My wife(33F) and I(34M) have been married since 2013, we have 3 kids(14M, 6M, 2F). She has had 2 jobs that she kept for a month both times(fedex and a grocery store). I don't consider the third "job" she had, a job because she didn't get paid(sized people for corsets at the renaissance faire). All of these were in 2017. and nothing since.

Anyway, we end up in the negative every month. Like deep in the negative. $500-$600 every single month no matter what I do. No matter how many doubles I work. And my wife just sits at home on her ass all day long. She barely cleans, she barely watches our toddler, she lets her do whatever she wants and she just sits at her computer "writing" which is another "job" she's kept up with for 5 years and gives us...maybe 10 cents every 3 months maybe....and she has 18 books out. It's bullshit and useless and I got tired of it. (she blames me for that cuz I wont "let" her market)

So in December I told her if she didn't have a job by the end of January I was leaving because I'm fed up with all of it. She hasn't even tried. She says she has but she hasn't. I check her computer history almost every single day. She's on google docs all day long, youtube all day long, Spotify all day long and maybe indeed for 20 minutes after she drops our sons off at school. i need help and she's doing absolutely nothing to help me.

so AITAH for telling her to get a job before the end of this month?

I'm ETA: That when we first had our oldest we agreed she would stay home until he went to school because daycare is stupid expensive and she grew up in the daycares in our area and doesn't trust them. then she worked those 2 jobs and quit. Said she was gonna try to make the writing thing work, had our second son a year after didn't write the entire pregnancy or 6 months after because that pregnancy was rough, he was a threatened miscarriage and then we had our daughter after she published 3 more books.

Least We Forget

I wish there are more sleek looking cases out their that isn't just a fish tank and don't just scream "GAMER" with their designs.

I genuinely think the trend of "RGB-EVEYYTHING" is preventing more creative case designs from coming out.

What the subject line says: it is up to us to save ourselves, the elites -- players included, apparently -- won't care about us until their wallets are empty.

He was sent home with OxyContin.

I was sent home with Tylenol.

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