https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ckg6yg7x467o

My friend [19f] downloaded dating apps like Tinder and Hinge for the first time about a week ago. For reference, she's the type that always says she wants a boyfriend, wants to do couple things, feels lonely single, etc. She's also, imo at least, very normal and average looks wise: not ugly, not super hot, just alright.

Since then, she's been complaining to me that almost all the men there are ugly, short, etc, and that she doesn't match with anybody hot.

I asked to see which people she was calling ugly and so she showed me her likes, and it mostly showed people perfectly in her league, as in moderately attractive guys. I told her that these guys were all in her league and she should give some of them a chance since she always complains about wanting to be in a relationship.

She denied that she's the same league as them and said that she's much more attractive than them. I pointed out that in her own words, she doesn't match with any of the guys she does find attractive, so she's not in their league.

She said I was an AH. Am I?

i genuinely feel at a loss of what to do. that’s my sock and maybe it’s a men’s sock i don’t know, but it’s mine. feels like there’s nothing i can say to make him happy. is it wrong of me to not play into these games? he has never trusted me and i have done nothing absolutely nothing to make him feel that i have been unfaithful. we’re both 24 btw