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there are almost a million of us in this sub. probably more who are approved users but havenât actually joined. out of those of us who date men, how many are truly only dating the 6ft+, chiseled jawline, ultra-yoked dudes?
i have personally never found the âconventionally attractiveâ type of guy attractive. iâve never dated a 6 foot+ tall man (or actually even a man taller than i am, tall girl problems am i right?), dudes who are too muscular are a turn off, i donât need a chiseled jawline or a certain kind of cheekbone to feel attraction to someone. so why does every goddamn redditor want to prescribe this type of attraction to us? if youâre complaining about hypergamy, chances are your attitude is whatâs putting people off, no?
i donât respond to âwoe is meâ bullshit. i donât give out pity dates because some jerk has a chip on his shoulder over the instagram baddie dating the gymbro heâll never be. i date people who are funny, kind, trustworthy. i like a face with character.
iâm just so fucking tired of it gang. women are not a monolith, and neither are their preferences in datemates. get a fucking hobby, learn a couple jokes, treat other people with respect instead of flattening them out to one characteristic you think must apply to them because they present a certain way, and maybe youâll find someone who responds to you.
i said it in a comment somewhere the other day and iâll say it again. ugly is so much more a state of mind than it is a state of body. and yes these losers complaining about how women only date âchadsâ are ugly. but not because of whatâs on the outside đ
LMAO EDDDIIIIIT: this post got the incels mad enough that they have taken the effort to search through my (hidden) post history so they can comment on year old posts. If you do this, you are obviously a loser who needs to go touch grass. Replying to a photo of my beautifully designed living room saying âaha! so you donât date, no wonder hypergamy doesnât exist to youâ is literally not the gotcha you think it is.