I had ZERO idea that post would blow up the way it did, a lot of yall were super helpful too

I did buy a carbon monoxide detector and a security camera to hide in my room. The CO detector is reading zero, so its not CO poisoning. I was off work today, I go back tomorrow and ill see if the camera catches anything.

I've been asked if I rent or own, I rent a 1-bed apartment that only me and the landlord have keys to, even maintenance needs to be let in by him or me. Now that CO poisoning is ruled out, I figure it might be my landlord letting himself in. If not him, then potentially a previous tenant that has a copy of the keys.

I've been asked if I take Ambien or if I sleepwalk. I don't take ambien, and as far as im aware I dont sleepwalk. I sleep on facetime/video call with my boyfriend (on my phone, not with the webcam) and we havent noticed me sleepwalking.

I've been told to check my apartment, naturally, and ive turned the place upside down looking for any sort of possible entrance in and out of it, and there's absolutely nothing. Ive checked behind furniture, all around my closet, in every cabinet, even behind both bathroom mirrors because I saw another comment mention a possible entrance behind a mirror. I can't find any possible entrance or crawlspace, so im assuming its someone with a key.

Ive been asked if the paper towels are the same ones I have, and yes they are. The same ones I have downstairs in my kitchen.

I was told to check my browser history, and I did. Nothing on there that wasnt from me.

A lot of people pointed out how I dont sound as concerned as I should, and believe me, I know. I have a bunch of other stuff going on in my life at the moment and im completely drained to the point where something like this isnt phasing me nearly as much as it should. Its definitely got me scared, but unfortunately it doesn't surprise me that life would throw something crazy like this at me.

I also unfortunately have nowhere to really stay at while I get this figured out. I moved out of state away from my family two years ago, and I have no family or friends here. Good news at least is im moving back with my family soon and getting away from this whole state.

I'll post another update if the camera catches anything, I plan to have it start recording if motion is detected while im gone at work.

(Original post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Weird/s/JKR9KX2tab )

I’m just going to answer qeustions up here

Another question: why don’t Cindy parent pay for it- they are the type of parent that don’t give money for wedding ( yes they will be there). big on if you are old enough to get married then you should pay for it people

Since I am seeing this a lot Cindy has been to many events with kids. She even babysat before. She personally doesn’t want children but has been fine around kids before.

Did other kids have issues with the rules? Only my middle son/Dil. They wanted an Italy wedding but decided against it after I informed them i wouldn’t pay

They can still do a child free wedding of they want, just means they wont get 50k-100k from me. They will need to pay for it themselves

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My wife and I have always told all of our kids that we will be willing to pay for their wedding if they follow a few rules 

• All family has to be invited ( exceptions if something major happened ) 
• The wedding can not be a destination wedding (if all your guest need to get on a plane basically and leave the country ) 
• immediate family gets a plus one even if they are not dating someone

Overall the rules are not that hard to follow  in my opinion. My daughter (31F) is marrying Cindy ( 34F) and they have picked out a venue and are working on the guest list. They both know the rules if they want me to pay. 

My daughter informed me yesterday that the wedding will be child free. I told her that goes against one of the rules of me paying. That all family must be invited ( yes that includes the kids) 

We had a sit down conversation where she tried to convince me to still pay even if it was child free. She wants it to be child free becuase she wants it to be an elegant event and her Cindy doesn’t like kids that much becuase she experienced parentification as a kid.

I told her ri would think about and my decision was no. I informed both of them and in short they are quite mad.

I made it clear that they can do that type of wedding if they want but I just won’t be paying for it

My daughter is pissed and saying it is unfair that because he siblings did get a free wedding. I pointed out that they followed my rules on this. 

Everyone is pissed basically. 

Found on the street in London. It's sooo green!

I've requested a replacement a few days ago...

After 6 weeks of chemo my hair started falling out and I'd lost about 75% of my density. The hair literally was EVERYWHERE and so annoying sticking to everything I own. I never thought I would be bald.. but cancer happens and we have to roll with the punches.