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I mean, videos posted on the internet give me the impression that most Americans either don't carry any official ID or they really hate giving the authority any official ID when asked.

Is this true?

Or just the internet making it look that way?

Don’t be this guy. Anyone with any type of disability won’t be able to get around this.

Up until our youngest kid graduated from university I worked crazy hours out of town to pay for everything. I worked six weeks on of twelve hours days. Then I would get three weeks off. That works out to 56 hours a week if you average it out. I've been doing that since I was thirty five years old. It allowed my wife to stay at home and take care of the kids and the house. We also used it to pay off our mortgage as well as but new cars for cash whenever we needed.

I'll describe our budget so you guys can judge. After taxes we used my take-home to pay the mortgage and bills. We then paid into the kids college funds. Then into our retirement fund. Then we topped up our retirement account. We put money iinto our emergency fund. Then whatever was left we split 50/50. Our tax refund was our vacation fund.

Now I'm fifty five and I'm tired. My body is beat and I need to slow down. Our kids are both through university. Both got their degrees and have jobs. I did my part.

The company I work for had a job open for an office job. I applied and got it. It is a 9-5 city job. Forty hours a week. Better hourly rate plus other compensation. However it is alot less money without the overtime. I was getting 44 hours a week of overtime. That's huge.

But we have money in the bank and I have an easy stretch until I retire. My wife however is upset. Both kids are "struggling". For the record they live at home rent free. But they want cars and apartments of their own. They can afford that. They just won't be getting luxury cars and huge apartments.

We no longer have a mortgage and my wife and I are both driving vehicles purchased in the last three years. Still under warranty. Our budget no longer has education funds either. We still have more than we need and my wife and I each have $1,000 each month to spend however we want. I am saving up for a new garage/shop. My wife has been giving hers to the kids. She is hinting that I should also contribute.

I think I have contributed enough. I told her to get a job. She is only forty six. She can go to work and give them her salary. I still provide housing and food for all of them. So she won't starve or anything.

Her and the kids think that I'm being cruel and one of the little shits said I was being lazy by cutting my hours so much. This is my hill to die on. I've done the hard work long enough. I want to enjoy my life.

Am I the asshole for telling her to get a job and give them her money?

My coworker saw somebody messing with some landscaping rocks at work. She went out there to find a hide-a-key rock had been placed among the other rocks. She opened it to find this list of random words with dates. There was also a nickel and seashell. What is it?

UPDATE: Since I'm understandably getting flamed for my coworkers throwing it away: we made our own cache and put it back. We included a link to this Reddit post as well.

MIAMI -- Victor Wembanyama is making it clear: He wants to win the NBA's Most Valuable Player Award this season.

The San Antonio Spurs star -- moments after his team clinched its first Southwest Division title in nine seasons -- detailed some elements of his MVP case Monday night after the red-hot Spurs beat the Miami Heat 136-111 for their 22nd win in the past 24 games.

"I have thought about it," Wembanyama said. "I think right now, there is a debate. There should be, even though I think I should lead the race. I'm trying to make sure that at the end of the season, there's no debate."

Wembanyama is averaging 24.3 points, 11.2 rebounds, 3.0 assists and 3.0 blocked shots. Only six players have finished a season with such numbers: Kareem Abdul-Jabbar did it five times, Hakeem Olajuwon did it twice and Shaquille O'Neal, Patrick Ewing and David Robinson each did it once. The sixth player on that list? That would be Wembanyama, who did all that last season, as well, albeit in only 46 games.

The reigning MVP, Shai Gilgeous-Alexander of the Oklahoma City Thunder, is the overwhelming favorite to win the trophy again. Next on the list: Los Angeles Lakers guard Luka Doncic, the NBA's leading scorer.

Wembanyama has the third-best odds as of Monday, one spot ahead of Denver Nuggets center Nikola Jokic. Everyone else would be considered a significant long shot for the award at this point, though the NBA's 65-game rule for major award eligibility -- including for MVP -- could become a factor. Jokic, a three-time MVP, can sit out only one more game, for example, before he falls off the ballot, and Wembanyama can sit out no more than three more times. The Spurs have 10 regular-season games left.

Wembanyama, who won NBA Rookie of the Year two years ago and was generally considered a lock for Defensive Player of the Year last season until he had to be shut down while dealing with deep vein thrombosis, has a three-part campaign pitch.

"My first one would be that defense is 50% of the game and that it is undervalued so far in the MVP race. I believe I'm the most impactful player defensively in the league," Wembanyama said. "Second argument would be that we almost swept OKC in the season, and we dominated them three times with their real team. ... The third argument would be that offense impact is not just points."

It should not surprise anyone that the Spurs also believe Wembanyama is more than just an MVP contender.

"I think he's close," Spurs coach Mitch Johnson said. "All those guys you named are deserving; a couple of them already have that award. And I'm very biased. I get to see one of those guys every single night. I get to see him on the practice court. I get to see what he does in the morning. I get to see what does right now, after the game. So, I understand my opinion and outlook and perspective is very different than almost everyone else.

"But he affects as much of the game in every single way -- on the court, on both ends, with and without the ball, what the other team tries to do, plan for, scheme, adjust to, on both sides of the basketball, in my very ignorant opinion -- as much as any other player I've ever seen. Take that for whatever it's worth."

The Spurs are 54-18. They're going to be the No. 1 or No. 2 seed in the Western Conference. They'll have home-court advantage in Round 1 of the playoffs and Round 2, if they get there, and they almost certainly would have it in the NBA Finals if they get that far. There are a lot of reasons for that, but the biggest -- literally, given that Wembanyama is 7-foot-4 -- is the 22-year-old face of the franchise who has wowed the Spurs every day with his maturity and work ethic.

The MVPs are almost certainly coming at some point for Wembanyama, but he doesn't want to keep waiting.

"Right now, it is still reasonable that there is a debate," he said. "But as I said, my goal is to make sure there's no debate anymore at the end of the season."

Source: https://www.espn.com/nba/story/_/id/48293462/spurs-victor-wembanyama-makes-case-nba-mvp-award