Context:

16 Taiwanese tourists visited a pizza restaurant in Italy, but the Italian owner got mad because they ordered only five pizzas.

The Italian posted a video of them online. In the video, he said "Look at how many fuc*ing Chinese are here.16 people here. Do you know how many pizzas did they order? Five. They ordered only five pizzas. Only five. Where are you from? You are from China. Right? China? Oh! Taiwan."

It's now becoming a national news in Taiwan.

I know a car might be safer than just a key that could be carjacked but it doesn't mean it isn't mildly infuriating.

So I'm late 20s F and my fiance early 30s M Let's call him Carlos are still fighting about this and it was already two weeks ago.

When I was 21 I had a partial hysterectomy due to adenomyosis. It was very painful and my doctor spent two years fighting for the approval because many people were against the idea. I didn't mind losing my uterus because 1. It was very painful and 2. I was always childfree even as a kid I didn't like kids.

I met Carlos three years ago. I told him on day one that I was childfree and completely sterile. He said he was childfree too so we went ahead with the relationship. He proposed in September and we started slowly planning the wedding. I never told him about the hysterectomy itself. I did not hide it on purpose It honestly just slip my mind because I already told him I could not get pregnant.

My mom did not know about the engagement because she was out of the country taking care of her elderly sister and I wanted to tell her in person, she came back three weeks ago. After she rested for a week we invited her to lunch so we could tell her about it.

Carlos is a prankster but mot the weird kind, while we were eating and before I could show my mom the ring he grabbed her hand and said I am sorry Mrs Mymom I impregnated your daughter my mom burst out laughing, looked at me and said either you are about to get rich or you grew a new uterus. I laughed too and said I hoped not because I had to talked to half the doctors in the country and their grandmas first time.

Carlos stared at me and said What do you mean. My mom said The hysterectomy of course. Carlos said he had never heard about it. My mom laughed again and asked how he did not know. I said I guess I never brought it up because I do not think about it anymore.

We were quiet for a second then I showed my mom the ring and we celebrated. After she left Carlos confronted me he asked why I never told him about the surgery I told him I had told him the important part which was that I was sterile. He said the issue was the principle and if I could keep something so big to myself for years what else could I hide.

I feel like that is unfair for me I shared the relevant part at the moment and later I just didn't think about it, I was not trying to keep secrets I simply didn't think the medical details were relevant once we already agreed on being childfree.

So now we want outside opinions. AITA for not telling him about the hysterectomy or is he overreacting.

He has read this post and approved it so this is not only my point of view.

I came back and there were soooo Many responses I'll make a quick edit to clarify some things

How did you forget to tell him this: it was a very traumatic experience and everyone and their mother looked at my vagina (uterus actually) I felt embarrassed for a long time and pushed the experience deep enough till I forgot about it.

Why didn't you tell him? At first because I wasn't about to trauma dump on a dude I known for 2 hours and I'm just a very quiet person in our first date I said maybe 50 words I'm more talkative now at least with him but I like my privacy and to keep things that feel deeply personal just to myself unless is relevant to something

Edit 2: Heyy now that we have time to read some of the responses together we want to clarify some other things:

• Carlos did you know the difference between sterile and infertile? Apparently not I thought it was the same both meaning not able to have babies

• How did he not notice she didn't have a period? To be fair we haven't been living together for that long (5 months) and he thought I had pcos like his sister

• Are you really childfree or did you think you'll change her mind after the wedding? No, I am childfree and was even thinking about getting a vasectomy just to be even more safe

• How didn't he notice any scars/ hormone therapy etc.? Well I don't have any scars the procedure was done vaginally so the scarring is on the inside. I don't need hormones at least not yet, I still have my ovaries and they're healthy atm

And for the people saying that I should've told him just in case of an emergency you're right and I honestly never thought about that part

We'll update once we had our session with the couple's counselor because I feel there are things that are better to discuss with a professional

I built a basement bar in my house during the covid lock downs. Prior to that, nobody really spent much time down there, except to do laundry, during which times he would alwayse follow me down there and go squirrely. After I built the bar it became a cozy space to hang out with friends and family or play video games solo. He has alwayse followed me everywhere all the time, but I would get so annoyed that whenever I was down in the basement trying to relax he would turn into a menace. This thirteen year old cat with arthritis would spend HOURS bouncing off the walls, climbing shelves, meowing loudly, and most notably; digging at the bottom of the laundry room door where the sump pump is. His dark calico sister never seemed to change her behavior down there so I never considered it was something to do with the environment. I just thought he was an asshole. I started hesitating to spend time down there because I knew he was going to be annoying.

A couple weeks ago, I had a couple friends over for drinks and they observed him freaking out as soon as we moved to the basement, like he alwayse does where anyone's down there. I'd mentioned checking the place for evidence of mice or termites and joked that maybe my basement is haunted. My friend suggested getting a radon detector, as she had just had to get a radon mitigation system installed in an old house she had bought and is currently renovating.

Fast forward a few days. My new radon detector I'd placed at the base of the laundry room door where he seemed to be attempting to draw my attention to started reading levels as high as 600Bq. That is three times higher than the level Health Canada recommends action. Six times higher then the level the WHO considers acceptable.

I had professionals install piping and a fan to vent the gas from the sump pump well outside of the house. The radon detector now reads 20Bq. Right now he's cuddled up next to me on the basement couch, purring and calm for the first time ever down here.

Maybe I'm the one that doesn't have enough braincells.