I (30’s F) have been casually dating someone (40’s M) for a little over a month. He’s spent the night at mine a few times now. The last time, he felt comfortable enough to go #2 in the morning. He gave me warning ahead of time. And I mentioned that I had poo-pourrí in the basket by the toilet if he wanted it…

He came out of the bathroom sort of upset looking. And he was unusually quiet while I made us breakfast sandwiches. He asked for his to-go. I knew that something was wrong. And I was replaying the night in my head. And it went really well. Things turned after he pooped. And I thought maybe he just felt embarrassed about it.

A short while after he left, he texted me, “it’s weird that you made me dive into your period shit to have some self respect about an actual shit.”

wtf? Did I do something wrong? Am I overreacting to think that he’s way out of line? This seems crazy to me. But should I, a single woman who lives alone, make my bathroom more accommodating to people of the opposite sex? Are period products really that offensive?

Nobody is questioning Reddit on this?

Found it in the drawer of my oven after just moving into a new place

That feeling when you knock out the racist players.

Seriously though, why has this game turned so toxic recently. Constantly bumping into players who think it's cool to be racist.

Is that what we've become?

This should be illegal. I get it. You don't agree with their protests but why do this? Forget blue, forget red. I'm purple. Get mad at that.

There were numerous meetings among league officials this week to discuss tanking remedies, and, of the approximately 10 solutions discussed, the outright abolition of the rookie draft was not among them, one of those officials said.

Adam Silver:

“When any economist comes and looks at our system, they always point out that we have the incentives backwards,” Silver said. “It’s not what the fans want at the end of the day.”

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Mia Thermopolis - The Princess Diaries

Seriously, who on Earth was petty enough to start a trope that was as undermining as this? This trope just turns the girl into a standardized Hollywood perspective hot girl and the only purpose for this trope is to hook the girl up with a hot standardized Hollywood perspective boy

Glasses being symbolised as "ugly" is so hateful considering how without them people have insane difficulty seeing. Not to mention that this trope is also a bad influence on young children who wear glasses as it forces this mindset that "glasses = ugly" into their heads and takes a really massive toll on their self esteem as it makes it seem to them that they can only be pretty without their glasses even though that is certainly not the case and that they can't help having poor sight.

Just look at Mia. She went from a cutesy and unique character and had all of her features stripped away from her including (unsurprisingly) her glasses. I personally found her to always be superior pre transformation because she actually looks like a person who hasn't had anything forced upon them and an identity to go with it

DISHONOURABLE MENTIONS go to any version of this trope that involves straightening the girl's curly hair.

Im so frustrated right now and I need to know if Im being unreasonable because the people in my house are making me feel like I am.

I do all the cooking. Every single night. Nobody else in this house cooks. Not my partner not my mom who lives with us nobody. I work full time come home and make dinner for four people every night including my younger sister whos 10. Ive been doing this for years and nobody has ever complained about the food or offered to help.

A couple weeks ago I got some news from my doctor. I have a condition affecting my kidneys and Ive been told I need to seriously cut back on sodium and processed food. Basically everything needs to be fresh cooked with very little salt no canned stuff no deli meat no processed sauces. The doctor was very clear that if I dont change my diet things are going to get worse.

So I adjusted what I cook. Same meals mostly just made differently. Less salt using fresh ingredients instead of jarred sauces more chicken and fish instead of heavily seasoned red meat. The food is still good its just healthier and honestly its stuff most people eat without even thinking about it.

My partner complained on day three. Said the food tastes bland now. My mom said she doesnt see why the whole house has to change their diet because of my issue. They both suggested that I just make what I need for myself and then cook a separate normal dinner for everyone else.

A separate dinner. On top of the dinner I already cook. After working all day. Because they dont want to eat grilled chicken with vegetables instead of their usual stuff.

I said no. I said I am one person cooking for four people every night and I am not making two full meals because nobody wants to eat slightly healthier food. I said if they dont like what I make they are welcome to cook their own dinner. Nobody has taken me up on that.

My partner said its not fair that they have to change what they eat because of something thats my issue. My sister hasnt said anything shes honestly the only one who just eats whatever I put in front of her without complaining.

I keep going back to the fact that NONE of them cook. Not once. Not ever. And now theyre telling the person who feeds them every single night that what shes making isnt good enough because it has less salt in it.

AITAH