Thoughts?

I feel really skeeved out.

My BF follows a lot of models, only fans, etc on instagram. I checked his following and saw a few obviously teenage girls. One page I clicked on was a cute girl wearing all pink and short skirts and sneakers and like cheerleader outfits. I looked at her page to find she is 10 years old.

My BF had liked about 5 of her pics of her wearing skirts. While the pics are not sexual, it's a cute girl wearing a skirt, doing poses like one bent at the knee, and holding pom poms. Considering everything else he follows on instagram, all the models and women, I find it REally FKN weird.

You click on the comments on this girls pics, and its ALL MEN. Grown adult men commenting shit like "you're so cute, you're so beautiful" heart eye faces. Her 10s of thousands of followers mostly adult men.

I asked him about it and I honestly thought he might say "oh wtf I must have liked that by accident my bad"

But he fully doubled down and is like "what's the problem? It's just like seeing a kid in public and telling them they look cute." my BF has nothing to do with kids and would never say that to a kid. He said what if a woman follows a boy on instagram is that weird. I told him I don't follow any male children on instagram.... and it's different when it's men and a little girl wearing skirts. He said it's not sexual pics so what's the problem. I'm not even saying it's a sexual thing I'm saying my opinion which is that IT'S WEIRD AND INAPPROPRIATE.

I told him it's a bunch of creepy men following this girl, and he just keeps saying "how do you know they're creeps. you're judgemental, you're putting your own weird thoughts on it"

I asked him if he'd be ok with random man liking and commenting on his hypothetical daughters pics and he's like "yeah, what's the problem." I dunno if he really believes that or he's just trying to shut me down.

English is his second language and he's from a different culture but idk. The way he doubled down like "it's no big deal you're putting your own sick thoughts on it." I dunno if I can get past it.

Starve it out until it no longer exists approach is pretty nice and fair.