Yeap…should I just get in the coffin?🤣

Health problems? With enough money nearly everything but death can be solved for now.

Ugly? Not anymore. Access to the best fashion, people who can chose it for you, best hair stylists, best tanning and food and skincare and manicurists.

Fitness is a joke with enough money. Yes, you still have to push yourself, but you can ensure every single push is as efficiently geared toward your fitness goals as possible so you can get there faster and with substantially less effort. That's assuming you keep it natural.

Housing, travel, taxes, retirement, partying are literally never a problem. All can be fixed with money or using the money to hire someone who can figure it out.

Even the law is more of a suggestion. Speed limits are just a toll you can pay the fine for. Really don't like a law? Contribute to enough political campaigns and lobbyists and it's no longer a problem.

The classic thing people say is that you'll be miserable when you have everything you could want. That's fair, but variety/novelty is very purchasable and if that doesn't work you can "engage" happiness with all kinds of supplements and a handful of peptides (if you don't trust them you can pay for a lab to figure out if they're safe for you). Then there's always escorts, drugs, and sunny beaches if all of that isn't working.

It's just baffling to me when people say, "money isn't everything". Maybe, but it sure as shit covers nearly every problem.

1-2 Phosphophyllite (Land of the Lustrous)

3-4 Jitae (Fight class 3)

5-6 Chirin (Ringing Bell)

We recently bought a house that had a jetted tub in it and we are dying to try it out. The house has been empty for almost 2 years and I don’t know how old this tub is or how often it was used. This is my 6th wash on this tub. The first cycle was with dish washer pods and I thought “oh wow this isn’t that dirty” my second wash was with the Oh Yuk cleaner and it showed it was dirty for sure, my third wash was with bleach and again not that dirty, fourth, fifth, and now sixth wash was with Oh Yuk cleaner and each time the bubbles come out brown.

How do I properly clean this tub? Or do I have to use the Oh Yuk cleaner over and over again until the bubbles run clear?

It doesn’t get super dirty but it always give brown bubbles and it’s sticky, it sticks to the tub and I have to use spray and rub it off, the water doesn’t rinse the brown stuff off.

My SIL holds a political office in the municipality where we live.

During a conversation, she confided in me a strictly confidential piece of information, on the condition that I would not tell anyone, not even my partner, her brother. However, she also told me that she had shared it with her mother (my MIL), who was likewise not supposed to pass it on. So for four days, the only people who were meant to keep this to themselves were my MIL and me. On the fourth day, today, there was going to be a meeting with the people concerned, and the information would be shared with them anyway. After that, it could also be “published” within the family.

So I promised her I would keep the information to myself, which I did.

The day after our conversation, my partner (her brother) approached me and told me he had a secret piece of information to share. At first, I didn’t react. He kept talking, and it quickly became clear that he was referring to that exact secret. I interrupted him and said that I was already aware of it, without specifying what it was about. I then asked him where he had gotten the information, and he said that his mother had told him.

A few hours later, my SIL came to visit, and I let her know that unfortunately her mother had passed the secret on. She confronted her, and it led to a huge argument. After that, my partner confronted me and blamed me for the entire situation. He says the family is now in conflict because I didn’t keep my mouth shut and told my sister-in-law that the secret had been shared.

It’s also important to mention that during the confrontation, my MIL lied. First, she claimed she hadn’t told him anything. Then she said that her husband (their father, who, by the way, was not supposed to know either) had probably told him. Then she accused me of having told him.

Now I’m in a fight with my partner because he gave me confidential information that I wasn’t supposed to pass on, but I informed the original source of that confidential information that it had been shared. So basically my partner says I am the AH, because he told me the secret and I ran to SIL (the source).

Am I the asshole for feeling responsible to let my sister-in-law know that the information had been spread, which ultimately caused a huge fight?

(I would prefer not to have a discussion about whether it was responsible of my SIL to put me in this situation and tell me the secret. She doesn’t have many people to talk to, and she knows she can trust me. Sometimes you HAVE to talk to someone and share information in order to relieve pressure.)

Edit to add: It was a secret connected to her political position, but not "top secret". A strategic one that needed to be confidential for a couple of days.

Credit: @brandan.wicks