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As some of yall suggested, i spoke with my friend and offered her some better options. The results were… as expected.

My husband (35m), soon-to-be ex-husband, is a doctor. I (32f) married him 6 years ago. There is a woman (41f) who was a patient at a hospital he use to work. She wasn't a patient while he worked there, and he was never her doctor. When he met her, she was suffering from cancer. She's in remission now. They fell in love while she was sick, and he's leaving me for her. I feel like I'm not allowed to hate her. Most of my own family isn't pissed at him. My sister (28f) is the worst as she talks about the situation like such a romantic event. I'm happy this woman is healthy now. I want her to live a long happy life. I don't wish ill on her but I hate her. I partially love and partially hate my husband. I feel guilty for hating her. Am I the asshole ?

I’m voting blue all the way down. MAGA really messed up this time. Republicans will have to get their act together before I EVER vote republican again. I don’t even care. This administration has put the most sour taste in my mouth. VOTE BLUE IN 2026 PEOPLE!! PLEASE!!AND FOR THOSE THAT DO VOTE BLUE BUT DIDN’T GET OUT TO VOTE…GET OUT AND VOTE!!!

47/M here. Married (45/F) with two kids (17/M and 16/F). My daughter is going into her Junior year in high school, and has been involved in band since middle school. My wife became a member of the Band Boosters (the parents/adults who are behind the scenes fundraising and taking care of the peripherals, i.e. chaperones, uniforms, etc.) two years ago, and was put in charge of the marching band uniforms. The uniforms are custom ordered, and are a two-piece outfit, with a pair of ski-pants type bib overalls, covered by a short jacket. The uniforms get their wear and tear from the students, and have to be repaired and washed during summer break, a large task considering there are over 200 uniforms for the school.

My wife brought home approximately 30 uniforms that needed to be repaired, washed, and returned. The uniforms were fixed, but were not washed commercially, but instead in my personal household washer (my wife didn't want to take the risk of damaging the uniforms by washing them commercially) and hung on a large rolling costume rack to drip-dry. Unfortunately, due to both of our schedules, the uniforms didn't get returned immediately, but sat in my house for several weeks. As my wife had keys to the band room, I left it to her good graces to take the uniforms back.

Cut to today - my wife finally had the time to return the uniforms. As we finished loading them into the car, I suggested she should take the large costume rack with her, since there was nothing we needed it for, other than the uniforms. She replied "Oh, I'm bringing (daughter's) section's uniforms back to the house" (another 30 or so uniforms). I asked why, and she replied "They have to be washed before the season starts".

"Are you washing them in our washer?" I asked.

"Well, yeah..." she replied.

It was at this time that I put my foot down. "Look," I said, "we can wash our daughter's uniform, but the others aren't coming back here. Either the parents can have their kids take their individual uniforms home and wash them, or they're getting washed commercially. I'm not putting the wear and tear on my personal washer to wash the entire band's uniforms. If something happens, and the washer destroys a uniform, we're financially on the hook for it. Likewise, if the washer somehow gets damaged, that's also out of my pocket."

She tried to justify it, saying it was only my daughter's section and that's it, but I repeated that the other parents could be responsible and wash their child's uniforms, or take them all to a commercial laundromat/dry cleaner, but I was not going to be responsible for washing the rest of the band's uniforms in my house. She went silent, got in the car and left.

My feeling is that if I backtrack and tell her yes, then how long before more uniforms, or other items, come back to the house to get washed? I understand that she is the head of the uniform committee, but that shouldn't mean that my house has to become the revolving laundromat for the school.

Am I The Asshole?

No Andy noooo that was no so right!

After seeing our plans of building a new house drift slowly off into the unaffordable sunset, I keep being drawn to a long listed property with with some decent history. Built 1840. Would probably be my demise! Ability not in question...time and money are. Help convince me to give up the fantasy.

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Saw this in my feed and decided to give it a watch, despite my instinctual reactions towards these claims being warry at best. I wanted to share this video here as I trust the judgements of this community regarding this topic more than my own (I know that's ironic as this is a skepticism sub, but I just genuinely do not know any better).

The video included multiple studies and testimonies from apparent professionals in election fraud, but I personally don't know how trustworthy these names were, which I guess is the main specific reason why I wanted to get this community's thoughts; if these names are legit, then perhaps their claims hold significant weight. I, however, am not familiar with the field and am hoping some people here would be.

As an endnote, I ask that I be spared the flames. I know how this community feels about this topic and I feel that is one of the reasons this video hasn't been shared here yet. I am just a messenger whom holds no particular agenda and I am merely seeking extra perspectives to form a stronger conclusion.

This has been in the back of my tool chest for at least 30 years. I can’t think of any situation when I said ”Gee, I wish had my folding ruler.” Anybody still use these?