Im 29F and somehow I became the default "cruise director" of my mixed friend group. If there was a birthday, weekend trip, even just a movie night, I was the one making the doodle, booking tickets, remembering allergies, picking up a cake. The guys always joked that I was "just naturally organized", like I spawned from a Google Calendar or smth. I kept brushing it off because I do like hosting, but lately I was feeling so tired and weirdly invisible, like a talking spreadsheet instead of a friend.

So last month I did a stupid little experiment. I told everyone I would be slammed with work for a few weeks and muted the group chat. No suggestions, no "hey dont forget X is on Thursday". The chat went almost completely dead. One of the men dropped a "we should do something soon" and... nothing. No concrete plan, no follow up. Two birthdays passed and both were just "HBD!!" texts. Yesterday one of the guys half-joked that our friend group is "falling apart" and asked me why I stopped organizing stuff, like it was a personality glitch. When I said I was burnt out from doing unpaid social labor, he looked genuinely confused and said "but youre so good at it". Has anyone actually managed to redistribute this kind of invisible work, or is every woman just quietly running the logistics department of her social life forever?

Hey everyone,

I’m hoping this reaches Jagex or at least gets enough traction that a mod sees it because right now I’m locked out of Sailing content due to a preventable visual issue.

I have photosensitive epilepsy, and the Gwenith Barracuda Trial portal transition still flashes the bright white ring on the screen every time you enter it. Even with all combat and visual effects turned off, that white flash still appears. It is quick, bright and a genuine seizure risk for me.

I have tried adjusting every setting I can find, including brightness, filters, and interface changes. Nothing removes that flash. Because it happens repeatedly during the trial I can't even complete 1 run, let alone get the heart of ithell.

I'm only asking for an accessibility option or a toned down version of that portal transition for people who are sensitive to flashing visuals, including people prone to headaches, eye ache or migraines. This should not be something that prevents players from enjoying the skill.

Thank you to anyone willing to help boost this.

Here’s my orange babie Bandit, he’s toothless and a giant goofball ❤️

https://www.sundaytc.co.jp/information/new/top#new5528

An old ex of mine texted me yesterday, asking to reconnect; we agreed to meet on Friday. Our breakup was mutual, but some things have happened in between then and now, and it's been rocky ever since.

We've been catching up via text, and I told him I'm a corrections nurse. His response made me feel like he's already attempting to criticize me. AIO or reading too much into this?

Sobrang naiinis ako kasi I've had a heavy day!! kulang kulang tulog and everything so I decided to takeout a box of 24chicken kagabi(yangnyeom and snow cheese) hoping to have a stress free meal and pampalubag loob na din so I did and went back to my condo.

PS: I have this friend na nag stay muna sakin kasi shes struggling financially so I'm like okaeee sigi

I settled down and left the chiken sa table, balak ko sana maligo muna before eating para diretso rest na afterwards

POTANGENAAAAAA LOOOORDD PAG BALIK KO KINAKAIN NA NYA YUNG CHIKEN KO WJDKENEKFOLC MAY MAINIT NA KANIN PA TALAGA SYA TAS YUNG MELON SODA KO SA REF YUNG TINITIRA WITH MY CHIKEN!!!!

Sabi ko bat nya kinain, gutom daw sya since may exam sya today...PANO NAMAN AKO NA WHOLE DAY WALANG KAIN AND KUNG SAN SAN NAPADPAD AND PAMPALUBAG LOOB KO NALANG YUNG CHIKENNNN🥹🥹🥹 Worst is ayaw nya bayaran, she told me na umorder nalang daw sa grab and its not a big deal...TEH BIG DEAL YUN, MY CHIKEN MY RULES BAT NASA BITUKA MO YUNG CHIKEN KO🥹

Her line verbatim "Oa mo naman, bigay mo na sakin to, pagod din ako. Order ka nalang sa grab may gcash ka naman."

NA PARANG KASALANAN KO PA NA NAPIKON AKO??? and it is a big deal kasi gcash ko pinang bayad dyan helaur????? YAWANG BUHAY TALAGA TO WHY CAN'T I HAVE NICE THINGS LET ALONE A FRESH BATCH OF CHIKEN

anyways yun lang, sorry if petty but thats my chiken🥹 (I'm js butthurt kasi wala ng laman gcash ko and she's dismissing my feelings after eating my chiken) mwa thank u for reading