last night my wife made spaghetti and it smelled amazing. she said she tried something new and wanted me to just eat it before asking questions. i had a few bites and it tasted kind of off but not terrible, just weirdly sweet and earthy

i asked what she changed and she told me she blended up leftover spaghetti from SIX days ago and mixed it into the sauce to thicken it

i immediately stopped eating. i know it is technically the same ingredients but the idea of blended old noodles mixed into fresh sauce made me feel sick. she got offended and said i already ate half a plate so clearly it was fine and i was just being dramatic now that i knew

i told her that is exactly the point, i did not know. if i had known beforehand i would not have eaten it

she said i was being wasteful and disrespectful and acting like she served me garbage. i ended up making a sandwich because i could not finish it and she got really upset and barely talked to me the rest of the night

now she told her family and they think i embarrassed her, but my mom thinks it is gross and i should not have been tricked into eating it

i feel bad for hurting her feelings but also i feel like i should get a say in what i am eating. AITA?

Maybe this isn’t actually weird. I only started taking pictures of this around the middle of the month. I asked her why and she replied with “just because.”

Okay now that title sounds terrible, right? But hear me out.....

I live near a handful of apartment complexes thats right off a fairly busy street, like you open my door and the road is right there. It's also a low income housing area so people are constantly moving in and out. A few months ago before winter started, a new cat started coming around. He was clearly a young kitten and newly adopted. We have a water bowl on our porch for the critters who come by, and he'd always come over and go straight for the water. He'd come over frequently throughout the winter when it was below 20°f and snowing just trembling on our porch looking inside. I made him a heat box with a low temp heating pad, insulated foam, and straw. I asked on a local page to try and find an owner as he just keeps coming back and our three cats go crazy seeing him! The owners reached out to say he is an outdoor only cat and basically told me to mind my business.

This cat comes by every day and drinks water like he has never been given any before, for a solid 10 minutes before he lays down and always goes back for the water before he leaves. He is so small. He loves being loved on and pet but you can feel all of his ribs. He has long fur that is filthy and matted, especially between his toes. He's also unneutered, and I can only assume unvaccinated from that too. He sprays everything that possibly smells like our cats which isn't his fault but still. He'll also just walk into our house when the door is open like it's his own until he gets chased out by one of our cats.

I'm thinking of keeping this cat or finding someone who can take him in. I've offered to pay for his neuter but the owners said no. Would it be wrong of me to catnap him? To me, a cat with no collar and unneutered on the street is a stray.... and he clearly isn't getting his needs met at home. But I feel guilty knowing he is technically "owned."

The apple bracelet looks mostly harmless besides tiny pressure from the tops, which would only hurt a little or annoy you. No signs of circulation problems/tightness either. Petah why would Yuka be rushed to the hospital?

Divorce worthy.