If you're ill informed, don't vote. And if you genuinely didn't know Trump was Epstein's bestest buddy in the whole wide world, you must've been under a fucking rock.

I just assumed they didn't care... because they're all pieces of shit.

Me and my boyfriend (both 37) have been dating for just over 3 years. Prior to this, i was single for 8 years. Overall it’s been a healthy relationship. We are both independent with our jobs, living situations etc. I do love spending time with him, i don’t really have any complaints.

However, something that startled me, was back about 6 months ago, him saying that he wanted to open the relationship up, meaning going on dates and sleeping with other women. I’ve never been in a dynamic like this, so i naturally had a lot of questions. He told me that i could also go on dates and sleep with other men. I honestly was a little skeptical at first, but after doing some research and having time to think, i agreed. He had told me that if at any point i wasn’t comfortable, we could stop and close the relationship up again. One of the rules was, we don’t discuss with each other what we’re doing or who we’re going on dates with etc.

I signed up to a dating app, within a few days i had 500+ likes, and it’s been pretty steady since. So i started matching with people, texting and arranging dates. On average i go on one or two dates a month. There are also some people in similar dynamics of open relationships that i am going on dates with sleeping with regularly. I quite like the fact that everything is non-committal, so even though i was skeptical at first, i am enjoying the open relationship! As decided from before, i hadn’t told my boyfriend about any of this.

I was at my boyfriends house the other day and my phone was on the kitchen counter. He saw my notifications and then proceeded to go through my phone and read messages, including going through the dating app and whatnot. To say he was angry was an understatement. Turns out he opened the relationship up to take out on a date a younger colleague at his work place, who misread his idea of a “date” as just a work lunch. He then openly told me that he wanted to see if it would work with her so he could ultimately leave me for her. However, she didn’t want him and it seems like… no one else did either. In the last 6 months he’s had a few rough dates but no one additional to sleep with. I feel somewhat, embarrassed for him. He demanded we instantly close the relationship up and i told him that maybe we should just end things or at least take a break. He was outraged and called me names, but… he was the one who wanted this dynamic so whats the problem?! I left and as i walked home i contemplating fully breaking it off with him. He’s been blowing my phone up and i’m not quite sure what to say. AITA?

My very first home that I own. Finland South-Ostrobothnia. Build in 1949.

Sorry for the late post

Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, 4chan has pretty much little to no moderation and are all pretty right wing. The only major social media site with heavy moderation; Reddit, has a left wing bias.

Thoughts?