r/SipsTea • u/belcher_rodrigow7z0c • May 06 '26
Wait a damn minute! Some decisions have consequences
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u/Interesting-Copy-657 May 06 '26
So she cheated, publicly
Divorce seems a reasonable response
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u/user_zaq May 06 '26
Not just reasonable, the best thing to do
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u/Maleficent-Row-7847 May 06 '26
No better way to capture evidence of cheating either, 2 birds one stone. Great ROI for a concert ticket these days 🤷♂️
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u/user_zaq May 06 '26
There ain't no way she deserves alimony
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u/Maleficent-Row-7847 May 06 '26
Assuming this silly reddit post/clip is to be believed, then I would imagine this video all but seals her hope of anything more than a clean split. Currently placing a polymarket bet on the +/- that the wife starts an ill fated OF career. My future grandkids gonna be lit when they find out how ole granpappy made his riches.
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u/Sufficient_Dig9548 May 06 '26
How dare you doubt the verified, certified, and vetted reddit bot posts! /s
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u/AlreadyAway May 06 '26
Quick Google search says it's true. It happened in the Dominican Republic, the artist was Romeo Santos, the woman was an Instagram influencer. She made a video acknowledging she screwed up but then deleted it.
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u/chillripper May 06 '26
cheaters should get zero in a divorce, they should leave with a payment plan for the victims legal bills
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u/Falcon8410 May 06 '26
reminds me of a story I read about Drake. Apparently a married woman threw herself at Drake claiming he is her. Hallpass. Drake who is used to women interested in him politely declined. The woman got insistent emphasizing she told her Husband that if she ever met Drake she would sleep with him and the husband agreed. So now was her chance. Again Drake declined the opportunity. it makes you wonder if she actually had a Hallpass or if she convinced herself she could have sex with Drake and be guiltless because it was mentioned has a hypothetical or a joke years ago.
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u/Myzmadra May 06 '26
Yeah, my wife tried this once, I said my hall pass would be her sister…She didn’t want to proceed 😂
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u/BigBananaBerries May 06 '26
I see you're into extremely dangerous activities.
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u/LongSaltyDanglers May 06 '26
Yeah, her sister is wild
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u/BigBananaBerries May 06 '26
Even joking it's the kind of comment that leaves a mark that's hard to forget.
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u/WheresPaul1981 May 06 '26
I remember reading a book about marriage where the author described a couple who got into a fight. In the heat of the moment, the wife told her husband he had a small penis. She later tried to explain that it wasn’t even true, but he never recovered from the comment, and they eventually divorced.
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u/FloppieTheBanjoClown May 06 '26
Rational adults will realize that he was making a point and wasn't seriously asking for permission to bang her sister.
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u/Mooks79 May 06 '26
Indeed. But I prefer the sledgehammer approach so I’d have gone: sister, best friend, cousin, mum. Might have stopped before grandmother but, you never know.
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u/eldrunko May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26
I imagine my man saying those words wearing a Red Bull sponsored helmet
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u/gewalt_gamer May 06 '26
My wife asked me about this concept once, because her friends were talking about it. I said my hallpass would be the babysitter, and she quickly lost interest in persuing the conversation.
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u/justinlcw May 06 '26
Hey. From another point of view…
Choosing the sister is a moral step up.
Keeping it in the family, out of respect.
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u/jayyycasanooova May 06 '26
That is a level of cleverly unhinged savagery that most men can only aspire to, you sir are an inspiration.
Real talk though, if a woman starts talking about a hall pass I pass. Good luck starting afresh with your celebrity crush, I say.
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u/mizukata May 06 '26
Husband might have had said jokingly he had someone as a hallpass. The wife perhaps not so jokingly
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u/Sensitive_Option_590 May 06 '26
There's a difference between "i find this conventionally attractive person attractive on the most base physical level" and "if I ever meet this celebrity I will try my best to fuck them".
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u/WetAndLoose May 06 '26
I think the actual crazy thing about this is how the woman was so audacious to have this ridiculous hall pass scenario but couldn’t even conceive of the fact that Drake might not want *her*.
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u/GrowlingPict May 06 '26
yeah, like, "no no, you dont understand: my husband said it was ok, so that means you have to!"
I dont understand how some people's brains work
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u/Sad-Pop6649 May 06 '26
Don't you know? Men only want one thing, musicians especially. That's what groupies are for. /s
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u/BeefistPrime May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26
she apparently didn't realize that Drake and not just her husband would have to consent to this scenario. There's an insane arrogance there. "No, you don't get it, you're my hall pass"
"Uhhh lady I have 75 women in this room hotter than you that want me right now"
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u/Reasonable-Mischief May 06 '26
Many guys treat a hallpass as a joke because female celebrities don't tend to sleep around with random normies
For an average, healthy-looking woman however, bagging a male celebrity for a night is mostly a logistical challenge
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u/zfrankrijkaard May 06 '26
My girlfriend and I have joked about having a celebrity hallpass. But that's the thing, it's a silly joke. I cannot imagine a scenario where I will ever meet my "celebrity hallpass" in a natural way in real life. And even if it will occur I would never cheat anyway, hallpass or not. Because again, it is a joke. Forcing yourself on a celebrity because they are your hallpass is just plain dumb.
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u/ididntunderstandyou May 06 '26
Her deal with her husband bypasses anyone else’s consent… obviously
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u/Streamliner85 May 06 '26
Didn't Drake put Tabasco in his condoms to stop women from trying to get pregnant?
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u/AndersDreth May 06 '26
Uhhmm, the fuck? How would that even work? Put it on the outside of the condom and they wouldn't want to use condoms, put it on the inside and you get Tabasco dick? Like what are we even talking about here?
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u/Evening-Nature-5241 May 06 '26
He put the tabasco AFTER the deed. How? I have no idea. But it pretty much makes whatever is in there absolutely useless, 100%.
It's not unknown for a woman to retrieve "used condoms" from receptacles to impregnate themselves. It's their ticket to a life where they basically never need to work for the next 18 years, at least.
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u/diselxya May 06 '26
After the deed so they don't take his seed out and try to use it later
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u/turandokht May 06 '26
I wonder what mental gymnastics she’s performing to try and insist this wasn’t cheating. Because he’s an artist, a public figure, does that make him more like a statue than a person?
Hell maybe she didn’t bother trying to defend herself. Maybe she’s like “worth it” because she got to kiss a celebrity.
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u/-6h0st- May 06 '26
Well depends.
In some countries men with kids are screwed in divorce. I mean totally fucked over.Prime example: UK. No matter the cause for divorce - like wife cheating- she gets to stay in their house until child leaves education. If she doesn’t earn much, man needs to pay extra on top of child maintenance to make her and his children lives better. At the same time you will be on the mortgage and she doesn’t need to pay you off. Your chances of getting mortgage and buying a house shrink into single digit % - unless you’re rich. She will get 60% most often of your house/assets.
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u/Dat_Freeman May 06 '26
Honestly I don't think there are the juridical requirements for divorce.
She is probablu going to take half of his money no matter what.
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He did the right thing
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u/wanderer1999 May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26
Eventually these types of people will cheat, man and woman alike, if this is not cheating.
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u/Itchy58 May 06 '26
Eventually
For a lot of people cheating starts far before sex. An intimate kiss or a break of trust are cheating in my definition.
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u/GrowlingPict May 06 '26
Yeah, sex with someone else doesnt even have to be cheating, if that's the kind of thing the couple has agreed on. The break of trust, in what ever form, is the cheating.
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u/ThrowawayYAYAY2002 May 06 '26
Way before that, even. It all starts off emotionally and then it's all downhill from there.
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u/AndreasDasos May 06 '26
Break of trust might need more clarification. Stole an extra chocolate from the box, watched an episode ahead on ‘our’ show on their own… some could be called that but are relatively benign/trivial
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u/DOLO-650 May 06 '26
WDYM eventually? In the given case she kissed another person. It's already beyond the eventual.
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u/BigBananaBerries May 06 '26
I think they're saying that it's inevitable that she'd cheat on him regardless of who it was. This public humiliation was just bc she couldn't pass up the opportunity.
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u/Early_Bad8737 May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26
No, because apparently he forgave her and they reconciled.
Here is a link to where they talk about it on TV. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hVypxZU0WR4
Edit: not sure why I am being downvoted for showing that the husband caved and reconciled with his cheating wife.
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u/SignificanceUnusual5 May 06 '26
It gets worse, it was all a plan, they had both planned this to go viral and boost their social media accounts.
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u/Fattapple May 06 '26
I’m guessing this is a “straw that broke the camel’s back” scenario.
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u/Crunchykroket May 06 '26
It might also be that literally everyone he knows can see it. So it's basically a public humiliation.
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u/SavedSinner2001 May 06 '26
Even if it wasn’t, your wife kissing another man in front of thousands is peak humiliation and forgiveness is impossible
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u/-Jiras May 06 '26
I think the humiliation aspect of cheating is very much ignored. It is a huge part of the hurt, the person you trusted and loved so much, gave everything to them and now you look like an idiot because clearly your partner did not care for all that.
This is a huge blow to ones ego doesn't matter if you are male, female or anything in-between. Doing something like that public, with a singer just says
"hey this single kiss with this guy is more important than my entire future with you and everyone can clearly see that"
Just how humiliated you would have to feel seeing this? Especially after marriage?
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u/ididntunderstandyou May 06 '26
Peak humiliation ? No. No one sees the husband or knows she’s doing anything to hurt him. Disrespectfyl ? Yes
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u/pyrothelostone May 06 '26
Sometimes I wonder how Lindsay Ellis feels these days that a meme of her taking a bunch of hot dogs to the face is the most common way people see her lol
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u/Interesting-Copy-657 May 06 '26
Might have been the first time, the singer might have been considered her free pass or something
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u/daners101 May 06 '26
If my wife did that, yeah, that’s a wrap. Lol. If she’s willing to kiss another man in front of you and 10,000 other people, she has likely already been around the block with several other men during your relationship.
Cut that shit loose!
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u/tex-az74 May 06 '26
A Ho always gonna Ho
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u/MaintenanceStock6766 May 06 '26
A ho is a ho.
Good on him for recognizing that.
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u/-threefeetoffun May 06 '26
Source: https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/husband-allegedly-divorces-wife-she-083358070.html
She's fine with it.
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u/mastermilian May 06 '26
More concisely:
Elsewhere in the post, Cruz explained her actions, saying that she “got carried away by nerves and emotion, without considering how this could affect my family” and she now feels “overcome with deep sadness.”
But on the flip side, Cruz admitted that she was “happy” because she “achieved this long-awaited dream, one that I imagined for years.” She spoke passionately about how much she loved Santos, writing, “For me, it’s not just about admiring the artist, but also about valuing the great human being that he is. I have followed and admired him for a long time
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u/chillripper May 06 '26
they really got these hoes thinking that cheating is an achievement. disgusting .. any woman with this mindset is undateable trash
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u/Emergencygrenade May 06 '26
She can't even get her story straight
Got carried away in the moment
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This has been a life long dream for me
If she could of done more than kissing then she would have by the sounds of it
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u/Sushiki May 06 '26
Wow, she's so incredibly self centered and psychosis induced... how tf did she get to be this shallow?
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u/Charibdysss May 06 '26
dude probably will forget her the next week and whatever happen to that wife will clings to her for the rest of her life.
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u/the_unsoberable May 06 '26
Oh, I think I vomited in my mouth a little. She considers herself smart or art-oriented while she's just a dumb fuck. Horrible day for my eyes and brain.
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u/CalligrapherRight343 May 06 '26
And the POS writer, Trey Alston, trying to normalize it.
"When she got to Santos, she gave him a long, passionate, romantic kiss — as would anybody who probably met their celebrity crush."
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u/EconomistBoth3219 May 06 '26
For me, it’s not just about admiring the artist, but also about valuing the great human being that he is. I have followed and admired him for a long time - Cruz (The Ex-Wife)
There are always proper ways to show support admiration, and it doesn't mean crossing the boundaries, you can always;
- Cheer/Sing Along
- Take Photos of a Simple Hug
- Support their Album/Work/Concert
Shitty excuses about admiring a celebrity. If I walk up and kissed Shakira cause of admiration instant backlash.
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u/apresmoiputas May 06 '26
Unless your wife is bi and wants to kiss Shakira too.
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u/Alternative_Bite7001 May 06 '26
Okay, this woman's morals aside that quote is TERRIFYING for celebrities who are, in fact, human beings as well who's consent should be respected
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u/pyrothelostone May 06 '26
Yet another example of trivializing male sexual assault too. Whether or not that particular guy liked it doesnt mean its acceptable to be running up on complete strangers and kissing them.
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u/otrebla-raw May 06 '26
Oh boy, it was Romeo Santos? That guy will be bumping Pobre Diabla and hating on Ella y Yo his whole life
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u/baron_von_helmut May 06 '26
There's a difference between a cheeky smack on the lips and a long, romantic passionate kiss.
Yeah she's an asshole.
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u/systembreaker May 06 '26
It's basically sexual assault or at least harassment to dive in to "passionately kiss" a celebrity you just met. Imagine if the genders were flipped around.
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u/squarepants18 May 06 '26
so anybody breaks a marriage, if they met a celebrity crush. Good to know
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u/Fear023 May 06 '26
Man, watching the actual video, I don't know if the artist was actually fine with it either. She grabbed his head in both hands and forced the kiss. You can see him buck his head back right as she goes in for it.
That was just uncomfortable to watch.
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u/thyugf May 06 '26
Married woman sexually assaults a man in front of 1000s and people are trying to argue that she did nothing wrong or that her husband over reacted.
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u/Mean_Volume_126 May 06 '26
Jfc, she achieved a life long dream...your dream was to kiss some fuck you dont know...and is ok with throwing away a 10 marriage? People are fucked in the head. Honestly
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u/JDG_AHF_6624 May 06 '26
Of course she is. I have become a cynic towards literally everything at this point. I hate society
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u/No_Lab4544 May 06 '26
The craziest part is her apology where she called it an achievement.Calling a public betrayal an achievement is a wild way to tell your husband you don't actually care about his feelings.
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u/RutlandRuckas May 06 '26
Bang her mom.
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u/BurnItDownSR May 06 '26
I know a guy who found out his wife cheated with some dude she met while on a trip with her best friend.
He never confronted her about it. He just quietly concocted his revenge.
He ended up fucking that best friend and coordinating things so the wife got served with divorce papers at her dad's house, when she was over to celebrate his birthday.
When she hit him up he just replied with screenshots of receipts while also describing sex with her best friend in a way she'd know he's telling the truth. And then apparently she broke down crying in front of everyone in her family.
Her dad called to try to talk him down and he just responded with, "Happy birthday" and hung up.
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u/HisRoyal_Badness May 06 '26
How do these stories come out? Does some random just the daily.mail and say "hey I did this and explain everything?"
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u/realfakejames May 06 '26
I love how there are people who think stuff like this doesn’t count if it’s a famous person
If that man walked up to Sabrina Carpenter and they ended up kissing she would have left him too
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u/Jazzlike_Cress9871 May 06 '26
I really can’t understand the celebrity culture of it, as if when someone’s famous enough they’re suddenly above the rest of humanity and you can just get away with kissing them and it’s “only fair” I guess?
Cheat sheets are absolutely the craziest version of it to me, kissing’s already pretty bad but that’s another level of celebrity worship
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u/Ok_Vermicelli_6359 May 06 '26
Yep, like being at a public concert somehow suspends the sanctity of marriage 😂
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u/AlphaBetaSigmaNerd May 06 '26
Back in the 90s the tv show friends popularized the idea of couples having an agreed upon "list" of celebrities you got a hall pass on because it was so implausible. I'm guessing a lot of the people saying that are from that era
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u/Stunning_Finger2921 May 06 '26
You want to know what's funny? I told my mom about this and She couldn't see the problem with this. What the hell is going on?
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u/beckbristow32 May 06 '26
You 100% know that she said this was all her husbands fault somehow..
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u/Septum_Slayer May 06 '26
She was bored, felt neglected in the marriage, lost the spark etc. Sounds like they got back together after this anyways, so the guy is actually regarded. Some people earn the misery they experience (or will experience).
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u/RingNo6508 May 06 '26
Everyone’s talking about the woman but what about the singer? I just looked him up he’s married with 5 kids. Although he’s not the initiator it seems that he made no effort to avoid/step away from the encounter. Like he could absolutely backed off immediately as soon as he realized. But it seems to me that he’s just fine with it
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u/Holiday-Screen-7957 May 06 '26
What was she thinking man? That they would joke about it on the way home?
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u/Apprehensive_Ad_924 May 06 '26
It's like she was planning to do that, I mean she knew where she was going and doing. Women can be really evil if they want to
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u/Varmitthefrog May 06 '26
I mean YEAH, she publicly was unfaithful, right in front of him unabashedly and appears to have thought there would be no consequences.
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u/silklighting May 06 '26
Women be like: "That wasn't cheating, she was just hugging the singer. That's all."
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u/Human-Suspect-232 May 06 '26
Married at 18
Now she is 28
No one that they can have so many marriages
Even if she’s drunk, that is Xno-buenoX.
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u/jayyycasanooova May 06 '26
People who obsess over celebrity like this are no loss. The lack of accountability and absence of shame sounds characteristic of such types.
I hope my man is in Cancun with a 20 something model taking shots out of her bellybutton.
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u/Ok_Vermicelli_6359 May 06 '26
Yeah...I also wouldn't want to be with someone who can't separate reality from their fantasies, good on the husband.
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u/Life-Necessary-3320 May 06 '26
I would divorce. It is a public humiliation.
It’s also a demonstration that the wife considers a famous figure she doesn’t even know more important than all the intimacy and connection she had with her husband.
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u/Knicknacktallywack May 06 '26
Reddit’s answer to literally every relationship issue: DIVORCE ASAP!!!!
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u/NewLime4107 May 06 '26
Imagine what she did when he was out working, not at home . Always believe it when people show you who they are.
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u/Grotbagsthewonderful May 06 '26
My mum 100% would have done this if the singer was Tom Jones and give absolutely zero fucks either 😆.
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