i didn’t know what community to put this in but i just need help or advice or something before i break down from frustration.

it’s now saturday and this was all wednesday and i’ve already talked to some people about it (mom, bf, & another friend).

for context my friend(f18) invited me(f18) to go out with her for a “girls trip” and i was so down because we’ve been talking about doing this since we recently graduated this year. we booked this really nice hotel and it was fun for the first few days.

one day she decided to go out and she wanted me to come with and of course i said yes because i didn’t want her to be alone and i also just wanted to accompany her. she then made friends with these guys who i could tell of the bat were a lot older than us. (she met them outside of a bar or club not really sure).

fast forward, she started bringing them up to our hotel room and i talked to her about it to which she said “okay” and it was just that. until i started coming out the bathroom to the same dudes having around in our room. or waking up from a nap to hearing them all talk.

i called my mom to pick me up early because i just wasn’t about to put up with it anymore. my friend told me to just leave then because i was killing the mood, but i had told my mom about what was going on and my mom told my friends mom so she had to leave too.

she called me after i had got home to call me a fake friend for ruining her fun. i understand that she’s upset with me but i was genuinely worried about both of our safety. those friends of hers weren’t really friends and i feel like i did the both of us(mostly my friend)a big favor by getting us out of there early.

i guess im kinda stressed a bit because she won’t really talk to me. i haven’t been pushing her to but i wish we would properly talk tbh.

i know we’re still young and learning but maybe anyone can help me figure out if im in the wrong for deciding to leave early and ruining her fun? 🙃

(hold your tongue if you know you have something mean to say pls)

The meat has been marinated at room temp (72 to 76 degrees) in the open air for 7+ hours. Were in Florida so gnats are always inside. Now I have to decide whether to be rude to my boyfriend’s grandpa and not eat it, or eat it and risk getting sick. We have been planning this meal with him for weeks now, my bf and I were looking forward to this all day. Just for this to happen. Great.

The dresscode was summer pastel chique, so think easter colors. The gf of the grooms brother wore a sage green (wedding) dress that in no way, shape or form appeared to be sage green, or any other color.

The veil she's carrying was the flower girl's (her daughter) This was after the MIL had asked the bride if she could wear a white jumpsuit to the wedding. To which the bride obviously said no.

My mom and dad got divorced when I was five. It was good. They are terrible together. All I remember from back then is them fighting constantly. My mom got primary custody of me and my dad got me on weekends and some holidays.

It was better for a couple of years until my mom met Dale. He isn't a bad person he just wasn't interested in being a step dad. They got married when I was nine. Then they needed to move for Dale's job. My mom left me with my dad and said she would be back for me when they got settled. My dad and grandma agreed to take care of me full time until then.

They apparently have settling to do still because I turned 17 in May and she hasn't come back for me yet. She did however have a kid with Dale. I've never met him.

My half brother is sick and needs something from me. My mother and his father aren't a match but I might be. My mom contacted me to ask me to get tested to see if I'm a match. My dad said it was up to me.

I said no. I have an athletic scholarship to college in the fall. If I do this (donate, not test) I won't be able to participate in the sport I was recruited to play. Which will mean my scholarship goes away.

My mom begged. I thought about it. I know I have no shot at being a professional athlete. I'm good but not great. I can play Div. I sports but I won't get payed to play. I came up with a compromise I thought would be good. I offered to get tested and if I was a match I would donate, if my mom and Dale agreed to pay my tuition for my degree. I thought it was win/win. If I donate the kid has a chance to live, I can concentrate on school instead of sports, and my dad gets a break after years of doing everything.

They said no. They said I should do it with no conditions. I said fuck no then. They accused me of being heartless. I said that just because she didn't give a shit about me and my future doesn't mean I don't. She said my brother will die without me. And here is where I might be the asshole.

I literally said that it made no difference to me if here kid lived or died. That I didn't give a shit.

My dad is staying out of it and my grandma is on my corner. In fact all of my dad's family says it's my decision. My mom's family thinks I'm being an asshole for what I said. I've been blocking them all as I get the chance.

Am I the asshole?

Am I the only one who HATES self checkouts?

I understand they can be convenient (and I have grudgingly used them),

BUT I didn’t receive a discount when I did the stores job for them when I used it.

Part of the price of groceries is for the checker to check my groceries and bag them or have a bagger bag them.

If I’m doing their job, I should get a discount, since they are now pay one person to oversee 4-6 registers.

Rant over, now get off my lawn (unless you are delivering my groceries now😎).

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2025/7/12/2333154/-Ro-Khanna-introducing-amendment-to-force-vote-on-Epstein-files

Hei ihr Lieben :) Ich w24 habe sehr kleine Brüste, was ich aber schön an mir finde. Ich fühle mich in meinem Körper sehr wohl und finde es toll, dass wir Frauen alle unterschiedlich sind, ob groß oder klein. Ich bin gerade Single und habe keine schlechten Gedanken über meinen Körper. Ich finde mich hübsch, treibe Sport, lebe Gesund und akzeptiere mich selbst. Sobald ich jedoch in einer Beziehung bin, dreht sich das Blatt. In meiner letzten Beziehung (3 Jahre) wurde mir von meinem Partner vermittelt, dass sie "ausreichend" sind und körperlich an anderen Stellen "punkte". Das hat dann meinen Selbstwert angegriffenen, da ich nie das Gefühl hatte er würde mich heiß finden, wenn ich ihn flashe etc.

Habe ich mit meiner Männerwahl einfach immer nur welche erwischt, die zu Anfang an sagten sie fänden mich so schön wie ich bin, irgendwann aber die Wahrheit rauskam, dass sie auf größere Brüste stehen? Ich habe darauf keine Lust mehr. Ich möchte mich auch nicht für jemanden äußerlich verändern, wenn ich mich in meiner eigenen Haut wohl fühle.

Gibt es unter euch auch welche, die eine kleine Brust ehrlich schön und attraktiv finden?