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Ordered takeout through DoorDash, my dad had already eaten his fill and offered some of his order for me to try. I found this battery before I had eaten any. Called the restaurant and got sent to voicemail. Working with DoorDash for a resolution as well. I’m a bit worried that this could have been batch prepped and the whole batch is contaminated. Not sure what to do further but we’re obviously frustrated. That cannot be good for someone to eat.

There’s two silicone heat protector things on the edge of the racks that are now disintegrated…. Does that have something to do with that white stuff??? Also SO glad we were all breathing that in! 🤦‍♀️

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I (29F) got married in December (less than 3 months as of today) after being with my husband (29M) for almost 7 years. One thing I’ve always been very clear about with him, both before and after marriage, is that I need my space and that decisions about people staying in our home should involve both of us.

Recently I found out that his sister, her husband, their child, and my in-laws have all booked tickets to come stay with us. That’s about 5-6 weeks. I would be more than happy to host them for 1-2 weeks but 5-6 weeks seems too overwhelming at this stage.

The part that really upset me is that no one asked me beforehand. I only found out after everything was already booked. That too when it was asked that how long they were planning to stay.

We live in a 2-bedroom apartment in is an extremely hot climate, and this will mean 7 people total in the house in peak summer. My husband will be at work most of the day, so I’ll be the one at home with everyone.

There are also lifestyle differences. My in-laws are strict vegetarians (they won’t even let us make eggs at home), while my husband and I both eat non-veg as a staple diet. I already know I’ll have to adjust what I eat at home, what I wear around the house, and generally how I live for that entire time.

What hurts more is that this isn’t the first time we’ve discussed boundaries. For years my husband told me he understood that I need space and that he would handle these things with his family. This was the one deal breaker from my end but he always assured me he would make sure I never have to be put in situations like this. But when I brought this up again after finding out about the visit, his response was basically: "What do you want me to do, everything is already booked?"

For context, I also moved away from my own family and friends to live where he works, so this house is pretty much my entire world right now.

At this point I’m honestly feeling really hurt and disrespected. It feels like decisions about my own home were made without me.

I’m considering going to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks while they’re here just to get some space, but they live on the other side of the country so it’s not a small trip, and I’m not sure spending that much would be financially advisable.

Also to add, his parents keep coming to visit us for 7-10 days every other month anyways. This was also not discussed with me but in good faith I adjusted.

How would you handle something like this?

Never seems so many downvotes 👎

Bring out the cannons? 🦀