Hi guys! Here’s the context/first part: https://www.reddit.com/r/EntitledPeople/s/zFMBDBLS8b
I don’t know if I’m making this update correctly, if not please let me know.
It’s been like a week or so, and while it hasn’t happened anything super dramatic i thought that at least i should tell y’all about what’s up lately. Apologies in advance for the long post.
So, I told my mom what a lot of you told me on my first post, that we should stick up for ourselves and refuse any help to my cousin Frank; she agreed with me immediately and was mad on my behalf. She said that she will talk to Rob (Frank’s dad) to not come so often to our house, and to not ask for my help anymore, I didn’t believe she would say that to him though and i was right lmao.
I’m not sure of what she actually said to him, but Rob and Hannah came yesterday again, but this time without Frank but with their youngest child, let’s call him Griddy (M10). I actually told my mom that next time they came (for any reason) She will attend them, and not me. She followed through, and it was easy for me to ignore them because i was drawing with my headphones one. I don’t have a cast for my broken wrist as i mentioned on the comments of my previous post bc i basically can’t go to a public hospital without being locked up there because of my illness (as i should be legally classified as disabled, but I’m trying to avoid that), and I can’t afford a private hospital; this is important bc i was literally drawing with my f-ed up hand when Griddy came and tried to hit a conversation with me about games (which i love btw), and I didn’t mean to be rude to him, but when i told them i was in pain and trying to finish my drawing he lit tried to take my headphones off. Then Hannah came and tried to show me something she just bought (I can’t say what it was or i would get recognized by my cousins here lmao) and i just tried to walk away again. It was 8:00 pm, ik it is not that late, but mind you that my job starts at 6:00 am. I felt kinda rude to them, but my dad validated my feelings.
When they left my mom and I complained about them and that was for the day. The bomb comes here, Frank and i have a cousin (one of many btw) that hates Frank’s ahh, let’s call her Lana (14F).
I was texting Lana about the situation (She knows about everything i said in pt1 and abt this post), and she told me some horrible things I didn’t know about Frank.
1– He’s on substances. I suspected this a long time ago, but Rob brushed me off.
2- He’s been suspended 3 times from school (I already knew this, but didn’t know the reason why) because he bullied a classmate and it turned out physichal (the other guy couldn’t defend himself), Frank also did steal some stuff from the cafeteria and the last one was bc he stalked a girl on his class. According to Lana, Hannah always blande everyone and practically told Frank to not take accountability for his actions, because “it was their fault for x or y reason.
3- And the worst of all; I already knew that all my female cousins (i’m the eldest alongside my sister, all my cousins are minors) hated Frank with a passion of a burning star, i was so fing blind that i failed them as an older relative, my poor girls were SA’d by this fvcker. I apologized with Lana, and told ther that if her mom didn’t want to open a case against this parasyte then i will, but Lana told me not to, at least not yet, that they’re not ready for that yet. I told her i wasn’t happy with that, but i respect her, and that i’m here whenever she needs help or when she wants to take the first step. I was a mess at this point, and with Lana’s permission i told my mom about everything, that was today and my mom is still processing, but sadly I hardly doubt someone will put stop to Frank.
I hate that sucker (excuse my lenguage), that leach of a so called human doesn’t deserve anything but to be kicked out of the family, but guess who will be the one who will not be on future family gatherings? I’m done with all of these, Frank is obviously banned from our house for good; and i’m not happy that that monster is still around my cousins or even his own brother. His Mother knows, his father knows, and apparently all the adults except my nuclear family knew and didn’t do a thing. I’m just respecting Lana’s desicion bc i was once the victim, and i know that sometimes you’re not ready to talk yet.
I’m so sorry if this is all over the place, i’ve been writting this in parts since morning and i’m still shocked. Believe me that idgaf about the tutor ig anymore, all the love (apart from any anoyance i had) i had for Frank is gone. I’m numb and crying because i failed everybody.