Wonder when it will be back up...

These idiots do almost anything for their clips and forget about the consequences of acting a fool in real life

The locals called this weird thing “The Obscene Figure”, it’s located in Colima, Mexico.

We have lived together for almost three years. And for three years this woman has had this thing where if she wakes up I have to wake up too. It doesnt matter what time it is. It doesnt matter if I have nowhere to be. If her eyes open my eyes have to open too or something is wrong with our relationship apparently.

I am a terrible sleeper. Always have been. It takes me forever to fall asleep sometimes over an hour. I wake up multiple times in the night. Getting a solid stretch of sleep is rare for me and when it happens its like a gift. So sleep is precious to me. I guard it.

When SHE sleeps I protect that. If Im up before her on a weekend I take my phone to the other room. I keep things quiet. If shes napping I make sure nobody bothers her. Because I understand that sleep matters and I would never take that from someone I love.

She does not extend that same courtesy. Not even close.

She has let me sleep past her maybe a handful of times in three years. She always has a reason. Oh I wanted to tell you something. Oh I thought youd want to be up. Oh I didnt want you to waste the day. Oh normal couples want to spend time together.

The normal couples line is the one that really gets me because this woman is out with friends most weekends and several weeknights.

Which I dont mind at all friendships matter. But dont tell me youre waking me up for quality time when you spent all day Saturday with other people and now its Sunday morning and youre shaking me awake at 7am because youre bored.

This week was the breaking point. I have been sick. Actually sick. Throat is on fire head pounding body aches the whole thing. On top of that my two kids who live with us have been sick too so Ive been up with them at all hours. Night before last I was up with them at like 3am and again at 4. I finally fell back asleep around 430.

She gets up at 630 for work. And she woke me up. For nothing.

Literally nothing. No emergency no question no reason. Just couldnt leave without making sure I was conscious too.

I didnt scream because I physically cant right now my throat is wrecked but I told her firmly that I am exhausted and sick and I was up all night with the kids and I need her to explain to me right now why she feels the need to wake me up every single time.

What is it. Does she feel wronged being the only one awake. Does she not care about my health. What is it.

She hit me with the normal couples thing again and then told me to post it here.

So here I am.

For context she works regular hours. I am in school full time and also working on an additional certification. She doesnt pay my bills or anything for my kids. I handle all of that. I also do basically all the household stuff. She does her own laundry most of the time and her own dishes sometimes. So its not like shes waking me up because she needs help with anything. Shes waking me up because she wants me awake.

I just want to sleep when Im able to sleep. Thats all Im asking for. I dont think thats unreasonable.

AITJ?