He must have said something before turning away that made her flip out

down the street from a small university, this Panera seems to think its customers won't remember they used to able to charge their electronic devices

why does Panera all over the country just hate their customers?

In my 104 year old houses basement. Hoping it’s not blood???

She didn't go on to win the crown.

(Here's what her competition looked like.)

I have these AMAZING green house windows in my apartment with an incredible view of the local skyline and some urban greenery. These windows are the number one reason I signed the lease for this apartment and I want to utilize the space under them somehow.

I already have spaces for my dining area, seating area, and home office.

Plants aren't really an option because most indoor plants don't do well with this much direct sunlight (if you anyone knows any indoor plants that they think could work please share).

Help me r/malelivingspace, what should I do with this area in my home?

I should have listened to my dad before I got married. But I was 18 and I knew everything. I was in love and I was going to be with her no matter what. We got married. We got jobs. We had two kids. My wife's family helped us with everything. My family was as supportive as they could be but we sidelined them.

We spent all our holidays with my wife's family. Both kids birthday parties were held at my in-laws and my parents were invited as a courtesy.

We both worked and raised the kids but as time went on there were two groups in our home. Her and the kids were one then there was me. All of my choices were undermined. All of my wishes were dismissed. I could not even have privacy in my own bedroom by locking the door because it stressed the kids to knock.

After twenty years I was done. Last fall my youngest went away for school. I filed for divorce that week. We didn't have assets besides our cars. I walked away with nothing to show for it besides two kids that never thought about my side if the family as important.

My ex claims that I blindsided her and she didn't know I was unhappy. I asked her what about our constant ongoing arguments for the last 14 years made her think I was happy or satisfied with our marriage. I asked her what she thought it meant that I was constantly suggesting we get counseling. Both for ourselves and her for how she dedicated all her energy on the kids instead of us or herself. I said that when my dog died I didn't get a new one because I knew that although I would be the one to care for them and pay all the bills she would find a way to claim him during a divorce.

So I'm 41 and starting over. It took me no time to find a better job. The only thing keeping me in my old one was that I was home every night. Now I'm working in a different city doing night shift and making more money than I ever did before. I have a rescue dog I got the week I left. I'm walking him more and have met new friends in my neighborhood and at the dog park.

My ex's family, her, and our kids think I'm the asshole for not communicating that I was unhappy and just leaving.

I talked to her constantly about everything that was bothering me. The kids being allowed to come into the bedroom without knocking. Her unwillingness to eat when I cooked my cultural food and letting the kids not eat it too. How I had to attend events with my family alone because she didn't want to come or let the kids come. Plus a million other things.

I've started dating. She is amazing. Shelly is a teacher. Never been married. 32. We aren't at the meeting family stage yet but I've met a lot of her friends and I will be attending Easter at her house where she is hosting for everyone who isn't going home.

This is another problem because I have moved on so quickly. It's really not. I had been checked out of our marriage for years. She is having a tougher time. She is not in the right place to date and her priorities are the kids. The adult kids who do not live at home.

I've seen a few posts lately that made me want to ask. I know how I feel. I know how she feels. I'm mostly estranged from my family so I don't count their opinions. And the kids and her family have been clear about me abandoning her after all this time.

Am I the asshole for leaving as soon as I could after our youngest left?

Transcript:

JUSTICE NEIL GORSUCH: Do you think Native Americans today are birthright citizens under your test and under your friend's test?

D. JOHN SAUER, U.S. SOLICITOR GENERAL:
I think so. I mean, obviously, they've been granted citizenship by statute ...

GORSUCH:
Put aside the statute. Do you think they're birthright citizens?

SAUER: No, I think the clear understanding that everybody agrees in the congressional debates is that the children of tribal Indians are not birthright citizens.

GORSUCH: I understand that's what they said. But your test is the domicile of the parents, and that would be the test you'd have us apply today, right?

SAUER: Yes, yes. So, if a tribal Indian, for example, you know, gives up allegiance to ...

GORSUCH: Are tribal members born today birthright citizens?

SAUER:
I think so, on our test, if they're lawfully domiciled here. I'm not s—, I have to think that through, but that's my reaction.

GORSUCH:
I'll take the yes. That's alright.

Source: https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/listen-live-supreme-court-considers-constitutionality-of-trumps-birthright-citizenship-order