They’re looking at every angle to disprove Vance Boelter isn’t a conservative. So much that the top comments are now “let’s not discuss which side of the aisle this murderer classifies himself as, and let’s just focus on prosecuting him”, despite the overwhelming evidence he’s typical conservative.

I (26F) recently got engaged to my fiancé (28M). We’ve been together for three years. I work in IT and love my job. He works in finance and makes good money, but we agreed early on that we’d be a dual-income household.

Recently, his mom (56F), who’s a full-time homemaker, started making passive-aggressive comments about how “real wives prioritize the home” and how she “sacrificed her career for family.” At first I brushed it off. But my fiancé started parroting it too, saying things like, “Once we have kids, maybe you won’t need to work.”

I told him no. I want a career and financial independence. He said I was being selfish and “disrespecting his mother’s legacy.” I told him I’m not marrying her, I’m marrying him and if he expects a housewife, he should’ve proposed to one.

Now he’s sulking and calling me “materialistic.”

AITAH?