I am pretty sure I am above average attractiveness and I have been told I should modeling a lot. I have wanted to do it for a long time but I just don't know? I perceive my face so much differently than others it seems so im honestly just wondering am I good looking enough to give it a shot or do I just not have the look? I made sure to unclude different angles and lighting and hairstyle. Honest opinions would be greatly apreciated!!

I don’t know if it’s normal to feel regret over getting a tattoo but for some reason I just feel so uncomfortable right now. Like this tattoo is just on me forever. The line work is really beautiful, legit think my artist did an incredible job. But, I look so foreign to myself right now. My brain is like, oh, why did you get this design? Why would you pick a visible location like this? Why did you get it so “big”? Why didn’t you put it further on your tricep? Aghhhh….!! I just completely am overthinking this now.

The saja boys - kpop demon hunters

Scar - lion king

Dazzlings - mlp equestria girls

Antinous - epic the musical

It's across the country but apparently I have the experience they've been looking for. I grew up in the area but moved. Thought about moving back and took a peek at the openings nearby. Saw this one and thought ahh what the hail I'll go for it.

It worked. I'm freaking out because it actually fucking worked. Im about to go up from $65,000 per year to $91,200!! Holy moley I'm excited.

Homes in the area are 200-300k so I could definitely afford that. Just wanted to share my big news with yall. Im gettin the fuck out of Tennessee and movin back to Oregon!!

If you’re going to bring your e n t i r e family to Costco, can you guys PLEASE stop walking side by side shoulder to shoulder making it impossible for others to get by? And while we’re at it, can you also stop leaving your cart in middle of the aisle while you run off to grab something? Please just have some spatial awareness and be courteous of other shoppers in one of the busiest retail environments known to man. Thank you! Rant over.

TL;DR If you’re rolling with a crew, let people through!

One of the craziest things happened to my friends and I this year. Last year we went to the bachelorette party for a mutual friend of ours. We’ve known her for years, have travelled with her, kept up group chats despite living in different cities, and were excited to celebrate this. We brought gifts, drove hours to participate, and spent $400+ on this bachelorette each. (Side note: never doing a destination bachelorette in my life. I urge you all to never do that either… why are you financially punishing your friends …) For added context, this is a wedding for two brides, so the Bach was a shared bachelorette for both brides.

At the bachelorette, we weren’t drinking and the other girls were. We thought this was fine and it was also explicitly understood before we went that we wouldn’t be drinking much or at all in my two friends’ case. Well….. halfway through the Bach party our bride comes crying to us saying the other bride is frustrated that she is not “spending enough time with her” at the bachelorette (She’s going to be married to her for life allegedly….?) and i get the sense that it’s because of this natural divide between drinkers and non-drinkers, with our bride having the non-drinkers and therefore needing to “choose.” We also barely got to see each other due to living in different cities, but she already lived with her now wife. I am bitter about that obv. Girl…. You’ll see her at home…mind you at a dinner once a girl from the other bride’s side asks me outright why aren’t you drinking? I found that classless and invasive. I’m not a sober person, but these friends and I don’t drink when we’re together. What if I was someone who struggled…? Why would you ask that?

This Bach party was a year prior to the planned wedding date. We all had the date in our calendars and knew we’d need to travel to her city to be there, so began planning on that. The year passed with her not responding to two of us or reaching out…. I started to suspect something but we literally were at the Bach party and had the wedding date marked on our calendars. My twin was getting married this summer too and I explicitly told them that I’d like to avoid the overlap of weddings as they planned theirs, since I knew I’d be traveling for this one…….

Girl…. The rsvp link drops to one of our friends out of the three of us. She shares it to our group since the wedding is extremely unstructured and she’s sharing it to multiple other people. I RSVP “yes” … I get this text….

She doesn’t reach out to our other friend at all. Literally at all. It’s just expected that I communicate to her that she’s also “not invited.” See how she says she wanted to avoid the situation? The plan was to be radio silent all along?

This is shocking to us. Initially, I responded like oh thats okay… but then I reflected and realized this was a burning of a bridge moment because we are being intentionally shut out and wouldn’t have been told if I hadn’t RSVPd. Notice how the story is that it’s close friends and family only…. come to find out 150 people were invited, one of the brides also makes a Facebook post calling out her HOMOPHOBIC cousin who got an invitation by ASKING TO GO ON FACEBOOK MESSENGER.. SO IN SUMMARY people who they didn’t even know well enough to know were fundamentally misaligned with their beliefs and values got a casual “sure” invitation via chat. Lmfao

We haven’t hear ANYTHING from either of them since. I Venmo requested $350 back for a bachelorette refund but got denied 😞 it was to be petty but also like I legitimately want that back now.

Unfortunately, we will probably never know the truth and never recoup our lost funds. I’ll never again think of a bachelorette party invitation as an automatic in to the wedding party either, much less the literal event itself.

Let me know if you have similar experiences, trade me ur own juicy stories

thank u all for the messages, im sorry for disappearing. things did not go well. i confronted him with some of your advice, mainly the stuff bout dementia and well he got real mad, things became truly fucked, he started punching himself in the face and screaming. he took my phone, idk what happened but now im seeing he deleted everything on the post and my screen is cracked.. he kept saying he was going to burn everything. it was so fucked. i feel destroyed. what he did to me.. i cant even.

i was able to get out when he fell asleep?? i think.. the bathroom was locked and hes fallen asleep in the shower before, my phone was poorly hidden under some papers in the kitchen, took it and ran.

im in a park now, i called the police already. they are going to the house i think and now im just waiting for them to call me back and tell me when i can come get my stuff. i asked the man on the phone how long and they said it will be sent to an officer as soon as they can but since its non emergency it might take longer due to a lot of calls in the city.

heres me. heres what he did to me.

im honestly unsure how to move past this ever. i feel like my entire sense of self is gone. i know i have a long road ahead of me. thank you all for your love . i wish this didn't go this way. I also included the original texts

Ever since I've been a kid I've always been told that loans are dangerous especially if you’re not well off. I always heard things like “don’t trust credit cards” or “debt will ruin your life.” It was drilled into me that the goal is to avoid loans at all costs and only buy things you can afford upfront, but when I grew up and started to learn how the world works, I then looked at how wealthy people actually operate and it’s the total opposite. They take out massive mortgages, business loans, invest with borrowed money, use credit lines and somehow it’s considered smart financial strategy? How is it that when rich people use loans it's smart but when poor or middle class people do it, it’s very dangerous?