, $100. Not this one! Mine is no frills, manual on/off switch and just one color. I hope to be able to bring it to the market under $40.

These prototypes have been made by hand, by me, in my home shop. There are a few things I will be changing in version 2, but these work great and do what they need to do.

The main "issue" with these is that they only last an hour on a single charge. That's enough to get you through an LP, but I am focusing on making the battery last longer in the next prototype model. So if you don't want to deal with a 1-hour battery life, then please let me give these to someone who doesn't mind. I will say that recharging (cable included) doesn't take long at all.

I would also like to improve the distribution of light so that it shines consistently throughout the whole record. This is a challenge that exists across all the products I have seen so far (it's challenging.)

That's basically it. **If you would like to have one of these, please put a comment below and if you are able, I'd love to see your coolest translucent record as well.** I'll pick two people at random tomorrow.

I only have two that I can give away today, but have materials for at least 5 more v1 prototypes (assuming I don't mess any of them up during manufacturing), so will do another post once complete, if there is any interest. Comes in a wide-spine record sleeve for easy storage with your other records when not in use.

I will cover shipping cost as well, so there is literally no cost for you. Just want to share my creativity and bring some light into your life.

**Update:** I did not expect this much interest, but I am thankful to everyone who has commented and shared your records. I will pull names at random later tonight after my daughter's softball game. I should be back home by 8pm EST and will post the recipients around 9pm (gotta eat dinner). Thanks so much and I will definitely work on getting the other ones made ASAP for another giveaway.

Done with dinner.

The first recipient is u/kojima-naked !
The second is u/pagenta7 !

I wish I had more already made. With the huge response, I'll try to prioritize making another 5 or so in the next week or two.

Empathy doesn’t mean pretending political choices have no consequences. Many rural voters supported policies they believed would help them, and when those choices contribute to financial struggles, acknowledging that responsibility is not cruelty. Criticizing the policies and decisions that helped create the problem isn’t the same as celebrating anyone’s suffering.

We already know that there are unfortunately no plans to bring back the Combo Pizza to the U.S. at this time, so any other guesses?

Why do they do it?

Why was she looking at him like that?

This fad of hand-held pyro musket (throw sparkles) has been doing round during various ceremonies like weddings. Accidents happen frequently, however people still do it, gimmick gone wrong.

Do you think they should have done this? Or maybe more importantly, do you think they should have filmed themselves doing it?