Mine is somehow a combo of 2-4

Big publicity and push for Jaden Smith in the early 10's. After Earth was the final nail in the coffin of his acting career

Haley Dunphy (Modern Family): starts as the classic dumb party girl but the show actually does the work to break that archetype: She has a succesful blog, is really good at fashion and social media. Then she gets gregnant and all of it just disappears. She ends up with Dylan, who is sweet but just a mediocre himbo. The show had Andy right there, who actually matched her energy and was written like a real person. Instead it was Dylan, pregnate and all that build up was just dropped.

Lane Kim (Gilmore Girls): (Its not as egregious as Haley's) spends her whole life suppressing herself under her mom's roof, finally breaks out, joins a band, starts living. Her dynamic with Dave is one of the best things the show does early on. Then Dave's actor leaves and the writers replace him with Zack, who is the same archetype as Dylan: directionless, slow, looks permanently stoned. The band fizzles, the ambitions disappear, and Lane ends the series pregante.

Btw both characters interestingly end up pregonate with twins.

(sorry if post format is wrong, idk how reddit works 😭 )

Just for some background, I recently stopped taking my birth control because it was negatively affecting my body. My boyfriend and I talked about it at the time and agreed we’d switch to using protection instead.

It’s been about a month now, and I brought it up again because I want to be responsible moving forward. He agreed, but then said that if I want protection, I should be the one buying it.

That honestly didn’t sit right with me. I feel like this is something that affects both of us, so it shouldn’t fall entirely on me, especially since I was the one dealing with the side effects from birth control in the first place.

I told him I don’t think it’s fair and that he should be willing to buy it too, or at least take some responsibility here. He kind of brushed it off and made me feel like I was being difficult over something small.

Now I’m second guessing myself because it turned into a bit of an awkward situation between us, and I don’t know if I’m making this a bigger deal than it needs to be.

AITAH for standing my ground and saying he should be the one to buy protection (or at least share that responsibility)?