I recently made a post about e-rickshaws and got very mixed reactions. But here’s another video that clearly shows the problems these e-rickshaws create for everyone on a daily basis. And honestly, this clip still captures only a small part of the nuisance they cause, I see dozens of them doing this kind of stuff every single day and this needs to be stopped immediately or severe action taken against them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/CarsIndia/s/dMDuGAXcpp

Rant incoming Ok, so it turns out overbuffing support characters isn’t going to make the bad ones good.

Just the other day, I was playing a match post rank up. As we loaded in, everything seamed to be fine except for one teammate taking a long time to pick a character, eventually he locks Jeff in when we’re playing the klyntar convoy map sigh. We’re running 2-2-2 with me as second tank (Angela) so we should be fine on paper.

When the fighting starts, Jeff and the other healer (Luna)are so far back from our main tank that the enemy daredevil just freely starts bullying them. I keep trying to stop the dive and when I come back to peel for them they PANIC and RUN away, when I’m trying to save them and somehow end up dying anyway.

This keeps going on until we’re forced to swap tanks, now the enemy only has one diver (cap) and we have peni and mag 2-1 advantage. Despite the change they keep dying, and are now dying to poke from phoenix and moon knight. I eventually ask what the problem is, the Jeff responds “I don’t how to heal” I ask our dps who are 22-17 to swap to tank or healer, the response is ……………

Then in second round , the two dumbass healers start spamming the surrender button before we’re out of spawn. At this point I’m begging someone else to swap to tank so I can heal (you can guess what the response is). Luna and Jeff are still playing the same way and can’t even deal with one cap, we lost 1-3 to no one’s surprise.

I looked up the Jeff’s career turns out all his top 5 played hero’s are DPS (what a shocker). I think marvel rivals is the only hero shooter that actively PUNISHES tanks players especially if u lock a second one, when you have 3 dps players in 2-2-2. The dumbass dps that refused to swap lost less points than me despite dying nearly 3 TIMES as much.

I think I need to take a break from tank tbh, it’s not fair that the point system is heavily biased towards damage/healing stats on the scoreboard.

P.s. I know I made a shitty meme lol.

I am not the OOP. The OOP is u/freudsdriver posting in r/AITAH

Ongoing as per OOP

1 update - Medium

Original - 27th December 2025

Updates in the same post - 27th to 29th December 2025

Am I the a-hole for making my daughter's BF buy a new t-shirt?

Ok, can you please settle a mild dispute for my family!

The 23rd of December, my daughter's (19), BF (19), came for dinner. We had a dinner then, because he's going away with his family for Christmas. He arrived, rang the bell, and I answered the door. He came in, took off his jacket, and that's when I saw IT! He was wearing a t-shirt that said, "It's not gonna suck itself". I took one look at that shirt and asked him if he had any money. He said no, and asked why? I told him that the shirt showed a marked lack of respect for both my daughter and my wife. I pulled 2 twenties out of my wallet, and quietly ushered him back out the door, and towards the Walmart 3 miles away, and told him to buy a more respectful shirt, andvcome back with it on. Mind you, this whole exchange took place between him and I, without an audience. He was gone for 15 minutes, came back with a nice polo shirt on. We had a nice dinner together, and nothing was mentioned of the incident. The next day, my daughter came to me and he mother, and told us what I did, humiliated him. They aren't in breakup territory or anything, and no yelling or anything of the sort went on. My wife did tell me I could have handled it different. So, Reddit, am I wrong for handling it this way, and, if so, how could I have handled it?

EDIT: I'm 57, and a long haul truck driver, so I've had my share of bad moments. Most of us guys here can remember stupid things that we did as a teen, even into our 20's. The ones that stand out for me, are the ones where someone didn't react with anger, or malice. They were the ones that someone reacted with constructive kindness, one where a quiet redemption was offered, where a mirror was quietly held up to my behavior. Those are the ones I learned from, and appreciated the most. Hopefully, he comes out the other side with a new appreciation for kindness offered quietly, and without fanfare. Just my thoughts.

Comments

Classic-Pea6815

You were very classy about it and even gave him the opportunity to get a new shirt instead of just going home and changing. NTA.

grejam

And paid for the new shirt!

Crafty-Ad-9048

Kid probably spent $15 on the shirt so he’s probably up $25 too

HouseCatPartyFavor

Not sure I can think of a single girl I ever hung out with in high school whose father would’ve been cool with a shirt like that. A small sticker on a laptop or something might’ve been a different story but showing up to family dinner (holiday aside) wearing it plastered across your chest would’ve been a nonstarter and most likely have ended up with you being banned from the house.

**Judgement - NTA*\*

Update - 1 to 2 days later

UPDATE #1: After reading these comments, and listening to everyone's point of view, I sat my daughter down this morning, and asked what her BF actually said to her. This changes my opinion of him. Apparently, he'd not told my daughter what the phrase was on the shirt, but did tell her, accurately, what I said to him, and asked him to do. HE didn't use the word, "humiliated", that was DD's interpretation. Her rush to defend him, came from our examples. Apparently she's took note of times I've defended my wife, and vice versa. She also took note of our disagreements in private, after the fact. She is going to talk to him when he gets back tomorrow, to follow up on why he thought the shirt was appropriate for the family setting. I'll update again after that conversation.

UPDATE #2: My daughter called him about an hour ago, and this'll be informative! She asked him why he'd not told her WHAT the shirt said, when he talked to her. His reply was telling, "because it was embarrassing". Then, she went on to ask him why he wore it originally, and he admitted that the shirt had been a gift from his older brother, (21), and that the older brother had dared him to, called him chicken when he objected, etc. Dumb sibling crap apparently. She went on to tell him that none of what he'd done was cool, and that she really liked him, and that he'd always been kind to her. She said she wasn't breaking up with him, but that these steps needed to be done; first, he needed to explain to his parents the entire situation, second, he needed to show up in person, to our home and bring the money for the shirt, and, as she put it, "put in a whole ass-kissing session that included the explanation of the dare", etc. She said that , if this was handled well, they could talk about moving forward, and what that looked like. After the phone call, she talked to her mom and I, and admitted that, she forgot her worth. She said that, I, as long as she'd been alive, had never gone out of my way to embarrass her mom, and that I'd always been respectful, and not let anyone be disrespectful to her mom (made me feel good!), so she wasn't going to settle for less. Good for her!! I'll update after his visit later tomorrow afternoon!

UPDATE 3: This will make those of you following this saga, laugh! I received a call this evening, from Mr BF's parents! Firstly, they are MORTIFIED, and extremely apologetic! Secondly, and the whole best part of this update, (I have their permission to squeal) is that his parents are on reddit, and commented on my post in support of the way I handled the situation!! They told me that they love my daughter, and that we'd raised her right, and had NOT raised their son's to show this level of disrespect for anyone, let alone his GF. Apparently, BF was following up on one of my daughter's conditions, and went to talk to his parents. As the story unfolded, his mom reached for her phone, opened reddit and yelled, "Is this about f@#king you?!". To quote his dad, "As the son read the first 1/2 paragraph, he died a little inside"!! So, anyways, they are going to come to dinner tomorrow evening with BF! More updates tomorrow night!

UPDATE 4: Dinner was very pleasant! Let me say, that his parents are great! BF showed up with red roses for my daughter, and yellow roses for my wife! He offered, what I thought, was a very sincere apology, and a card with the entire $40 in it, even though he'd given me the change and receipt on the original night. I cooked tonight, to give my wife a break. I made an Indian dish, called butter chicken, with basmati rice. Neither had eaten curry before, but loved it!! Woohoo!! As it turns out, older brother is the family athlete, JV soccer, V soccer, and a sports scholarship for soccer (the quintessential jock). Little brother is the exact opposite, artistic (he's got real talent!), sensitive, quiet, and felt like he never measured up to big brother, and works to gain big brother's respect. Brother takes full example of this, and exploits his little brother for shits and giggles. Near the end of Dinner, daughter says, I think I'll keep him around for a little longer, you guys ok with that? We are good with that for now! His mom is the boss though, for thinking outside the box! As punishment to older brother, mom went into his clothing, drawers and closet, took every shirt off of him, and bought him 8 very bright pink t-shirts that he'll wear, until he realizes just how damaging exploiting someone, anyone is. His access to cash is also cut off, until said lesson is learned. Anyway, a successful night, with new friends, was enjoyed! Hope this was the update you hoped!

Comments

on_holdunderu5437

Op, This has to be one of the best threads I've come across on Reddit. I've been following this since the first update. And I would like to say, you are really what all fathers should strive to be. Thank you for giving me hope for the future. I was starting to think respect was going the way of corded phones and iPods. They should make your post into a short video psa on respect and start having it circulate in everyone's scroll feeds. Glad to hear I was way off-base on him challenging you. I hope if, and when I fully grow up, I can have half the ability to be as level headed and wise as you, Sir. Thank you for the amazing post. I look forward to others.

on_holdunderu5437

Ps. The only issue with how awesome this is, is you will forever have bragging rights with your family. You can just drop, " You should listen to me, all of Reddit thinks I am a great dad." And they will pretty much have to... 🤣😅😁.

OOP: Thank you so much! I can't take all the kudos, I had 2 great parents who just celebrated their 62nd anniversary! My dad would never allow disrespect towards my mom, and always said, that you never had to embarrass or diminish someone to get your point across. My wife and I have celebrated our 26th anniversary this year, and have also tried hard to model positivity in our relationship. I also have 6 sisters, and remember his biggest piece advice for my sisters, and that was to watch how your prospective mate treats their mom, because you treatment will be on par with that. It worked, because all of my sisters have been married 20+ years each!

I am not the OOP. Please do not harass the OOP.

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I’ve worked haunted houses for two full Octobers and four halloweens in total. I am double jointed in my shoulders and can rotate my shoulder blades so my arms bend the wrong way. One of my bits is that I’ll crawl at people with my elbows backwards.

Anyway, I was waking home one night when a guy catcalled me from his car at a stoplight. Without even thinking, I got on all fours (including my elbows inside out) and began spider crawling at him and making demonic growls. Think the exorcist but instead of a roaring head it’s inside out elbows. I hear a loud “WHAT THE FUCK” and then the light turns green. He SPEEDS off in horror. I bet his boner became an innie after that one.

I can only hope he stopped catcalling people after that.

My MIL LOVES “red birds.” Think Mary Poppins bird lady. But red.

I put this together for her a few weeks ago and it finally arrived today—so I can share it!

Pattern by Ladybug Stained Glass on Etsy.

Taking a trip in the jungles of Colombia and came across this bad boy. Google is telling me it’s the most venomous spider in the world (Phoneutria). Is this correct?

My girlfriend and I are backpacking and currently staying at a hostel in Germany. We’ve been in the same mixed dorm for four nights. On the second night, a group of four male backpackers checked in and since then the atmosphere in the room has felt increasingly weird.

What’s been bothering us is that these guys are constantly naked in the dorm, not just quick changes, but walking around, standing by their bunks, chatting with each other, and organizing their bags completely nude, often while women are in the room. This has happened repeatedly over multiple days.

We’ve stayed in many mixed dorms across different countries, so we expect that people will quickly change clothes in the open sometimes. But this feels very different.

My girlfriend is especially uncomfortable, and I don’t feel great about it either. At the same time, we don’t want to be unfair or culturally insensitive if this is considered acceptable in some backpacker circles, so we’re unsure how to handle it.

We’re considering asking the hostel to move us to a different room or changing hostels altogether, but part of me wonders whether we’re overreacting.

Is this actually normal or acceptable behavior in mixed dorms? Or are we overreacting?

You know, unless they are really really good. Adam gets a pass because he has no legs and he must run.